Male masturbation technique

I'm curious about the masturbation techniques employed by other males (or females giving handjobs to males).

Myself: I make a circle with my thumb and index finger and grab the skin behind the head, and I rub back and forth. The glans is stimulated by rubbing the foreskin over it.

Sometimes I grab the skin, again in a circle, much closer to the testicles, to stimulate the basis of the shaft.

Sometimes I retract the foreskin and directly do the circle around the glans, but then the touch should be light or I need to add lubrication. This method is more commonly employed by my wife, who first sucks my glans to lubricate it.

I may add extras such as tickling my anus with a finger.

I used to think all males employed the same approach with minor variations, but I've heard people describing very different things, such as pressing on the corona (?).

So what's your method? (It seems that circumcised vs uncircumcised, and if circumcised, tight vs loose, are important so please specify.)

I like to use bras and panties to wrap around myself and stroke with, ejaculating into the soft fabric! I sometimes dress in my wife's underwear to masturbate myself, and sometimes she will watch and tell me to be a good boy, and make that little penis cum for her. She prefers I wear bras that make me look like I have very large breasts.

I will be totally naked and choose one of my anal toys. I have a Lelo Hugo prostate vibrator which is my favorite toy. For variety, sometimes I will choose one of my dildos to combine with my masturbation.

I like to lube my penis with a coco lotion but I do use a water based lube for whichever anal toy I use. I also put a cock ring on as well. Once all the equipment is in place I will stroke my shaft with my entire right hand and play with my anal toy with my left. Combining anal pleasure with cock stimulation is super intense and definitely makes for a stronger orgasm.

I masturbate in a number of ways. I usually place my thumb on the midpoint of the top of the shaft and place my index and middle fingers on the underside of the shaft and move my hand up and down. Sometimes I'll place my thumb on the top of the glans and use my middle finger to massage or gently flick my frenulum. Other times I will lubricate a nitrile exam glove on the inside, insert my penis and simulate intercourse with my penis between a pillow and the bedsheet. I'm have a tight circumcision.

Thanks to my wife, I recently discovered that I like having my penis smacked and my testicles pinched, though not really hard. She says a rubber spatula works very well on the little pecker.

When I could achieve an erection, my masturbation technique was pretty vanilla. I have a very loose circumcision so have never used a lube. I just grabbed the shaft with my left hand and stroked it. As I neared orgasm the speed of the stroking increased. Now, with no erection ever again in my future, I still masturbate pretty much the same way. However, there are often times rather than stroking I simply massage my cock and balls. Both ways feel quite nice.

I have two primary techniques. I like to lay on the bed (with a towel down), sometimes with my wife's panties and lube up with coconut oil. I find the best results are achieved by just simulating the thrusting stroke. So thrust, release grip, back to head of penis, thrust, repeat. I keep a plastic cup nearby to catch the ejaculate.

I also like masturbating in the shower. I use conditioner for lubricant and hold the sprayer close to my testicles on a low setting for a nice, soft "tickling" effect. Same thrusting stroke as I use on the bed.

For some reason, I do not enjoy violent masturbation or the typical "back-n-forth" motion that everyone associates with male mastrubation. Maybe I rubbed myself raw a few too many times as a teenager before joining and refining my technique. 😉

I too like to masturbate with my wife's (or mine) panties. Makes me it wonder how many other men do the same. This could be a thread all by itself.

In the shower using conditioner or applying the shower massage to the tip.

I love to lie on my back, bend my legs and push the thermometer into my bottom. Then I fuck myself with one hand, and with my cock I fuck my other, oiled hand until I cum over the belly, chest and face. There is nothing more beautiful than such an orgasm

I have recently discovered the fleshlight and enjoy the sensations it provides for my masturbation times.

I have recently discovered the fleshlight and enjoy the sensations it provides for my masturbation times.

@Bill4u2 You said in another thread that you're basically in a sexless marriage right now with your wife. I can relate to that. But I was wondering if your use of the fleshlight is out in the open with her, so to speak. Does she know that you have it and that you use it to provide the sexual stimulation and relief that she won't? Or do you hide your use of it (and your other masturbation sessions) from her. Just wondering.

