Did mom know the psychological impact of giving you enemas?

A psychologist would likely say that every member of this site has a psychological problem. What difference does it make? We're ALL "abnormal"

Oh so true.

@Soapy4me As my sociology professor would say it is no fun being normal. We are all a little "weird." It is part of being human and making life more fun!

As my sociology professor would say it is no fun being normal.

That is one of the reasons why I don't ascribe to any of those 'Golden Age' or 'Oh so wonderful 50s' memes when supposedly no one ever locked their doors, there was no crime and everyone knew their place. Things weren't any more or less normal back then than now.

And indeed, normal can be very very boring. Which is maybe why conformity has such a bad reputation and why starting in the late 60's people just got fed up with boring, everyday normality ...

My mother would surely be horrified to learn her habit of sticking her fingertip in my rear to give me suppositories, her spankings, and other hygienic, disciplinary and medical activities she and our other adult females submitted me to in childhood, left me with a fixation on the rear end and a medical fetish.

My mother would surely be horrified to learn her habit of sticking her fingertip in my rear to give me suppositories, her spankings, and other hygienic, disciplinary and medical activities she and our other adult females submitted me to in childhood, left me with a fixation on the rear end and a medical fetish.

She would probably be horrified as would my mother had she known what it did for me but I get the feeling that neither you nor I really have a problem with the fetish that I got stuck with. I'm having the time of my life with it.

Since I cannot recall s single time when Mom raised the subject of enemas from my teen years on. it is hard to tell whrther she felt guilty for the treatments, or just shy about discussing an adult subject. This would include the rectal lubing with her finger, which she did not hesitate to give me.

For me my mom followed the tradition of giving me an enema when I was sick. I don’t think she knew about the psycological impact on my life but I thank her and do not blame her for making me anal erotic. At one time I was staying with my grand mother I was sick and she told my uncle to give me an enema in front of her in front of my brother and another uncle. I felt so exposed but it gives me great memories. I am so happy I am a klismo

I've removed the tangential, off-topic discussions from this thread and relocated most of those posts elsewhere.

I received one fleet as a kid. I turned out alright. I am grateful for that enema though. Constipation that is severe and not treated can make you very sick. Plus, many people who received enemas as kids are great people. Employable, smart, and more.

I received one fleet as a kid. I turned out alright. Plus, many people who received enemas as kids are great people. Employable, smart, and more.

I agree about smart but the fact is you use enemas all the time and the reason is that one Fleet enema from mom. It happens

I have to say from my perspective I really got into enemas into my teens. The fleet may or may not have something to do with that.

Peace and respect to all, Megan

Like many late bloomers, I came to enemas as a teenager at the suggestion of one of my girlfriends. The only enemas I ever had as a kid was during a serious illness and the memory of those small bulb enemas at age 4-5 was vague at best.

So, insofar as psychological impact as a child was concerned, there was little, if any. But the real impact came many years later as I wrestled with the fact that I really enjoyed enemas and wondered if I was totally alone in the world as one who loved to indulge in what many people considered an arcane procedure.

Deb

I doubt the phrase "Psychological Impact" entered the public consciousness until the 1970s, psychology students may have heard it but not the average mom, and certainly no grandmothers, so I doubt it was a consideration.

I doubt that mom gave any thought to the "psychological impact" when she was giving me an enema. In those days it was common for kids to get an enema for constipation or unidentified causes for a tummy ache.

But as Deb said, my psychological impact was wondering why I liked those enemas when most everybody else said they hate enemas. As she said, I felt I was the only one who liked enemas. We know now that some of those who said they hate enemas just said that, as I sometimes did, to avoid others thinking we were weird. Today because of the internet we know there are others like us who enjoy our enemas but we still are a small minority.

@Cheryl77177 Thank goodness for a forum like zity especially for those who like enemas. So much good advice. Some are klismos, other's aren't. Both are good choices.

WOW! A healthy discussion on a very sensitive issue.

I'm not getting on anybody's side, but applaud all of YOU for taking your time to share as you have in this thread, and without significant flaming.

NOW, go out and make it a great day for humanity!

@Dr_Marcus_Welby Marcus, you and everyone have a good day! Spread love and kindness!?

