Medfet/bdsm combined

Does anyone else love this combo? Being restrained during exam is one of my favorite things.

Yes, for play exams. Being restrained has always been a desired part of my exams. Something about the loss of control appeals to me— as I’m sure it would appeal to my doc.

MedFet and BDSM go together like soup and sandwich, love and marriage, spaghetti and meatballs, BBQ and beer, gin and martinis. . . . you get the idea.

My wife and I usually keep our play exams as realistic as possible. But occasionally we do add some BDSM lite to an exam when we are in the mood to do so. It involves the exam being somewhat forced, such as a prison strip search along with a complete physical with a cavity search. Or a sex slave being thoroughly examined to make sure no diseases are present.

For the most part, we don't get into spanking or hitting of any kind.

I agree...my first play exam was being tied down, being electrostimulated and milked until my play doc was able to drain all the sperm from my balls. He had total control, being restrained and milked for a few hours. That was my one and only time I experienced such pleasure...I wish I can do it again 😃

Of course since your are giving up an even greater control over your body to another person it's a natural extension of medfet.

My ideal combination is what I feared most in youth - bending over the lap of a pretty receptionist who holds me firmly in place and watches as the nurse gives me painful injections in my vulnerable bare bottom.

MedFet and BDSM go together like . . . gin and martinis

For some people, gin IS the martini!

In that case, is Medfet the gin and BDSM the martini, or vice-versa? 😉

Also, FWIW, I think that in general the Bondage part of Medfet is primary, with only a sprinkling of DSM...

I've come the conclusion, for me at least, that what I love in BOTH of those scenarios is the absolute loss of control. Putting the two together can only intensify the lack of control experience for me! Nothing too extreme has to be in the restraining because just the emotional aspect of being the subject of a restrained exam sends me into another pleasure zone.

I am with you. Both the vulnerability AND the expectation that being vulnerable, compliant, and usually naked is such a crossover with BDSM. The power dynamic of doctor/patient. So you MUST obey the doctor. The social expectation dictates that you obey the doctor.

I'm kind of conflicted on this. When I finally have a play exam in person if quite like it to be as realistic as possible, which including restraints for a normal exam wouldn't be. Thing is though that I do like being restrained do putting the two together couldn't be a bad thing.

Maybe it's one to try on my second exam...if I ever have a first!

Very interesting thread. I have only recently started to entertain the idea of combining MedFet and (light) BDSM, which I had enjoyed separately before. I shall add that, although both in BDSM and in MedFet the dominant and submissive roles are often established beforehand, I quite like the idea of both people 'fighting for power', in more or less covert ways. In a more BDSM fashion, power can be obtained through restraining or fighting/pinning down etc. In MedFet, things get more nuanced. Even the 'vulnerable', exposed patient still has some degree of implicit power over the doctor, who needs to keep professional but is hampered in doing so by evident signs of arousal under their lab coat. So who's really in charge?

(P.S. I'm new to the forum and still learning how to use it. In case I have accidentally posted this twice, I apologise).

It can be good to combine elements like medfet and bdsm as long as both parties are in favour

It depends on where scene, I could really enjoy a more realistic exam that doesn’t get to kinky or out of control just a regular exam by someone other than a practing doctor for fun.

Buttttt my biggest fantasy has to be a combination of medfet and bdsm. I really want to be completely dominated in a medical setting using a lot of different restraints on an exam table. The doctor/nurse would run any test they would like on me.. electro stim, cbt, anal, sounding, leave it all up to the doctor to preform “nessecary” tests on me while I’m gaged and restrained.

All fun and games provided nobody becomes injured.

Yes, this is one of my favorite combos.

I like to start very clinically, with a white coat, steth, etc. and do a complete head to toe examination; all very professional, including rectal temp, vaginal exam, etc. etc. But then towards the end of the "exam" I start getting stricter/bitchier, with her laying on her tummy getting her rectal temp I restrain her wrists, then her ankles; remove the thermometer and give her a good hard hand spanking, then the paddle while I pull on her pony tail.

Then it's either an enema or the strap-on (sometimes I let her decide which she prefers!).

All of my play exams have stayed somewhat realistic. But I do like the idea of maybe working some light bondage into one. No whips or canes. But I'm intrigued by the idea of restraints.

