Ok I know a lot of you are into the baby acting and that's ok if that's what you want to do.
Today I'm here to talk about parents that love and support their children through hard times with wetting and about bad parents who go over board because they don't know how to handle this.
When a child is haveing either bed wetting problems are wetting their pants what is the best way to handle the situation?
1 first show that child the love and support they need
2 clean them up. If you help your child then they know that you are not making it out to be their fault
3 note the situation down. Date and how it may have happened.
4 if it keeps happening call the Dr. It takes a few minutes to pick up the phone and make an appointment.
5 this is a hard part. Sit your child down and explain the situation and let them know that wearing protection isn't going to make them a baby. If you handle this right it will be easy.
Now let's talk about the don't.
This can also cause a lot stress on the parents at first you find yourself doing more laundry and yes it can get over whelming and you find yourself getting mad and upset but you are trying so hard not to come unglued.
But it happens right? Hey I'm a parent we are not perfect. But doing something bad will make a hard long road that might never be able to fix.
When we force a child to do something it's not pretty. I have read a lot of story's and let me tell you diaper punishment is the biggest NoNo that a parent can do. Now it is against the law to do it. So think twice before you do it.
Now let's talk about kids,teens that have the desire to wear diapers.
(Mom I want to wear diapers).
Ok maybe this isn't what we want to hear out of a childs mouth. But how do you handle this?
1 you sit the child down and have a long discussion about it.
If it's wearing a diaper they want what's the big deal? Trust me it's nothing you did wrong as a parent.
2 your child might be a TB/ DL.
If that is the case and your child is wanting to go back and be a baby then
That is another discussion that needs to happen.
3. Now what if the child is a DL?
This means they just want to wear a diaper. They do not want to be treated like a baby. Yes diapers are not cheap so this is a need. So if it is a diaper they want make them work for it.
Now if the child is a TB this means they want to go back and be a baby but there is a comfort level that needs to be talk about. Don't just assumed what they want and take matters in your own hands it can explode in your face. Now I do believe this needs to stay in the home not out side of the house. Do not humiliate your child for what they are asking. If you do it will scared the child and will create a wall between you and your child.
This go with your DL child. Think about what you are going to say before you talk to your child. If you tell them no they will find away to make it happen and when they are caught you will be mad because they dis behaved and went behind your back. Now what?
Humiliation is crule and it's child abuse. So think long and hard when this happens.
Parents that go overboard and punishment is ridiculously crazy because you are so mad. Put yourself in their shoes. Let's be good parents and be understanding loveing and careing. This kids today are not being raised right because we want to be their friends instead of being a parent. When are children embarrass us we go off the deep end. Turning your child back into a baby against their will is not the answer. Think twice before you put your parenting skills to action.