Male masturbation technique

55 years old. Usually Masterbate in two scenarios:

1. I masterbate nearly every morning. Wife helps on this one. I keep a hand towel by the bed. Put it under my penis and begin master bating . I go with firm and fast strokes. I spread my legs and lift knees . Wife reaches under my balls and massages my prostate externally right above my rectum. This is a very fast ejaculation to relieve stress. I stroke as fast as I can. She presses firmly on prostate as I ejaculate.

2. Glove. I go in the bathroom. Put on exam glove, put KY on penis and glove. I form a “sleeve” with my fingers to wrap around penis like a vagina. I stroke into and away from body. Watch myself in mirror. When I begin to orgasm, I get up on my toes. The seman spurts into glove and feels quite warm through the glove. I sometimes put a prostate vibrator up my rectum as well .

I used to do it by hand with a lubed fist pump, but about 5 years ago I heard about "hands free". The idea intrigued me as it seemed to be more discreet if I could do it. I tried several different techniques but no real luck. I finally succeeded, sort of, with the help of a vibrator called a Miracle Massager that I use with my wife. The first time I tried it, I figured it wasn't going to work but I kept trying it. Finally, a while later, I had the vibrators head, similar to a Hitachi wand, on low vibe, lightly against my penis head tucked inside the waistband of my pants. I started to think about some great sex from my past encounters and I felt it building up, OMG, when I came, it was incredible, a long lasting powerful orgasm that drained me! I didn't touch myself except to clean up the mess I made in my shorts. This is the only way I do it now and I also add e-stim with it as well if I have time. Sometimes I wear large plastic pants with the vibrator tucked inside and I don't mess my jeans. I always figured if it works with a woman's clit, what would it do on my dick? It took awhile to find the best technique but now it's the only way I fly and I don't get rubbed sore!

Finally, a while later, I had the vibrators head, similar to a Hitachi wand, on low vibe, lightly against my penis head tucked inside the waistband of my pants.

I have a Hitachi that I purchased 5 years ago. I found an attachment called the Vibracup that works very well with it and reduces the mess. Amazon has them at https://www.amazon.com/Wand-Essentials-Black-Masturbation-Attachment/dp/B00LOV2ZAW. A bit pricey now compared to when I got it. The one at https://www.amazon.com/ARIRRA-Male-Masturbator-Massager-Head/dp/B01LZPUJYD appears to be the same thing but is less expensive.

There is also an open ended model at https://www.amazon.com/Hitachi-Magic-Wand-Attachment-Accessories/dp/B07D4GZJ5J that I also have but I never found it as enjoyable and it has been packed away for years.

I do it very classical. I still have my foreskin, so I hold my whole penis in my Hand and rub the foreskin back and forth.

Sometimes I use the strong shower and stimulate the frenulum. This makes my cum very quickly.

I was circumcised past october and everything is ok.

I'm trying experimenting wiht new masturbation forms but wife doesn't like at all neither masturbating me nor masturbating myself.

The other day I was in a business trip and I had the opportunity to try again masturbation in "tight mode"

So, at night at the hotel, switch on laptop, open a post torture orgasm handjob video, put on lube, kept the shaft skin tight with one hand, and with the other stroke up and down from the base to the glans.

Everything went quite well until orgasm.

Immediately after orgasm I could't continue touching the glans. Impossible.

I feel/think that if I can overcome this stage I will experiment new sensations, but I don't know how to overcome my ultra sensitivity when orgasming.

I don't know how to do as my wife don't like at all the idea of performing a post orgasm torture handjob on me (she promised she will do before the surgery but she lied !!).

Apart to go to a professional, do you have any recommendation based in similar experiences?

thanks

I was circumcised past october and everything is ok.

I'm trying experimenting wiht new masturbation forms but wife doesn't like at all neither masturbating me nor masturbating myself.

Immediately after orgasm I could't continue touching the glans. Impossible.

I feel/think that if I can overcome this stage I will experiment new sensations, but I don't know how to overcome my ultra sensitivity when orgasming.

I don't know how to do as my wife don't like at all the idea of performing a post orgasm torture handjob on me (she promised she will do before the surgery but she lied !!).

Wives are funny like that.

Apart to go to a professional, do you have any recommendation based in similar experiences?

thanks

I'm not cut but years ago I desensitized my glans just because I wanted to be able to touch and play with it. During the process I pulled my foreskin back tight (mmm nice feeling) dried it off and cleaned it with rubbing alcohol, more nice feeling, then began rubbing all the exposed area until I was able to touch all of it without any crazy bad feelings. This resulted in me liking that so much I always masturbate pulled back tight and dry.

