With my first wife, I dumped my fetishism on her after we got married. We lasted 4 years. I "broke it" to my second wife, a RN, after we got married. I lied at first, about bedwetting and incon issues. She accepted it, was concerned, and even got into diaper play when I finally 'fessed up. But, it ended after 15 years, she said I loved my diapers more than her, and she used my DLism against me in the divorce. Wife number three, IS my wife, with full knowledge of my leanings. It was either that or we go our own separate ways before anything got started, now, nearly two years ago. With me, 53, and her, 46, and her very "vanilla", she doesn't understand things but accepts them, and says it's MY thing.
Has anyone a little older, married or in a LTR, been able to eventually bring their partner to acceptance and, perhaps, participation, giving hope to those who feel very alone and that there is no chance they will ever find an acceptant partner, and have to indulge themselves alone or continue to hide what they enjoy forever?
Did you do anything special to have your partner meet your needs? Did you have to compromise and offer to meet something special to THEM in trade?
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THE MORE OPEN WE ARE, THE MORE ACCEPTED WE'LL BE!