Anally Exposed

See my post and image on prostate play with vibrator with my wife. When we start , I lay face down naked flat on bed on a towel. I here the snap of the KY tube opening. She spreads gel on the vibrator. I then hear the snap close. She then says” open your cheeks.” I reach back and spread both sides open. I can feel the cool air on my anus and anticipate the insertion. If not open enough she says “wider”!

She also uses left hand thumb and finger to spread my anus wider. I am” stretched” at this point . She touches anus with tip of vibrator , smears gel a bit and quickly inserts it up my rectum 3 inches ( 10 “ long 3 speed toy) including handle) No pain but always startling to feel the fast penetration . Quickly changes to exquisite pleasure. I moan thru the process of her butt fing me to orgasm.

My wife. My wife likes for me to penetrate her vagina from behind while she stands beside bed and bends over. This exposes her anus. We do not do anal sex as such but sometimes she reaches back with both hands and spread opens her rectum. Says she like to feel the air as I hump her. Sometime she has me do it by saying,” Spread me open”. I pull her cheeks apart and slightly open her rectum. I have also at times put a glove on, Lube a finger w KY and insert it about 2 inches into her rectum. I then put my erection into her vagina. I can then feel my cock with the inserted finger . A big fetish for me. I think she tolerates it just to please me. I like to say, “ I’m going to sodomize you my love” just before I insert my finger. She always says “ok please be gentle “.

I like it any way it comes. I feel since I consider myself somewhat submissive that being ordered is a turn on. As far as spreading the cheeks I'm always Happy to Oblige the Command and equally happy to have it done by my partner. Being versatile gives me the opportunity to give the command as well slowly work my way towards the end prize and touch tease and satisfy .

The wife inserting a nice 12 inch dildo is great but even better when she "forces" me to insert it myself and not do it all 12 at once but a couple inches at a time. At the end she takes over the driving it in and out while I fix the hard-on which is begging for attention.

Depends on the play.

Each 'session' is different depending on many factors.

Since I enjoy bondage being "helpless" is a turn on. Being helpless lends to my partner spreading me open. So if my hands are not of use to me, definitely want to be spread. Best would be a third person to assist in the opening of my cheeks so my partner can insert whatever they desire.

Of course if my hands are mobile I will gladly assist.

I find it very erotic for my wife to spread her cheeks for me. If I am bent over in front of her, it does not matter to me if she spreads my cheeks or I hold them apart for her. When I do it myself, I prefer to get a handful of "cheek" in each hand while extending my finger tips to the edges of my anus to spread it open as well. When she spreads my cheeks, I like it best when she places the palm of her hands on each cheek and pushes them apart while placing her thumbs on either side of my anus to apply pressure opening it up.

@Turkey1

Speaking of spread cheeks, your photo albums have some of the most gorgeous and erotic such pictures!

It depends on the situation. In general, and especially if doing medical play, I prefer the other person to separate and open my cheeks, either using both hands or the two finger method. It's the feeling of being spread apart like that, plus the excitement of being looked at in such a personal and private place. Touching there is nice too ?

I haven't been fortunate enough to be in this situation yet, but if it happens, my preference would be the "doctor" spreading my buns open using the two-finger method. This leaves his other hand to handle other "inspection' needs that ensue....

My first choice would be having a nurse spread my cheeks with two hands, with the doctor then doing the rest.

Mom would always pry my little boy cheeks apart... later with my wife administering, it was easier for me to spread for her... likewise when she stuffed me with cucumbers I'd spread for her, except once in awhile when I was to receive it face down; I loved for her to just force it in without spreading. Nowadays with the American massage therapist, there's no pretense. She works on my cheeks and upper legs a bit then while I'm still face down she just goes for it, pumping me with a finger then 2-3-4-fist. The Korean massage therapist, always politely asks if I want her to play with my ass this time (well, duh!!!). Sometimes during the body scrub I'll raise up on my knees which spreads me apart and she'll really go to town making sure my crack and hole are squeaky clean.

