Exquisite Agony

I can relate to that. I think that it hurts so good. Same thing as Exquisite Agony.

Chuck

That "exquisite agony" of the desire to fill more and distend vs. evacuate generates intense sexual tension and satisfaction for me. Delightfully satisfying.

Eric

Isn't that what REALLY drives all of us?

That weird mixture of pleasure and pain that makes an enema what it is??

The pain the loss of control, the ultimate control exerted by the enema!

LisaK.....I maust agree with you 100%. The pain pleasure thing is most intense.

I also like the feeling I get as I administer it;

She is enduring it for me. That struggle of the tremendous urge to expel, the sting of the soap, and the cramps is a very special, and she is enduring that with toes curled, for me.

I feel that is being done to show me that she will take it for me. In spite of the fact that she is paying for it with her discomfort.

It is the sizzle to the steak

While it is true the enema for me is both pain and pleasure, the pleasure far outweighs the pain. I love the feeling of being filled, of being full of the enema, and that part of my brain that tells me enough is enough. Then there is the exciting feeling of being more and more empty until the process is over and the delightful exhaustion takes over and that state of bliss is a reality once more.

Agree with all the replies but have to add that the pleasure and exquisite pain is heightened significantly when in submissive mode and the enema is administered by an experienced Dom...

Like Mom always said, "an enema HAS to hurt to work good!"

Except for excessive cramping sometimes or chemical irritation by certain solutions or overly intense urges to expel, none of my enemas ever hurt, and they certainly don't need to be painful to produce good evacuation. Most actual cleansing enemas I've done for medical procedures or just rare constipation just do their job fine without hurting. Now if your definition of hurting is withstanding the feeling of being filled internally with water or pressure producing distention, I guess you could say it hurts. But to me, the usual filling and water movement and internal pressure isn't a pain sensation in any way - it's enjoyable. I think it just depends on your definitions of pain and what actually happens to you during any given enema. Usually mine have minimal to no cramps or irritation, but occasionally it occurs. The vast majority of mine are extremely enjoyable and erotic, even for actual cleansing. If I actually want to experience some more than normal cramps or irritation or gurgling on a certain day, I'll add some extra Castile or glycerin, but most of mine are saline or mild Castile soap. My usual these days is 4-4.5 quarts with great pressure/distention feelings and eroticism but no pain. I've even been up to 5 q one time with nothing but pleasant pressure. And this discussion is starting to make me want to go experience one right now!

Eric

In most cases ericmason is right, it doesn't have to hurt. You can certainly do an enema in such a way as to increase the cramps and urge, but in most cases there's an odd feeling, a bit of discomfort and an urge. The one exception I would put is when you really need one. Generally in that case it is a strong urge and cramps and definite psychological discomfort, though not usually real pain.

What a great way to put it.