I'm not real familiar with BDSM. I can definitely see how the bondage aspect is realistic. I haven't had a surgery since 1992, when I was 16, but I have had 16 major surgeries, and seem to remember some form of restraint for the general anesthetic.

Discipline, in my mind, might be self discipline on the part of the patient if I (the doctor) were to say that she needed to wear a mask (not even the anesthetic mask, but maybe an N95 in the lobby or on the floor, or in public for, say, her immune system or lungs. Or during the exam, to help maintain sanitation (I prefer just a yellow earloop for this instead of those Vogmasks and other "designer masks" that have infiltrate the industry).

I'm not interested at all in sadomasochism, except maybe breath play, and I can't see that as part of an exam unless the patient were made to wear a rather thick mask during the procedure (N95? 3M half mask respirator?).

I love BDSM. BDSM and medfet are like bread and butter to me.

If you mean easy bdsm like tweezers or wartenberg wheel then l agree

I love BDSM. BDSM and medfet are like bread and butter to me.

My wife and I love this the best as she loves to be examined but at the same time restrained, then as the examination takes place more forceful techniques are used creating pain and pleasure. It does end up with me having forceful sex with her and bringing her to orgasm with using more force against her clit. We have tried over the years in the UK to find people into the same but end up with them being either just into medfit or BDSM but not both

I love the loss of control.

I love being tied down and even blindfolded to Doc's real life exam table in his office. There is just something so very naughty about playing in a real doctors office after hours. Mmmmm. I miss those days and I can't wait to get them back again someday soon. I think he can't wait to be the one tied down and blindfolded as well. Wheeee, we have great times in that office of his. We are the lucky ones I guess.

Mashie

As some who has sort of stumbled into this Medfet area, this does seems like a good combo. I love some "mild" BDSM, and while I have idly wondered about being taken control of by a nurse or Doc, never a whole lot. Working towards a a meeting with a member here to explore some stuff and this combination, while needing to be tempered til trust is gained has some great possibilities. As noted we are taught since birth to do what the medical professional tells us to do. I know I always strive to be the best patient I can. But I got to wondering today how a more "uncoooperative" patient might be dealt with by a provider with little to no tolerance for not doing exactly as told. "IF you wont breathe deep when asked nicely, I'm sure you will after five strokes with the paddle". "I'm checking your foot for response, dont let it kick at all. I TOLD you to not let your foot kick, now I have to strap it down and stimulate it some more to be sure. I'll start with the wheel and then use the crop on the sole a few times to be sure". There are a lot of ways it could go, all of them awesome.

Ive never experienced both combined but would absolutely love to at some point.

I'm not a BDSM'er except for the D/s part which I really enjoy. What part of BDSM are most you referring to here to mix with MedFet, just being restrained and/or gagged, maybe with a spanking or Enema at the end? What else would you do in an exam that would qualify as BDSM?

Eric

With it so easy to move back and forth between clinical medical play and a varied range of light bdsm, bondage, and other types of dom/sub play it's something almost can't resit blurring. That said, it's still nice to have a strictly clinical exam if you like the idea of a realistic tease that leaves you thinking about your doctor.

Any medical play is about submission for me. I get off on some of the sensations too but it’s ring dominated that really does it for me.

I’m into various types of BDSM, but don’t like to mix them too much other than that. I like to keep it realistic.

Being bound and blindfolded during a play exam is a usual for me.

Mashie,

Relevant to combining fetishes in another adjacent thread, (including BDSM and MedFet listed here), you said:

I love being tied down and even blindfolded to Doc's real life exam table in his office. There is just something so very naughty about playing in a real doctors office after hours. Mmmmm. I miss those days and I can't wait to get them back again someday soon. I think he can't wait to be the one tied down and blindfolded as well. Wheeee, we have great times in that office of his. We are the lucky ones I guess.

Mashie

I'm sure you and Doc have a lovely exciting time being tied down to his medical table and combining MedFet and BDSM of whatever variety you enjoy. I'm not a real MedFet-er except for just a little I did with a couple who requested it once, which they enjoyed. But as far as combining fetishes for maximum bang for your buck, too bad you're not a big enema fan (I am), because being tied down and blindfolded or hooded and being given a big long arousing enema by your/my dominant partner is really spectacular.

I'm so glad you and Doc have each other and enjoy his office so much for your interpersonal escapades. I hope you can get back to it very soon. You are indeed lucky to have each other.

Eric