Well, if you're partner is using 2 hands to spread your ass cheeks, that leaves your partner with no other hands to do anything else to your ass. So, to enjoy spreading your ass cheeks while enjoying someone else doing some insertion, here's an idea.

Reach back with your hands and spread your ass cheeks, and let the inserter free to insert! I have a problem with this while my wife is having fun with me. My ass gets so wet I can't get any grip with my hands/fingers to get anymore anal spread.

At that point my asshole is open so well that I don't need further spread, and just fuck my ass with whatever you want and make me cum!!

While is a 69 position my wife would often scoot me down so my ass would be totally accessible to her and I would grind against her pussy while she would spread my cheeks open to look at my butthole. This made her cum for awhile then it progressed to her fingering my ass ....I was glad to be facing away ..feel very exposed in that position..but also exciting

I find it exceedingly awkward to reach behind myself to spread my own cheeks. That would ruin any play doctor exam.

The feeling of exposure with my cheeks spread is very exciting to me.

I prefer having them spread. Yet, of course, there's something sexy about, when spreading them one's self, being told "wider", "wider", "okay, seriously, wider still"

I can't think of a single time that I've been asked to spread my own cheeks. However, I do really, really enjoy being forced to expose that part of my body. Most recently I've gotten into bondage as a sub, so if there's any spreading of my cheeks or exposing my anus to be done, that's up to my Dom to do. But whenever possible, I'll suggest to my Dom various positions that will naturally expose me and put me on display.

For example, one time I've suggested being put into a leapfrog position and my spanking Dom readily agreed. I was already stripped completely, so down on my knees I went. I bent forward, separated my knees a bit, and my arms were pulled between my parted legs. The cuffs on my wrists were then hooked to similar cuffs on my ankles. So now I was in this wonderful ass-up, head-down position without any way to escape. My Dom spanked me a bit more and played with my ass a bit before releasing me.

At another time (again it was with a spanking Dom), I was bent over a large padded saw-horse-like-thing (more like a pommel horse actually). Once again my wrists were cuffed to one side at the floor level and my feet were spread widely apart and my ankles cuffed on the other side of the horse. So my upper and lower body was stretched and leaning over the sides of the horse with only my ass up on top. I was spanked, felt and generally groped in that position for several minutes by several different guys.

If I remember correctly, that time I think I was still wearing my jockstrap. That adds to the excitement for me since it emphasizes just what areas of your body are completely exposed and about to receive some "attention". For me the feeling of being in total submission and helpless is increased when I'm still wearing a jockstrap. After all, your genitals are still tightly bound-up and covered by the strap, so you know you're not going to be allowed to use them in any way for your own pleasure. But your ass is fully exposed and completely vulnerable. It's a really nice feeling.

I enjoy the subservience of being told to spread my cheeks wide open and stay that way...I do not think there is much more of an intimate experience than being vulnerable, exposed and inspected back there.

I suppose her creativity will prevail. She knows me and I trust her. Nice relationship and back there she is in control. With roles reversed I prevail usually with two fingers.

A very good question !

The feeling of being exposed was always erotic for me, even as a youngster.

As a matured adult now, it is equally exciting still and as the requirement of my giver of enemas, to have me begin on hands and knees fully exposed so that she can lubricate my bottom sufficiently for the insertion of a very long tube, using her delicate loving fingers, sends me into orbit each and every time, almost as incredibly as in the first time, when it felt so special.

To this day, I am still unable to describe adequately, just what it is that so affects me this way. All I know, is that it is just as strong a sensation both physically & emotionally now, as then.

When she parts my cheeks and tells me "just a little bit more I must take" (of her exposing that tight hole and pulling my buttcheecks apart) several times over & over again...it is all I can do, to just contain my emotions and not allow myself to release something I do not want to, too early, as I know that I am in this for a long while before the end will be here.

