ED at a young age

I’m 35 years old and I’m having ED symptoms.

For years my testosterone was low. I started taking clomid and now it’s in the normal range.

Trying to keep my sperm alive before we decide or not to have another child.

I’m 6’0 and weigh 250, I know my weight could be a factor and my BP runs on the high side.

I take Concerta for ADHD and while that increases my libido, it’s hard get a hard on while the meds are in my system. Which has always been the case since college when I got diagnosed.

I started noticing that I can get hard but I can lose it very quickly.

When I first got on the clomid I’d get morning woods but it feels it has leveled off now.

Recently when I get hard I’m Cumming super fast. Not sure if it’s because I’m in my head about the hard on and that’s impacting everything or what.

Thankfully my wife gets off rather quickly and is happy but I’m not happy with how things are going down there.

I feel like I’m too young to be having these issues.

Any advice from anyone?

I'm 72 and haven't had an erection since I had my prostate was removed in 2007. Following quad by-pass surgery in 2001 at age 55, I couldn't get hard without the help of Viagra. My sincere advice, and I wish I had done this almost 20 years ago, is to talk with your urologist. If you don't have one, ask your PCP for a referral to one that specializes in male sexual issues. You may be a great candidate for a penile implant or some other procedure. Do NOT be embarrassed to talk frankly with a urologist about this. That is one of the reasons they went to school and chose this specialty.

BTW, I take 54 mg Concerta daily and had no idea it affects the libido. Maybe that's why I am ALWAYS wanting to stroke myself and enjoy my anal toys. ;-)