Anng, I have to agree with you. I don't understand the high-volume enemas, or why people are putting different solutions in their bags or buckets, and into their bodies. Even ivory soap, how do we know that it is safe? Would Ivory vouch for their product going up the passage-way, used for a downward, outward journies? I will write them and ask...
For me, accepting thy water or giving an enema, it can be peaceful and sensual during administration, coupled with there being excitement and anticipation in the beginning with a new partner/patient, and maybe every time you play.
Words to describe an enema: warm, wet, and sensual; a good start? Cleansing, relaxing, anal exposure, rejuvenating, inciting the senses. An intimate sharing, exposure, vulnerability, cathartic, and release.
With all of these healthy and good words going into an enema, why do some people run enough quarts into their systems to cause severe cramps and/or vomiting? Why use alcohol, milk, baking soda, or other additives, when you already have enough in the bag (1/5 - 2 quarts of warm water) to make you feel good?
No put downs here; maybe, a tale of caution. I remember that night, some 32 years ago that I tried an alcohol enema. The next thing I knew it was hours later and daylight, and what if I had ingested 'TOO' much alcohol, and had needed medical help? It was enough alcohol for me to pass out, and I had no, NONE, recollection afterwards, of being inebriated the previous night. That was Dumb!!!
How many of our acquaintances here, never made it back to Zity.biz after a bad experience. They passed, or were incapacitated...
In closing, many of us are anally sensitive. I remember the video of a man trying to get a small glass up his pooper, to have a good feeling/experience, wanting to share with his audience (he was self-videotaping) that time when he stretched just a little more. But, his 'play's came to an abrupt end as the glass broke under his weight, fracturing while in his anus, maybe in his rectum, and we all saw the blood pouring out onto the floor, coupled with the broken glass that was outside of his anus.
He may have posted that video, to teach us to be careful, after going through a very painful and embarrassing ordeal. What a blessing. Anybody that watched that video gave thought to safe anal play thereafter.
BUT, what if he bled out. What If he was found dead in his home, and somebody put the puzzle together, and shared that video on the internet, as a warning, as a legacy, on his behalf?
Safe, sane, consensual, and non-exploitive. Good words for all of us to remember. Play it safe. And, yes, always have a contingency plan.
Off my soapbox. I'm 70 now, and have earned the right to share a word of caution. Many words in this case...
AND, remember, it was XXXX that got me started; so, please say thank you to her. Good night.