I first discovered masturbation by accident soaping up in the shower age 16, as a youth my circumcised skin was drum tight, and some form of lubricant, or fabric was neccessary for stimulation,

as time has passed the shaft skin has become a little looser and moves when erect, hence it is possible to masturbate by sliding the skin, conversely lube now makes me reach the point of ejaculation very quickly indeed,

but as masturbation does not give me overwhelming orgasmic sensations, actually i don't often.

I masturbate in a number of ways. I usually place my thumb on the midpoint of the top of the shaft and place my index and middle fingers on the underside of the shaft and move my hand up and down.

This is usually how I go about it using my left hand (I am right handed but the left is better for some reason). I am uncircumcised so that helps enormously. Besides that, I also have a varied collection of toys. I have a Venus, some Fleshlight's, Sue Johanson Super Head Honcho, Inflatable penis stroker (Amazon.com) and a Hitachi Magic Wand with a vibra-cup attachment. I like the variety but lately I have been just too lazy to dig the toys out of my storage box and then have to deal with cleaning them afterwords. I recently acquired a really neat soft silicone rubber scrotum sleeve from AliExpress (https://www.aliexpress.com/item/Soft-Liquid-Silicone-Nutter-Sack-Ball-Bag-and-Cocksling-Cock-Ball-Toy-by-Oxballs-Stretchy-Enhancer/32869134276.html). It provides a nice pleasant squeezing pressure on the scrotum though it can be a pain to put on. It is small and discrete and does not really get dirty so cleaning is not problem other than rinsing it from time to time.

I am circumcised. I prefer no lube. Stimulation on the underside right below the glans with two fingers and the thumb around the top. Love to squeeze my balls while I masturbate or even grab the scrotum with the balls and tug away from my body.

That was exactly my experience . I first got off by humping the bed. It was some time before I realised I could use my hands! Dumb but there it was. Very niaeve

I am circumcised and have extra skin so no lube is required but sometimes I like to lube up and with one hand pull the skin tight then with the other glide up and down over the glands with a loose grip and do this for an extended period of time. The orgasm at the pinnacle is just fantastic.

My technique the past four years: I like to lie on my back with my legs bent and open in a 'v', I love stretching the tendons of the groin, sometime the soles of my feet are touching. With my left hand I grasp the bottom of my penis with the thumb on the inside and fingers cupping my scrotum. With light pressure, no friction, I can slide my hand upwards until all four fingers top my glans and corona before plunging back down. The pressure can be varied to maximize sensitivity, without approaching orgasm. In this way all the sensitive areas are stimulated, and my thumb rakes my public hair. Every hair follicle of my scrotum is electric, I love the feeling of my fingers rolling over the taught skin. If I am in the bath first I like to pour ice cold water over my groin so that the skin of my scrotum is pulled in and thick, really sensitive after getting a hard-on in bed. So with a phone in my other hand I watch jilling gifs and videos as long as I want. I like to reserve at least an hour, and if the urge or need is great, two or three. When I can't take it any longer I stroke as long as needed and with my legs spread they twitch and quiver during orgasm and it lasts a really long time. After working out my penis like this, for the next hour it exudes a luscious warmth and tingling sensation. I can be chatting with people and no one suspects an hour before I had this pleasurable experience. I have learned a lot from the jills about causing pleasure and steal pages from their playbook, they are so expert! Thanks for providing this space, I love talking about masturbation.

I have found that when I’m ready to ejaculate, my latest thing is to go into the bathroom that has with a pedestal sink, pull down my underpants and place my scrotum over the edge and feel the cold porcelain pressing against my perineum. This way, not only does the coolness of the sink add another dimension, but I can rest against my groin, while having my hand free to stroke and play with my penis until I orgasm. Typically as I cum, I stand up on my toes to add another good feeling. The best part is that I am very exposed (naked, or with my pants down around my ankles), and truly enjoy the visualization, especially since there is a mirror right in front of me to see my facial expressions while I cum. Some day perhaps I will post a photo for all to see.