I have never been able to do post orgasm torture to myself and my wife being like yours she won't do it for me. It seems to me that the only way to experience that is to be restrained and have someone else do it to you. The closest I can come is pinching tightly while rubbing the base of the glans and moving forward toward the tip as far as I can stand it at orgasm time.

It is so enjoyable being able to play with that bare glans and into the groove holding tightly so it gets flattened as I slide my fingers forward I wish I could do the same to the tip while cumming.

Thanks Roscoe.

We must be the only men that complain because their wifes don't want to tie and torture them !!!!

I don't like the idea of desinsitizing my glans, specially now that is full exposed always in erection and part of time when flaccid.

I think I can convince my wife to tie me and perform post orgasm torture if I propose her a cheap solution and promise her not to talk again about this subject after the test.

I've seen in Alixpress some straps that adapts easily to any bed. However they only tie wrists and ankles, and I could still move thighs and torso. Problem is that I'm over 200 pounds and usually squat/deadlift over 330 pounds for reps, so I don't know If that would be enough. She says that in sex when I get mad I handle her like a doll.

I supposed that if there's someone that knows how to convince a woman of doing something she dislikes, he won't be here, but in his mansion and thinking about which car use tomorrow (Bentley, Ferrari, Lambo...)

Any ideas in how to involve a woman in a man fetish?

thanks

My husband weights about 180# and I weigh between my personally limited range of 115-120# depending on holiday feasts. My husband is in excellent shape and he can't press 330 pounds, but he still calls me his "spinner" and he can literally throw me around in bed.

If you need strong rope, go to the hardware store or marine supply store if you want fancier rope (in a marine store it's called "line") and get some 1/4, 5/16" or 3/8" line. You won't be able to break any of those ropes. It will cost much more than the stuff at home depot, but it will last almost forever. If you whip the ends or carefully melt them nothing will unravel. You can put it in the washing machine to keep it clean and you'll have a great time with it. You can tie the ropes to the four legs on the bed or you can get really busy and put a few eyelets into your bedframe. 1/8" or 3/16" stainless steel eyelets/screw-eyes drilled through your frame (if it is a good one) won't weaken it at all and you will have as many points of attachment as you like. I promise you won'r be able to break loose of welded closed loop screw eyes. We have between 600-700 feet of rope in different lengths, diameters and colors. I love bondage.

Paying attention to your spouse during the day and a few sexual favors with some love and affection has gotten my husband to let me do absolutely anything I want to do to him and anything I want him to do to or for me in the BDSM and car departments. 😁

I have posted about out bed/bedroom bondage devices in the past.

My husband weights about 180# and I weigh between my personally limited range of 115-120# depending on holiday feasts.

Braggart!

We have between 600-700 feet of rope in different lengths, diameters and colors. I love bondage.

600 feet of rope boggles my mind. I can't imagine why you would need that much but then again you go places no one else does. I'm curious as to how many enema bags you have.70?

We have a lot of rope because sometimes we do our scenes in the music room or our bedroom floor and both those rooms are very large, so we need a lot of rope to tie one of us in the middle of the room to the screw eyes between 15 and 20 feet away usually with four to six points of attachment. I like rope in different colors and diameters because it feels like more variety and imagined people I am restraining. If one of us is tied up in the middle of the music room, it could take well over 100-125 feet of rope when you add the fancy ties/knots and distance from the person to the hook at the floor moulding that goes into the studs.

The footage gets used up in a hurry. I have been collecting all that rope for over twenty years, so it wasn't a one-time purchase--more like a collection. We have 1/4, 3/8 and 1/2 inch diameter ropes, so that also multiplies the number of feet quickly. A harness can take 100 feet of rope and we have two of these in different colors of 1/4" rope. Some people collect coins, stamps, cars, baseball cards. I collect BDSM equipment. We have only five enema bags if I recall. One Sherema red, one Sherema yellow, two FIRST generation Klystra silicone and one Second Generation Klystra silicone. Other bags we previously owned over the last thirty years either broke or rotted and were thrown out. We don't use the yellow or red Sherema bags because we like to be able to see what is in the bag.

As far as our weights are concerned, if I go over 120, my husband lets me know in no uncertain terms and I do the same to him, although he can spank me harder than I can spank him! 😁 It's more fun to be trim and agile than to eat a lot of food.

