In sixth grade, still in elementary school, we had a counselor come to our class to discuss transitioning to middle school; and we discussed showering and changing in PE. I don’t remember what was said other than it was mandatory and that we shouldn’t be afraid or ashamed. Yet, as a skinny, nerdy kind of kid, I was quite intimidated.
The locker room, which perpetually smelled like an old pair of sweaty socks and a bar of soap, had rows of lockers with benches and behind that was a huge shower area with no partitions, or privacy of any kind whatsoever.
The worst part of this whole set up was the placement of the toilets, which I can only surmise was designed by a sick and twisted individual. There was a half wall that separated the shower area from the lockers, with a double walled entrance on both sides to keep things dry. In the center of the entrances was a cage for the “towel boy” and right inside the entrance and in front of the cage were totally open toilets. No partitions, stalls or any way to not just be the spectacle of the entire shower area.
The coaches’ office had a window overlooking the whole scene with blinds that they could close if needed.
You were expected to strip and put on your uniform. There was no rule on underwear, most of us wore briefs and used the same pair for PE we were already wearing. If you failed to “suit up” you got a “non-suit”. You got two freebies, but after that a non-suit would cost you an entire letter grade! So 4 non-suits = C at best. After whatever activity we were doing that day, the shower bell would ring and we would run to the locker room where we were expected to shower, however they usually did not enforce it. They would pick certain days to have “shower drills” however which were quite a spectacle. The usual suspects (like me) would just change and try to leave without showering, only to be greeted with chains on the doors, blowing whistles, banging trash can lids and coaches shouting “get in the shower!” This meant EVERYONE had to be naked and in the shower area before ANYONE could leave the shower area. The coaches would jump on top of the lockers and patrol for shower evaders.
Most of us would just strip and get in the shower area, regardless of if we even got wet, there were not near enough showers for us to all shower at once, it was just a shower room packed with naked bodies. Very unnerving, you certainly didn’t want to bump someone. Meanwhile, some boys just had to try and hide under benches or whatever else to avoid getting naked. Of course, the coaches would see them, blow their whistles and yell at them...and all the tough boys would yell at them to quit playing around so they could get out. This went on for a good few minutes. We didn’t have paddlings, but the stragglers had to suffer stripping naked while the whole locker room was staring at them and shouting at them angrily to hurry up.
Once the coaches were satisfied we were all in, we were lectured on hygiene and the rules about taking showers. Then they would blow their whistles, and we would all file out (past the toilets, nice touch; I never did see anyone use them). It was quite an unforgettable scene.
On normal days though, you had boys that would shower and boys that wouldn’t. Occasionally they would catch boys sneaking out and make them do push ups and then go shower. But I never got caught and most days I just changed and left.
I never saw an erection, but boys would claim someone had one from time to time, as a source of ridicule and contempt. You would not want to be the boy who got a boner in the showers, trust me, you would never live it down.