I start the masturbation with the 3 finger method, that is. Middle and index fingers of the right hand on the bottom of the penis and thumbs up. This is best because at my age, (73 years) the penis does not get stiff so fast anymore. Then when the excitation potential increases, I take as before the whole hand. I always push the foreskin back and forth the whole stroke. That's just the advantage of masturbation that you can satisfy even without a full erection.

As a lubricant, butter has been found to be best over time, and I used to use a fat cream that is not so good on the skin in the long term. Above all, it is important to wash the penis well after use, cleanliness is very important for a habitual masturbator like me because the penis must always be in good condition.

Occasionally, I also use the electric masturbation to come to orgasm.

I am 73 years old and have masturbated about 27595 times so far 40 years ago I have removed my Frenulum praeputii even what I managed well without scarring.

My problem is that unfortunately I can not masturbate every day as I am used to it. The reason is that the erection is missing and also the stimulation to orgasm is not enough.

63 years masturbation # 27532 masturbations

this equal 437 masturbations a year

or 1.2 masturbation a day, if you prefer 6 masturbations in 5 days !

I am asking me how many moves your hand have made on your shaft

I am asking me how many strong and soft contractions you feeled.

I like to count also everything, but doing more than only addition.

As I am left handed, I use my left hand - just below the head with my thumb and forefinger and move back and forth. When I had just learned about it back in grade school, would take a warm wash cloth and wrap it around the shaft and move it back and forth.

The majority of my masturbations are done thinking about exam experiences and watching videos of exams, either soft porn or instructional how-to videos for medical students. I wear only white briefs and drop them to upper thigh so scrotum and penis are entirely exposed. My penis is circumcised moderately tightly so that, with erection, there is a little skin movement. I grip the shaft of the penis below the head with my right hand, the thumb o. The top six and the four fingers underneath, and move the skin up and down as far as it will move. I use the left hand to stimulate the testicles. Occasionally, I will put a white latex exam glove on my right hand and use a slippery lubricant and slide my hand up and down from midshaft out onto the glans. As I get close to ejaculating, I am thinking about the various doctors, who have examined me, giving the instructions to expose the genitalia for the hernia exam.

...giving the instructions to expose the genitalia for the hernia exam.

Never had the "pleasure" of having to have that done. When I was about six months old in the early 1960's, I was operated on to repair a potential hernia issue. As that was in my medical records, my doctors never bothered to do the "exam" since it was already repaired. Even in a military exam, I noted I had hernia surgery and showed the faint scar. That was it.

I developed a somewhat unusual technique when starting out. Being circumcised fist pumping wasn't a good choice until I discovered lubrication. And my other method of laying on my bed on my belly wasn't portable. So I developed what I call the 'windshield wiper' method. I hold my erect penis against my belly then sweep it back and forth rubbing my glans against my belly in the process. Worked great and I could even do it through the pockets of wearing loose pants. (Remember 'pocket pool'?)

There was a downside when I started getting more pubs. The sweeping action would cause my pubic hairs to get wrapped around themselves and start to pull on the hair roots. Ouch! But by then my penis had grown more making the fist pump a better option. The other downside I discovered that I had a arc shaped bald patch of skin above my penis that none of the other guys in the locker room had.

I've used to masturbate with the "classic" method, so stroking up and down and the foreskin covering and uncovering glans. Normally looking at magazines (I was born in 1965).

After being married, I only masturbate when in business trips (never at home, wife doesn't like, and she milks me until as many as possible).

However as I've said, I continued doing in hotels, watching internet porn, always with the same method.

The thing that excites me the most are handjobs done by bbw on nudist beach, penis examination by female nurse/doctor, feminine looking trans wacking, but always involving handjobs.

In fact I became fascinated by handjobs in porn, specially when the penis is high and tight circumcised, the technic is quite different of the intact ones.

Before my circumcision, I've tried to do something similar using lube and keeping foreskin retracted but It didn't work as well. I attributed it to my thick and a bit tight frenulum.

