Hi, I am posting this question here in this forum section. Not completely sure if this is the section to ask in.
Anyway, I am a transwoman and little over one year post-op now. (vaginoplasty) I am back at my regulair schedule of playing with XXL size butt plugs and dildos, in circumference of 10 inch. I noticed that almost every time I play with the bigger sizes, 8 to 10 inch dildos, I get this feeling of needing to pee, although I can't until I remove the dildo, at which time the feeling of needing to pee is sometimes gone.
This feeling I didn't have when I was still pre-op. Will this be because of the way anything is inside now, like bladder location to urine opening distance and angle and distance from rectum?
Also I noticed I can not pee (in a cup) with the dildo (10 inch circumference) inside me. Once removed I can pee, which makes me think that using XXL toys is perhaps pressing against the urine "thingie" that goes from bladder to vulva?
I'm not sure if I want to ask my doctor, since this is a little to personal to share with her. Nothing hurts, but I just get interrupted in playing and don't want to pee my bed.
PS I do a cleaning enema before play as well as pee a few times before starting to play, to be as empty and clean as I can be.