This is going to sound a bit fantastic, but I assure you this is the life I actually live.
I had a few little medfet-o-genic episodes as a kid. I think we all know the drill by now, a traumatic experience, but when you imagine it happening to someone else, it's MAGIC! Got a shot and fought it; anal exam when I had appendicitis; heard a kid getting an anesthetic suppository in the next bed; mother & grandmother getting a little carried away with anal and belly-button cleanliness. (Don't make the mistake of asking me for "MORE!" on those last two; the "phallic mother" is not a happy place for me. Leaving the bad stuff behind, the BEST part was getting physical exams for Boy Scout Summer Camp, because that was intelligent, caring, physically-expressed attention from an older man. That was a Great Thing, for me, and well worth carrying on, for a carefully-selected set of guys who have an appreciation for that sort of thing.
So, time goes by, I do some post-gay work in church, recover to a certain extent from the mother-mischief, and (low-level) physical/emotional/sexual abuse at the hands of the pastor's son. I learn how my fetishes work, and how to make them work for me. I read /Soul-Murder/ by Shengold, a handy phenomenology of anal over-stimulation. I work in a facility for brain-injured patients where I get to do a lot of reading (while theoretically "watching patients") and a certain amount of sub-CNA medical stuff: oral temp, blood pressure, weight, insertion of laxative suppositories, helping infirm patients in the shower. None of these patients were the least bit interesting in the erotic sense, but all that work did help me gain experience and confidence I would need to "open shop" as a Med-Fet doctor. I've been pricing the supplies, reading all the books, carefully studying FetLife and ZityBiz to see who does this right, what works, and what doesn't. Whose approach is "overdoing it," who fizzles, and who gives Baby Bear just the right amount of porridge he needs. 😉 Naturally I read all of Dan Savage's columns, as he is so very much concerned to make kink work for people.
Now, I've poked around a bit on Craiglist and here, and by-and-by, things will click, and I'll get started with my own "practice" here in San Diego. Word will get around that "1970sboy" does that sort of thing exactly right, if that's what you want, and it won't be just the SoCal people, but there will be people flying in on business who make a point of stopping by for a check-up.
But let me explain something that it going on now which is kind of interesting.
I have a student of Japanese, a handsome young man, 22, of Swedish/Philipino background, who is hoping to be a Doctor in Japan. So we've been doing basic Japanese for a while, but now we're focusing on a Dorling-Kindersley pop-up anatomy book, Japanese edition, and some Middle-School level encyclopedia articles on basic anatomy. Naturally we go back and forth between the West's Greek/Latin based medical vocab and the Japanese terms, which often follow the western terms closely, but sometimes do not.
And I notice that my student and I are forming "Medical School bonds," where we can talk about and appreciate the body, all of its organs and functions.
I have a sinking feeling that he and I might end up as practice dummies for medical stuff, which would be JUST GREAT.
But the basic bonding is over the medical terminology. Isn't that the darndest thing?
---1970's boy.