Paying attention to your spouse during the day and a few sexual favors with some love and affection has gotten my husband to let me do absolutely anything I want to do to him and anything I want him to do to or for me in the BDSM and car departments. 😁

Many thanks for the advice.

My question about practical issues is how to immobilize torso, hips, upper tighs....

I've found that it in Aliexpress https://www.aliexpress.com/i/32828366352.html, it shows how to pass the line/straps under the bed, and then tie them to ankles and wrists, but with this arrangement I still could twist a lot the body.

The only thing I've seen that could immobilize 100% is a kind of giant "X" ,(seen in a video.) that allow to tie firmly the different bodyparts, but I guess that trying to put something similar in the bedroom would be too much for my wife.

Will try some Aliexpress for testing, at least, investment will be low.

My question about practical issues is how to immobilize torso, hips, upper tighs....

I thought I answered that. Ropes/chain/leather/whatever to the four legs of the bed for the four limbs and you can wear a waist belt attached to a rope that extends under the bed to hold the torso down.

Under the bed straps for the limbs allows for a lot of unwanted movement.

Just buy 100 feet (30 meters) of 1/4" (6-8mm) rope. You can get that for under ten dollars and have plenty of rope to go around.

Thanks Roscoe.

I don't like the idea of desinsitizing my glans, specially now that is full exposed always in erection

Maybe you misunderstood what I meant by desensitization.

My always covered glans was so sensitive touching it almost hurt. From my young teen days playing with other guys I knew the cut guys weren't bothered like that. They didn't mind having their glans touched and dry rubbed when we masturbated each other. I surmised that was because their bare glans had always been rubbing on their underwear. Therefore I figured mine needed to be bared, dried and played with like that. It's still nicely sensitive for masturbation even moreso because it no longer hurts to rub the dry bare glans.

Question: does yours stay erect now from being bare and rubbing against your clothing or was it always like that?

Any ideas in how to involve a woman in a man fetish?

thanks

I bet Switchable,s husband could answer that.

With all this discussion about technique, my fantasy is to play with a large clit. One that is like a small penis. I wonder if the owners of that type enjoy masturbating it like us guys do? I would like to take it between my thumb and forefinger and rub it up and down until it begs for mercy with arms and legs shaking. Could it be post orgasm tortured at the tip like we dream of doing to our penises?

Been using latex gloves to masterbate with at times. After getting out of shower, I put on a glove on both hands and put KJ gel lube on each gloved hand. I then reach under and push a finger up my rectum as far as I can. I am bent over a bit at this time in front of mirror. I then form my fingers with the other hand like a sleeve to make a “vagina” . I begin to move hand in and out to duplicate thrusting into wife’s vagina. As I begin to ejaculate , I press finger in rectum up hard and get up on my toes watching myself squirm in mirror. The Ejaculate spurts into my hand and feels hot thru the glove. Invert both gloves... no mess!

I usually hump a pillow in a wet diaper. Sometimes my partner helps me or does it for me.

A technique I developed in my early teen years involved me rubbing my glans (head) similar in manner as the original poster but with a different focus. I would make a circle with my thumb and index finger, if I was wet from precum great if not then I would use saliva to wet my fingers.

I would lightly rub-stroke my wet fingers against the coronal edges of the glans. I would gradual start to get tingly sensations going from the base of my penis to the plantar of my feet. The sensations increased my arousal and I would enjoy how my glans would began to expand or swell due to the sensations from just creating friction on the corona.

Many guys describe their frenulum as being their one of their most sensitive spot but honestly the frenulum was never a great spot for me. The friction on the coronal rim would get me very hard, aroused and wanting to cum but couldn't as the sensation was not enough to trigger an orgasm. This would allow me to edge and edge. The technique worked when I was uncircumcised very well a little bit less so circumcised. I think the constant exposure numbed out the delicate sensations to certain degree.

I like to lube up, grasp the head of my penis, stroke towards the scrotum, release and repeat. I find that just employing the downward stroke (that mimics the thrusting motion) much more stimulating than the classic "up and down" motion that most of us probably started on as teens.

Still working on achieving a hands-free orgasm with my TENS machine, pads and rectal probe. Haven't gotten there yet, but it sure is fun practicing.

I have gradually moved from masturbating with my hand in the usual way, to using avibrating wand at the low speed (the high speed makes me come too fast). I noticed two other members brought up wand use also. When erections stop being what they used to be, a vibrating wand (and some porn or fantasies) can produce fantastic orgasms.

