Showing large labia

Anyone have any experience of their or their partner's visible labia minora or clit hood being commented on or laughed at?

Annie,

I have never laughed or insulted a lady because of what her vagina or lips and any other part of her female anatomy looks like.

We are all individuals and a man who is seeing the females most private parts should enjoy them or don't be in the situation. We all age and our parts age also. So in the mean time let's enjoy!!!!!!!!

That would be so rude in my opinion. Would you laugh at someone with a glass eye or othe deferment? People are who they are we have little control over theses kind of things and I personally find all naked bodies beautiful.

Why would large labia be laughed at? I do not get it.

@Michael001 why are you talking about aging? 😮 Ladies do not get large labia because they have aged, it is nothing to do with that. I grew mine when I was developing. Girls some times have bigger ones than others.

@Amethyst is right. Large labia have NOTHING to do with aging. Some women are just naturally more blessed than others!

I for one LOVE large labia! It’s so much fun to tug on and lick and suck into my mouth and pleasure her. And seeing them protrude or dangle between her legs is oh so sexy!!

Of course they are more rare and I’ve been with women with very small and almost non existent labia minora, and they were beautiful and fun to play with too. I just love pussy! Lol

@CJ1999 said

@Amethyst is right. Large labia have NOTHING to do with aging. Some women are just naturally more blessed than others!

Yes, absolutely. Inner labia naturally come in different shapes and sizes in young women. My own girlfriends before I married (and there were more than a few) were very variable in size, and also the clitoral hood was visible with some and not with others.

I can only think that it is porn giving rise to this myth that inner labia are uniformly small in youth, and only grow as a sign of aging, or even childbirth. Wrong.

Laughing at the shape of intimate body parts would be stupid and immature in my opinion. It also betrays a lack of experience.

Not to TMI or anything but if anything labia get SMALLER after menopause, not larger.

Your labia get fuller at puberty and then MAY shrink at menopause.

My own girlfriends before I married (and there were more than a few)

Braggart! I'm jealous, I did NOT have a lot of sexual encounters before marriage... 😄

I know that some women feel embarrassed because their inner labia and clit peeks out of their outer lips. They don't need to be as men find that very attractive and sexy. Any comments would be positive and they most certainly would not be laughed at.

Excuse me. I was never "blessed " to have one, but let me assure you, I also never heard the first man complain.

Guess they were just glad to be getting what they were getting.

One of my daughters has a clam the other has a tulip and I think is slightly envious of her sister's clam, but she always made light of her longer inner lips. She says her longer inner lips keeps her boyfriend's penis warm. Around Chanukah and Christmas time, she has made jokes/puns about her Labia Menorah (minora).

The surgery to make the inner lips smaller is fairly simple - but I think it is criminal to convince women that their beautiful lady parts need to be "improved". RARELY is labioplasty necessary, or from a man's point of view even desirable.

Doc

She has no intention of doing anything about her labia. She has an enviable body and isn't shy, so any problem would be her boyfriend's and I doubt he has complained.

I will first tell you that I am no expert or even remotely close to being well versed on the female anatomy. I will however claim to have some understanding that each of us are created differently and that includes our physical self as well as our mental and emotional selves.

By quietly reading, observing and meeting a few new people here on Zity, I have learned ( in a short time ) how divers a group of people we are and how our environment and physical being has shaped each of us.

That being said, I would suggest that anyone who might make fun or berate you about your body ( or its parts ) or likewise ridicule an idealism or desire should just be ignored and not allowed to cause anyone distress. Constructive comments and discussions should be welcomed with "constructive" being the key word.

Thank you Zity for allowing me to be a remote part of this group and to learn and better understand how it is ok to be unique and different and still be NORMAL.

I have replied to this post before but in my experience ( limited as it is ) that the few woman I have been with that have large lips have been very open and sexual adventuress also most of them are more likely to be squirters don’t know if that has something to do with the way there libia reacts or if there are just more nerves there .

I remember talking about this on here a while back. My sister was born with large labia, bigger boobs, and a bigger ass. I was robbed. She is two years older than me and I have always been jealous. On the other hand, she doesn't like her large labia. She has talked many times about getting labiaplasty. Her girlfriend, another friend and I keep talking her out of it. The other friend I mentioned has large labia as well. There are some hassles that go along with it. I can remember from when I was 12 and she started asking me if I could see anything when she had on a bikini, shorts etc. If she gets in the water she has to in a nonchalant way fix it before getting out of the water. If she doesn't you can see a camel toe. If she is wearing a solid color like yellow you can also see the outline of her labia. She usually wears floral prints. Different materials will show it also. But she was always reluctant to have sex with anyone new with the lights on

@docinny45 Exactly! I hate when certain men think a labiaplasty is necessary regardless of a healthy vagina. Why cause excess pain?

I think it's ridiculous to rate a woman's (or a man's, for that matter) secondary sex attributes! We all have what we have, and if you value your partner for what she/he IS, rather that what they HAVE, then you have a real appreciation of them! If, on the other hand, you approach a partner with a mental checklist of desirable/undesirable sexual attributes then in my opinion you are intellectually shallow, and will likely go through life dealing with failed relationships. We're all human beings here, NOT cattle at a livestock show!

I am in no way saying there is anything wrong with a woman having large labia but if it makes them uncomfortable I can understand why someone could want labiaplasty.

Thank the gods I was circumcised as a baby so I was able to avoid the pain as an adult but if I had to do it I would, despite the pain. Plenty of people are more than happy to do painful things to themselves in order to like their bodies better.

I think it's ridiculous to rate a woman's (or a man's, for that matter) secondary sex attributes!

The labia/vulva are PRIMARY sexual characteristics because they are directly involved with reproduction.

Breasts, less body hair, more rounded features are secondary sexual characteristics.

Thank the gods I was circumcised as a baby. . . .

The gods are Odin and Thor.

If anything, my wife's gorgeous labia have just been admired/desired.

I guess "The Gods" could be Odin or Thor. It sounds like something I probably started saying after watching Game of Thrones ?.

I don't care what size labia a woman has, I just want her to cum in my mouth. Nothing better than licking a woman's warm cum. 😜

She has no intention of doing anything about her labia... so any problem would be her boyfriend's and I doubt he has complained.

Very glad to hear that she has zero intention.

Each to their own and if someone wants labial reduction that's fine but I really would never do it, especially if a boyfriend didn't like them.

I've got quite a tidy clam but I love having my labia sucked during oral so if they were bigger great.

Like most things between a woman's legs they are rich in sensitive nerve endings so bigger can be better.

If you have got to the stage where you have panties off and you are offering your pussy on a plate to a guy I can't imagine anyone has ever stopped because of the girls labia.

Celebrate the diversity of our pussys

Try to disregard laughing IDIOTS!

I'm a fan of lusty long labia lips. My tongue and lips and eyes (quite visually stimulating) enjoy them immensely.

I have small inner lips and small clit, I have had an idiot in the past ask "where is it" well stupid make it feel good and you'll find it !

😃

What very positive responses from everyone. My partner has had her outie commented on before, so it's good to know this isn't the norm.

Over the many years I only had the pleasure of a Gal with Long inner lips once.

Can't tell you what a fantastic turn on it was to lick, suck and just rub them on my face.

The only thing she did not want to do was go to the [adult] Nude beach She was very self conscious about them. Took a bit but eventually went full nude. I got hard as hell watching males and females look and smile.