I have always wondered about this one. Maybe she just thought they were good for me, but they sure made an impact

I am sure that she did as our home enemas progressed along a timeline from childhood through my early adulthood as a young healthy man and I might add, as was our experience, that the referenced 'psychological impact' was reinforced as from one klismo, my mother, to her son who is a confirmed and practicing klismo today via her TLC and nurturing administrations which over time progressed from a component of her restorative health regimen when illness was evident to one of eroticism as in a mutually enjoyable activity that we independently could initiate via communication to / with each other and were so at ease in doing so. Yes I do so miss the psych impact that was our mom-son routine so long ago but the memories are ever so with me when practicing partnered or solo.

I am sure that she did as our home enemas progressed along a timeline from childhood through my early adulthood as a young healthy man and I might add, as was our experience, that the referenced 'psychological impact' was reinforced as from one klismo, my mother, to her son who is a confirmed and practicing klismo today via her TLC and nurturing administrations which over time progressed from a component of her restorative health regimen when illness was evident to one of eroticism as in a mutually enjoyable activity that we independently could initiate via communication to / with each other and were so at ease in doing so.

THAT IS ONE HELLOVA SENTENCE!!!!!!

I would say mom exposed me as did her mother and grandmother,enemas where often as the baby of the family I got enemas from mom my aunts and grandmother. I know looking back they I suspect enjoyed them as they would administer to each other. I just love the sexual nature of enemas as fore play or the sexual act. I think it could go either way it is the path I enjoy anyway,it feels good I enjoy it !

I sincerely believe she was clueless as to the long term affects that the frequent enemas would have on my as I grew up. But if she had would it have been different. Who knows

I'm sure Grandma and mom had no idea of what was going on in my head. I regret that it happens and really believe that imprinting can happen to young children which has been borne out by many members here. I don't regret I am the way I am and have enjoyed every minute of it. I would never do it to my children though.

Never crossed her mind I am sure. She took frequent enemas herself and she never gave me one unless I was constipated. Enemas were common back in he 50's and 60's.

Not sure the effect on boys or men getting enemas from their mother. I guess when younger we all have minimal or no embarrassment when our mothers see our private area. I had a mother ( nurse ) and she was strict and believed cleanliness was top priority, both inside and out. It all started very young and continued

thru my teens. I really had no choice and it was just part of every Saturday night or if I had a cold or flu, she would give me an enema series. I think it did help me become a healthier person, if for no other reason it helped cleanse me of various toxins we are exposed to in our foods also everything we are in contact with daily.

Now for the fun part, it has creative fantasies in my dream world. It is such a intimate private procedure that you can incorporate it in sexual adventures. It allows me to be totally submissive, exposed and vulnerable to the opposite sex. If this leads to arousing the giver, mostly likely a male it can lead to animalistic episodes.

Hopefully for both to experience memorable sexual sessions, with little or no limits.

Yes, I know for sure that the "psychological impact" was a very important part of the enema "process" in my home. It was a ritual....I was told that it would be coming soon, such as "after dinner, etc."; my foster sister was enlisted to watch, and there was always some verbal chastisement beforehand, along with a spanking. I think she knew it was humiliating to me. Only after I actually had an orgasm one time did she realize that maybe there were "unintended side affects" and she didin't want it to be pleasurable.

@Soapy4me Love the "What difference does it make :-)" That's what Mrs. C said during the Benghazi hearings :-)

@WendellGardner777 LOL,true!!!

I thought the same thing too about this post @Soapy4me until giving it some thought.

I came to the conclusion that this post is just another way of asking, "do you think that giving you enemas made your Mom horny".

I doubt my Mother ever thought enemas would ever effect me in the way that they did. Mom gave me enemas because I was born early and my doctor told Mom to do it. Mom often told me that she had had only one enema in her life and that was right before she had me in the hospital and that if she ever had to have another one they'd have to catch her first.

As I aged, I became a little more at ease in talking to Mama about my enemas. At about age 10 Mom changed doctors and our new doc did not believe in the use of enemas. He told Mom to stop giving me enemas and start giving me oral laxatives instead. I hated those things and I often told Mama that. I literally begged Mom to start giving me enemas again.

She didn't....but I was persistent. Finally, Mom asked me why I liked taking enemas so much. I thought for a second and told her that I loved the feeling of love I felt when she gave them to me. I also told her that I liked the way the warm, soapy water felt as it filled my rectum.

Mom could not believe her ears and if she had known how it has effected me throughout life, I doubt she'd have been so loving when she gave them to me. But, I think she did it that way in an attempt to ease any discomfort that I might have felt, because she hated them.