I have recently begun making an “O” with the tips of my thumb and middle finger touching. I then place this “O” over the tip of my penis and rub up and down concentrating on the ridge between the meatus and shaft of the penis. I keep the “O” formed by my finger and thumb very loose on my penis and don’t put any pressure on my penis. The feeling of the ridge hitting my fingers I enough to induce a powerful and very satisfying orgasm.

I've used to masturbate with the "classic" method, so stroking up and down and the foreskin covering and uncovering glans with lots of lube

When I was a young teen, I was very bored in church but had to attend every Sunday. I discovered that if I crossed my legs and put a hymn book over my lap and pressed down, swinging my leg, it would rub my penis and I enjoyed it very much. Sometimes I would have an orgasm and pretend to cough to cover the heavy breathing. I suppose I should have felt guilty but I'm glad that I didn't. I love thinking back about those young days when the body was adjusting to all the new sexual feeling flooding my body.

I was masturbating the other nite and could only get about half hard even after watching several hours of porn so I started gently tapping my balls with a wooden paint stirring stick( available at any paint store) and I got very hard and continued to jack and tap to a wicked orgasm! One could use any sort of implement,ie wooden spoon,a ruler,etc,but a paint stick is very light,easy to manipulate,and won’t tire out your hand during a long edging session.

I put my hand over the top of my penis and when I'm done to save a mess I pull my for skin over to hold in my cum until I can clean up

I am circumcised I was done when I was a baby I love to use coconut oil as lube when I am very horn I use an electric toothbrush put it on my glands and run it up my shaft I can edge with this sometimes I use the wifes toothbrush with mine

I'm the same as Randypete as I too was circumcised as a baby, so have never known what it's like to have a foreskin. Of the men I've known, I've found that those with foreskins find retracting it regularly very arousing, and ultimately makes them cum. As for me, a lot depends on how I'm feeling, but I often use a gel, baby lotion or saliva to lubricate the palm of my hands, and fold them around, over and underneath the head of my penis which produces fabulous sensations, enough to make me cum. I've found coconut oil etc too oily and difficult to wash and clean off.

After a life time of masturbating I have used many different techniques over those years. I began when I was a very small boy and at that time had no idea what it was that i was doing, but just felt so good when my penis was erect. To begin with i can remember lying in bed at night wearing my pyjamas and getting an erection. I then pushed down the bottoms and lay on my side, then placed my hands between my thighs so that my erect penis slipped up between my forearms. By thrusting my hips in and out I used to have some wonderful times, and it was every night.

This carried on until my very early teens when for some reason (totally self taught) I began using my hand, taking my penis in a fist like grip and beginning slowly stroking up and down, eventually getting faster until orgasm. I had never considered the technique of slipping my fingers over the end and doing it that way until a girlfriend did it to me that way. Always preferred my style and when subsequent girlfriends also used that technique on me I soon converted them to the fist style.

As I have got older I now tend to take my penis shaft between my thumb and fingers, with the fingers what would be the underside of the dormant organ and the thumb on the top. This works great for me now especially in my late sixties when I cannot get the fullest of erections on a regular basis. It feels a very sensitive method for me now and I do it at least two or more times each day.

I would do a normal fist grip up and down till I ejaculate. Once I get the feel i usually will hold my foreskin together and let it shoot inside to prevent a mess. Now my foreskin is quite long.

I have used many techniques - frenulum massage, finger across the tip, testicle massage and tapping, thumb and index finger stroking and more.

Being uncircumcised, I use the normal fist grip with an up and down motion until I ejaculate. No extra lubrication is needed since being uncut, the pre-cum stays under the foreskin, lubricating it and the foreskin keeps it from drying out. Usually I am sitting up in a chair and cum on a piece of cloth which I wash with my laundry.

I can also masturbate using a vibrating electric pad sander held against my penis. That will get me off and make me cum really quickly. But I have to do that with the sander against the outside of my pants, causing me to cum in my underwear, which makes a sticky mess.

There is one other way I can masturbate and that is with the shower massage in the bathtub. I either use it on a pulsing stream or steady stream or I take the massage head off the hose and use the steady full force stream of water. In both cases I direct the water stream under the foreskin until I cum. The water masturbation is a different feeling when I cum. I feel a pressure build up in my genitals and then the orgasm hits me and I have several pulses of semen shoot out with no movement of my foreskin required. I enjoy doing it from time to time, but it does waste a lot of water. When masturbating the regular way with my hand wrapped around my penis using the up and down motion, I don't feel that pressure build up, but my orgasm is more intense.