Waking up with finger in lover's vagina.

One time after cuddling a lover to sleep, I was delighted to find out that I still had my middle finger in her when I woke up. I thought that was romantic.

Has anybody else woke up with their finger in or hand on their lover's private?

P.S. I also love spooning and falling asleep with a hand on a lover's breast. However, sometimes, the arm under their neck falls asleep. Lol 😃

Not sure why this is under Bizarre Sex, I think it's pretty normal when this happens.

I love falling asleep spooning, and waking up that way with hands caressing one or each of us. I've fallen asleep in this position while massaging women's clit and labia, and woken to find my fingers still there, so I woke her with more massage, which usually leads to continuing where we left off the night before.

Not sure why this is under Bizarre Sex...

i had the same reaction :-).

For me, sex is about connection at as deep or intimate level as me and my partner can achieve. The physical is often 'just' a part of that connect. Gay bottom here, so i consider this from the opposite side of the original post, i.e., waking up with my lover inside of me... which i love.

When i first read the subject line, my first thought was of being penetrated while asleep, which for me is a hugely intimate act. Having a relationship where there is that kind of trust and connection where the connection can be made even in sleep is a big turn on for me because there is an extra level of vulnerability to be taken in such a way.

On a practical side, the falling asleep and waking connected is more of a romantic notion. i've had a guy fall asleep on and in me after cuming, and there it can be wonderful feeling, but at the same time sort of uncomfortable... i.e., He was asleep, i wasn't, and He was kinda crushing me. i was conflicted, because i loved feeling Him inside of me in that state, hearing Him breath and knowing His deep rest and satisfaction. On the other hand, it was not a way i could stay all night, had to breath sooner or later.

Bizarre? Hardly!

I often fall asleep after sex in the spooning (or "lazy sideways") position, and occasionally wake up afterward with my penis still in her vagina. A few times I have been able to take advantage of it and go for another orgasm without ever pulling or falling out!

I'm about average in length and more of a "grower" than a "shower", but I really can not imagine how can you stay inserted when flaccid. You'd have to have something like an elephants trunk down there to be able to stay inserted while sleeping....

Tight pussy; stay CLOSE! 😃

I don't remember putting this in the "Bizarre Sex" category, but maybe I did, Oh well. Thanks for all the replies!

Very romantic, happened to both of us. One is sleeping, while the other turns him on. You just wake up in the middle of the hurricane