What Happens to Your Sex Toys When You Die?

I have thought about this topic frequently, enema stuff, butt plugs and dildos, might be looked at as no big deal. The shock I think will be the panties and other women's clothing. Still not sure what to do about that. But as others have said I'll be dead so who cares, which is a good point, hopefully whoever gets rid of my stuff won't be bothered by it.

The sad thing is with all the Ring doorbells and security cameras, we cannot no longer put them in an Amazon box and place them on the neighbor’s front porch. ?

I'm sure susie will donate them to the Smithsonian sex museum

Have them chrome plated. Lol

Quite convinced...in fact, 100% convinced, that when I'm dead, I won't give a (expletive) what anyone thinks of me.....

...when I'm dead --- woot! I like buttstuff everyone! Look at me! I like strange kinky stuff! 😉

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I *liked* buttstuff...suppose if I'm dead I don't know if I will still like it or not!

When after death simply my existence would seize to exists, there no point of thinking about these stuffs, let others find out and decide what they want to do with them.

As I am a lifelong bachelor with no kids, either my sisters, nieces and/or nephews or strangers will cleanup my belongings. I am sure they will be quite surprised when they open the storage tub I keep everything in. I own a Venus 2000 that has a resale value of around $600-$800. I doubt anyone would realize that so it will be tossed as I am sure they will think it is just another mechanical gadget I have. It does bother me at times but I'll be gone and won't care.

Has anyone ever given/sold their toys to a friend? When you have quite a number of 100-300 dollars toys it is a crying shame they end up in the trash pile.

Has anyone ever given/sold their toys to a friend? When you have quite a number of 100-300 dollars toys it is a crying shame they end up in the trash pile.

I guess it would depend on the toy. Except for the Venus and a Cobra Libre which I never really found that exciting, my toys are inexpensive at under $50 (the Fleshlight's I have are relatively cheap IMHO compared to the Venus).

From my perspective, I would really not want someone's used toy. There is the issue of hygiene (though I suppose you could soak a toy in bleach for several days LOL). You don't share toothbrushes and I would not share sex toys with anyone other than a monogamous partner. That being said, when it comes to the Venus, the expensive part is the main unit and control boxes which is worth about $700-$800 used. If I were in the market I would consider buying a used one and get replacement receivers. New receivers run about $50 so are basically cheap and consumable. If I were going to buy a used receiver, then all I would be interested in is the housing and end cap. I would buy new latex liner material and rebuild it. Even then I believe a receiver housing alone is about $35 new so used it would have to be a very good deal.

I'd sell my Cobra Libre if someone was interested but I doubt it would really be worth it.

Earlier this year we, my syblings and I, had to empty Dads house (he has gone to a care facilty). We found nothing of his and Mom's porn collection which I remember looking at.

Dad must have pre-disposed of it and their vibrators (someone found Moms giant dildo and a couple vibrators years before) since he had no need for them after her passing.

That is a funny question. I have never seen sex toys at the flea market. But I saw a lot of children toys, So what do the people with theirs sex toys when they are dead ?

Who cares if once you are gone people discover any toys, ropes, harness etc and that you were a kinky so and so back in the day.

There is always more to someone then meets the eye.

After I’m dead, they will say, he had a kink we did not know about.

Oh, man, as silly as it may seem, I actually think about this pretty often! I imagine this or that family member opening the two drawers... full of dildos, butt plugs, rubber gloves, enemas; it'll be pretty jarring for them, I imagine. I mean, yeah, I will have ceased to exist, but I think everyone thinks about their, you know, "legacy", (that's why there is art and such) and it's both hilarious and mortifying to think that when that person thinks of me, they will picture my beloved "Caligula" dildo. hahaha :-)

I have really never thought about this but I may have to talk with someone...lol

That would be an interesting conversation, @Funjane. Imagine explaining that to your attorney. "Ahem, Mr. Attorney, I want my Feeldoe to go to my niece and my enema bag collection to go to my nephew."

Great idea if your nephew is full of shit ,he lacks a vagina and he can't help that so the so the dildo would be unappreciated in drawer somewhere ..

WHO cares about the attorney ,You bought his silence he just has to ensure your wishes are carried out .

Most attorneys know there going to he'll for there job,but being haunted is crossing a line they would rather not.

OMG!

Haaaaaaaa.......

I'm going to post here a post I just responded to moments ago on another board. Most of it will be of interest to any of you. I can be rather long winded at times. Just skip down to the bottom if you must. Timing. Funny. This is the first time I've seen this posting. I looked back and saw it started in 2018. May I think??

Original post below.

"I was the ripe old age of 16 when my first stethoscope was purchased. Yup. 16. Why 16 you ask? Because that is the age we get our drivers license here in the US. Another way to say that would be like this: At 16, I could ambulate on my own. By my self, with noone else around to know what I was doing.

One of the absolute first things I did after being handed that shiny new drivers license was drive my ass down to the local pharmacy, and with hands shaking, and my heart pounding in my chest, walk in and purchase a stethoscope/BP kit. The stethoscope was attached to the BP cuff. I felt the need, with a shaky voice, I'm certain, to tell the lady ringing me up that me nd some friends had all pitched in to buy an old dude in my buddies neighborhood, this contraption for his birthday. Haaaaaa......Wow.

Now, prior to that day, I had fantastized about owning a cuff and scope for years and years. So, the desire was there long before the ability to own one/it. First thing I did.......Well, maybe not the exact first thing, but soon after purchase, I removed the stethoscope from the cuff so rthey were seperate. Totally not professional as was setup for use. You would never see that ridiculous contraption in any physicians office. It did have a D-Ring cuff as well. Another item you're not likely to encounter in any clinicl situation. I had to live with that for awhile. Until I had the nerve and funds to go to a real deal medical supply store....Almost a thing of the past I'll add, sadly, as a side note), and purchase my first "Real" sphygmomanometer and "real" stethoscope.