Yes, being exposed with that cool air down there and all that attention and delicate touching. Well, it is something to behold for sure !

Must I endure this time & time again ? I will then, do my very best. I thank you.

I wish I had an answer for you, I haven't had enough anal play to find out.

For me I like them to be spread open by the person playing with me. Feels more erotic and exposed. Which I like feeling exposed is a big turn on for me.

I love my ass played with when I am clean. They don't have to order me. They can just pull me across their lap. I can lay there for hours and even go to sleep. I know I keep reflecting back on the girl who started me on enemas but she used to love to have me lay across her lap on the couch while we watched a movie. She would be nude as well. It was usually after our bath. But one time she was doing it and put some KY on her slim finger. She kept sliding it in me. It was hot. She had really long brunette hair. When I say long I mean long as in, if she went to sit down she had to pull it aside to keep from sitting on it. Anyway for over an hour, I thought she was just playing with and in my ass. What she was actually doing was sliding her hair in my ass. She got the idea because she knew I liked the colon tube when it was sliding out so she thought why not hair. I was hooked after that.

Partner to spread them, on my side two, two finger method, on all fours pull one cheek apart

Nothing hotter then a man on all fours, ass high in the air. I’m kneeling behind him. Spread his checks, expose his asshole. I’m so turned on, I lick, finger and tongue fuck his asshole before I start to massage his prostate. Love to hear the moaning.

Nothing hotter then a man on all fours, ass high in the air. I’m kneeling behind him. Spread his checks, expose his asshole. I’m so turned on, I lick, finger and tongue fuck his asshole before I start to massage his prostate. Love to hear the moaning.

@Assme Will you marry me? 😉 LOL

Nothing hotter then a man on all fours, ass high in the air. I’m kneeling behind him. Spread his checks, expose his asshole. I’m so turned on, I lick, finger and tongue fuck his asshole before I start to massage his prostate. Love to hear the moaning.

Nothing hotter than being that guy! ? or reversing positions.

Being seen back there...it's not even like your sex being seen, it's a more intimate place, that is taboo.

There is a mosaic of feelings--- embarrassment, arousal, excitement, and vulnerability.

@Assme, love your description. There is nothing hotter for me than being on all fours, totally exposed in every possible way for my wife. When things get going, the scene becomes primal.

When wife does my prostate massage with the vibrating wand, am in one of 2 positions to begin.

1. Laying flat face down. She lubes the wand the says” open”. I reach back with right hand and pull back right cheek. She spreads me open with her left hand pulling my cheek aside. She pulls farther than I. I raise up a bit for her to see anus. Anus feels stretched and knowing that I am going to be penetrated and dominated turns me on even more. She Spreads some lube on anus and the inserts wand about 3 inches up my rectum and begins the vibrating massage. After about 10 mins or so I get up on knees while she continues to move the wand while milking my penis up and down. Thick Prostate fluid begins to drip on towel . I tell her when I am about to cum and as I moan and ejaculate she turns vibrator on high while raising handle up to put even more pressure on prostate .

2. Bending over bed. She pretends she is my nurse practitioner and tells me to face the bed, Take my pants down and to bend clear over with my chest flat on bed. She then says ,” please reach back and separate your cheeks wile I inspect your anus. I am going to now insert this instrument into your rectum.” “Take some deep breaths and relax.” She then , as above, inserts the lubed wand into my rectum about 3 inches, and begins to slowly “ butt f “ me. When I squeeze on the wand, I can feel fluid squirt thru urethra. Again she raises the handle a bit to put pressure on gland,Then reaches under and strokes my penis until I again moan and ejaculate onto the towel. She puts even more pressure on prostate. I reach back again to spread cheeks and she removes wand slowly.

In both cases, I drip a lot of fluid prior to ejaculation. Sometimes after a few mins. She says “ squeeze on the wand”;I can feel the fluid squirt thru urethra prior to ejaculation.