Men who get turned on by feminization

I started to write this post in the "Men who want to be Women" thread, but didn't want to hijack that thread since this is not the same, but i do think it fits in the psychology corner, so i figured i'd start a different thread.

There is a part of my person/psyche that really gets turned on (for lack of a better descriptor) by a Man who likes 'feminizing' me. i think there is a combination of reasons, some i am aware of, some i can't quite put my finger on.

Part of it is the awkwardness and control, a Guy exercising power of control or dominance born out of His desire/s. Awkward, because i'm not stereotypically feminine, yet being on the receiving end from a Man being in control really fits a part of my internal make up. For me it's expression of yin/yang. It feels 'right' to me, and at the same time, kind of embarrassing.

For me i guess it's not so much about the how, but the why behind it? i do have a very strong drive to be 'impregnated' by a Man, which of course is impossible in the real sense of the word, but in a psychological sense where He plants a part of Himself in me, sort of leaves His 'mark' on me, like i'm His territory and it changes me. Idk, but i guess i associate that with feminine..... it's a vast topic

I've recently become interested in feminization. I am bi and enjoy both men and women - more sex with men (I love to have a man in me or be used by a man) and more cuddling and play with my girl friend. She knows I like anal activity and men too.

My thoughts are to explore everything about this. I don't think I could convince a doctor that I have gender dysphoria - but would like to try a low dose of HRT for a while. I believe it mellows men and reduces libido which at me age would be a good thing.

I wonder if the age related drop in testosterone would make using testosterone blockers unnecessary to allow estrogen to work on my body and mind?

. I believe it mellows men and reduces libido which at me age would be a good thing.

Why would you wish for a drop in libido? And especially at your age? Most older men try desperately to keep their libido at least on par or not too low.

Libido is after all the desire for sex, no matter which kind, even if you aren't getting any. Suppose you loose the desire. Would that really be something to wish for?

I think I would be devastated, even without actually ever having sex anymore. The desire for sex, is something that keeps me alive and alert and interested in something physical. If not for that, what pleasures are left?

Why would you wish for a drop in libido?

Ditto!. If anything, what i am talking about is opposite of a drop in my libido, rather it's a psychological/sexual 'collaring' place in me. To clarify, i have no desire to be a woman (not that i see anything 'wrong' with that, it's just not what i am talking about).

For me, "feminization" is not so much about my desire to be treated thusly, but about my partners desire to feminize me. It does apparently tap into something in me that, as noted, i "can't quite put my finger on," but it's not a conscious or overt desire on my part to be a woman, or even feminine. It's the idea and desire of my Top to feminize me that grabs hold of something in me. i suspect it has at least something to do with an emotional perception of that being a submissive, receptive for a Man. The distinction of opposite, yin/yang.

A Man who somehow discerns and latches onto that in me doesn't drop my libido at all, it makes me horny as fuck. And it's not a misogynist sort of thing... guys who 'hate' women are a whole other matter, not something that appeals. It's almost like it's an honest expression of their own blend of needs and desires. E.g., He may be bisexual and want a guy, but one that has what He perceives as feminine attributes. i've had a few guys who had kinks like wanting to shave me, wanting me to pump my breasts, calling my anus a "pussy," my penis a "clit", etc.. If a Guy does that in a derogatory tone, it turns me off, if He does it in an matter of fact or affectionate tone... he owns me lol.

A Man who somehow discerns and latches onto that in me doesn't drop my libido at all, it makes me horny as fuck. And it's not a misogynist sort of thing....

OK. That's an attitude I can understand.

But just to keep definitions standard, I'd say being horny as fuck does mean more or less the same as having an active libido.

Good luck and lots of enjoyment.

OK. That's an attitude I can understand.

But just to keep definitions standard, I'd say being horny as fuck does mean more or less the same as having an active libido.

i'm not sure "feminization" is the right word... or if there is a simple, compact word that defines this. i know there a guys who have the desire to be women, but to me, that is different from another man acting in a way and doing things to feminize me. Not that one way is 'right' or another 'wrong,' but two different things.

i don't privately dress up in women's clothing or secretly, or otherwise, wish i were a woman. What stokes my libido (not lessens it) is another guy wanting to feminize me. There's a strange magic that takes place where i want it when i can see the lust and desire in Him. i think for me, it's connected to being a 'receiver.'

As i have experienced it, some people are wired for 'breeding' and some for being 'bred' (and some seem to go both directions). Those terms are oversimplification, but that is a way to get the point across. Culture seems to associate the "breeder, Top, penetrator (not just physical)" with 'masculine' and being "bred, bottom, penetrated (not just physically)" with "feminine."

i think there is a psychological (and very erotic) energy that gets tapped with some with "feminization." For me, it's with 'Top' Guys ("Guy's" for me because i'm gay), but i see there are 'Top' Women as well, i just don't respond to them as a gay guy. i think there is a psychological, erotic and sexual affirmation that takes place on both sides when a Top recognizes and sort of subdues a bottom, evoking in feminization the bottoms need to be 'bred' by Him while exercising His need to 'breed.'

I have become interested in feminizing.

I just shaved my pubic area and love the feelings! I have some silk panties on order, and some athletic tape for fucking. I can imagine the feelings of being more feminine with men and women.

I love the smooth genitals - and can't wait to pursue more.

Has any one 65+ gotten put on HRT? I am using some herbs but would rather go for the real thing. The main thing is my change in attitudes - I love being less assertive and become submissive.

Yes it was a crazy turn on the first night my wife handed me a pair of her pink Panties to wear to bed ,,,

I was in my chastity cage for about a week at this point,,

,I found it incredibly confusing inside,,,I was so turned on inside my clit swollen in my cage

My wife seen this and asked me if I liked the way women’s panties make me feel’’’

I looked at her I didn’t know what to say,,, I was very embarrassed and humiliated But still was very turned on...

They were a very tight thong I gave her oral that night she would ask me how do I like wearing girl thongs as she was having an orgasm

That’s how it started for me....

I don't know if this is like that but when I started wetting the bed my wife gave me no choice, diapers have been my underwear. She also prefers me to sit if I make it to the toilet because of the mess.

“Part of it is the awkwardness and control, a Guy exercising power of control or dominance born out of His desire/s. Awkward, because i'm not stereotypically feminine, yet being on the receiving end from a Man being in control really fits a part of my internal make up. For me it's expression of yin/yang. It feels 'right' to me, and at the same time, kind of embarrassing.”

That's exactly how I feel! Currently, I'm seeing a man who recently took me to an adult theater. He wanted me to dress up because he wanted me to be his “date”, so I did. What went on is another story…. So, now, he is trying to transition me. He keeps emailing me about fake boobs, stuffed bra's, wigs, etc. I'm not sure how far this will go but the awkwardness and the excitement of feminization is a bucket full of emotion.