Thus began a very long, very expensive (No idea what I've spent ove the years...Plenty) collecting "fetish". It never quit. Just yesterday I received an Erka Sphyg I got off eBay for a very reasonable price. When I moved off to college, I decided it best to ditch the edical equipment. When I came back home after college.....Yea....Of course I went and bought new toys. Moved outsoon after, but with roommates. Dotched the new toys. Moved out and had own place. New Toys. Took in a frined that needed a place. Ditched toys. You seeing a picture??? I've bought alot of medical equipment through the years. I continue to purchase new things of interest. It's been years since I threw any away. Thank God.

While now, I mostly buy through eBay....1) Luxury of time/waiting for good deal and 2) The wife is fully aware of my kinks, so packages are not an issue, there is something about buying in store. I get a rush...to this day, buying shit I'm "not supposed" to have. It still makes me a little nervous. A good nervous. I guess it always has been a "good" nervous. I kind of crave it. Now, most anytime I am out of town, if I pass a scrub shop, medical supply, even a locally owned pharmacy that I suspect might sell real equipment, I pop in and usually purchase something. Something I need like I need another hole in my head.

Which leads to this. Hopefully I am far from it, but as much as she loves me and even indulges my little kinks, my wife has no use for all my equipment. The thought of it A) Being thrown away, or B) Being sold piece by piece or some shit, at my estate sale after my death, breaks my heart. So......Half joking, half not.

If there is anyone here that thinks they are worthy of my large collection of medical equipment, general kink items, etc., Speak now, or forever hold your peace. Actually.....This is a great idea. If you have more than a vibrator and butt plug anyway. We've all pondered it. Yea.....Fuck it. I'll leave it to anyone who is serious and deserving. It's free for the taking. Upon my death or otherwise incapacitation. I'll sleep better at night, and it's one less thing the wife has to worry about. I love it. This could be a thing. Somebody will get rich off it.......Clandestine addendums to legal wills or some shit."

As I wrote in the Auscultation board @ 02:11, 04/24/2019

@Luvnurses62 I love this idea. This is something that I think about often actually. What will happen to my toys once I die. I know if I go first my partner will take care of my collection and I have designated a buddy of mine to get my cock ring collection. As for my more extreme toys, I assume they will get tossed. But I have thought about, offering up some of my toys to other like minded either here on zity or one of my other boards that I frequent. I was actually thinking about doing this for some of my toys that aren't getting any use these days, because they have taken back seat to some newer, more comfortable toys. I would hate to throw them out and I would prefer they go to someone that would get use from them. Of course, these are toys that could be sanitized such as glass, metal, and silicon. I have tossed toys out in the past, and I felt guilty because I spent good money on them, but I felt I had to get rid of them (for a variety of reasons).

Now if my lady love and I both perish in the same car crash, then that's a different story. We need an eradicator! Someone with specific instructions, key, and a map of hiding places to come in before family members and get rid of our shit!

I was the executor of an estate for a friend that passed away a few years ago and was in charge of all his belongings and came across some old DVD porn movies and even a few VHS and some nipple clamps plus an anal toy. I did dispose of them but they gave me a big smile knowing a little of his kinks. Was a cool guy for sure.

I would like for my favorite butt plug a second life 😃

@anne4joy - You said in a different thread how fond you are of your N-Joy plug.....wishing your favorite plug a second life - does that mean you would like to be buried with it in place when you die? 😄

Any bets on whether that would be a first or not?

@anne4joy - You said in a different thread how fond you are of your N-Joy plug.....wishing your favorite plug a second life - does that mean you would like to be buried with it in place when you die?

I think that means getting regifted to someone else. My sex toy is red and goes 150 MPH. That is definitely getting regifted.

Who cares! People will know that I lived an exciting and fulfilling life!

Moppy I would love to have your sex toy, lol.

Mashie

Moppy I would love to have your sex toy, lol.

Mashie

My 500HP Phallic symbol is too much testosterone for you.

My 500HP Phallic symbol is too much testosterone for you.

Only 500 hp?

I'm not a size queen but my piece of shit 2014 Maserati Quattroporte GTS that I returned months before the end of the lease had 523hp, which only goes to prove size isn't everything. 😁 😁 😁

You can take your favorite sex toys with you to the grave....whether it's an N-Joy butt plug or a 500 HP phallic symbol!!!!

Sex toys (dongs and butt plugs) were buried with the aristocrats from the ancient Han dynasty in China over 2000 years ago..

https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/2762659/ancient-dildos-butt-plugs-discovered-china/

@Moppys_jalopy. You actually can take it with you - no re-gifting required (Seinfeld frowns on that!). Some guy got buried in a capsule riding his motorcycle!!!

https://www.google.com/search?q=buried+in+a+car&client=safari&rls=en&tbm=isch&source=iu&ictx=1&fir=yBzDdhb2Rs1aUM%253A%252CZob7rOI6xCu6OM%252C_&vet=1&usg=AI4_-kTCHmZ-C948atMPmgssBac7IN8fyg&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwjPo-CnsuvhAhVInJ4KHQmpCx0Q9QEwFnoECAgQDA#imgrc=yBzDdhb2Rs1aUM:

@Moppys_jalopy May I throw my name in the hat as well? I don't even know what it is, but at 150mph, you have my attention. I had an M3 in my younger days.....I pegged it on I-64?? Headed to VA Beach at 137? Racing a Ferrari.....The Magnum PI one(Don't know my Ferraris.) BMW, at the time put governors on all their cars. American at least. That was the first and only time I ever checked to see if the governor story was correct. Turns out it was.......

Those that have to deal with them will get over it.