After being circumcised low and loose and frenulum removed -doctor told me that given my anatomy a high and tight would be unrealistic and I would complain about not having enough skin-, I've tried again the circumcised technique (in erection, my shaft skin can barely cover the glans rim if I pull at max), using lube and going all the way up and down, but still not feeling the good sensation I had with my foreskin. Fortunately, I my shaft skin is still quite mobile and I can masturbate with it, but without touching the glans.

When I lube and try to do as in the porn, going with lubed hand to the tip of the glans, the sensation is not so good.

Has anybody had similar experience?

I would like to try a post orgasm cockhead torture, but given all this exposed It doesn't look very feasible (plus, wife's handjobs are HORRIBLE, she doesn't like at all doing them, she's obsessed in blowjobing and PIV but she finds handjobs boring).

After being circumcised low and loose and frenulum removed -doctor told me that given my anatomy a high and tight would be unrealistic and I would complain about not having enough skin-, I've tried again the circumcised technique (in erection, my shaft skin can barely cover the glans rim if I pull at max), using lube and going all the way up and down, but still not feeling the good sensation I had with my foreskin. Fortunately, I my shaft skin is still quite mobile and I can masturbate with it, but without touching the glans.

I was left intact, as my father was intact and saw no need for it, so I still have my foreskin. I am curious why you were circumcised as an adult. My oldest uncle had to have it done as he was serving in the Pacific theater during WW2 and got a tropical infection that required the procedure. My father related to me how unpleasant it had been for him.

II am curious why you were circumcised as an adult.

Well, I got a couple of candida infections, went to NHS who gave us (wife and me) antifungal cream, but didn't answer many questions.

So went to a private urologist who asked me many questions, and concluded that given my long foreskin and a "wet" wife I could get more problems. Plus my frenulum was a bit tight, and my father has been circumcised at 60+ due to diabetes mellitus. Plus last years wife has been complaining a bit about my foreskin and frenulum, so decided to go ahead and solve possible problems.

To be honest didn't like very much my long foreskin, but it wasn't a real problem. I also fantasized with the handjobs watched in porn.

Now I've found that after masturbating all my life in the same classical way, mechanics are a bit different, and I'm trying -unsuccessfully- to get my wife more involved in handjob games. She finds hj boring and prefers very much blowjobs.... but I still want to try hj in "USA porn" style.

I pull the foreskin all the way back until the inner foreskin is stretched tight down the shaft. I clean all the exposed parts with rubbing alcohol to get it super clean and not sticky so my fingers can slide over every bit of exposed foreskin, glans and in the groove behind the glans. I just rub every bit of it. The sides, the under side, the top the whole inner foreskin, the edges of the glans, inside the groove behind the glans and finish off by bending the glans down so I touch everything inside the grove on the forward stroke as I pull my fingers tightly over the glans and off the tip so I am rubbing the grove and the glans to achieve climax. I hold the glans with my thumb on the top applying more pressure with the thumb almost like pinching it. I get nothing out of rubbing where my frenulum used to be so I mostly massage the glans from back to front on the top with my thumb making sure to flatten out the corona as I slide it forward and pinch a little harder on the tip. I like it dry, no lube at all.

I pull the foreskin all the way back until the inner foreskin is stretched tight down the shaft. ..... I like it dry, no lube at all.

Thanks !! Other day wife got sleep and I was at pc, so I tried dry, not very successful, I finished with classical style but at the last moments I spit on glans and finished rubbing and stroking. I tried to continue after orgasm as was doing the guy on the screen..... but not possible.

Another problem I'm having is related with wife. We are so sex-tuned that she gets great and satisfactory orgasms.... quickly. Too quickly in my opinion. Then, she's tired and she wants me to finish also quickly, so she choses PIV missionaire style, as she knows that I last much less than doggy, riding or blowjobing. After some years of very good sex (even more active than 10 years ago), now she's slowing down. She's 51, I guess is the beginning of menopause. You can imagine that trying to convince her to tying me to perform post orgasm torture is out of question.

Thanks again.