How exactly does a punishment enema feel to you?

For all gender orientations, I wonder exactly how it feels to you as your cheeks are spread and a Domme or Dom is able to look at that vulnerable little opening that is so private and kept hidden by you? Then how do you react as a lubricated finger is slowly and relentlessly pushed deep inside of you, then turned and bent before being pulled back and then in over and over again, stimulating all of the nerves there? What thoughts and feelings run through your mind as it is penetrated by a large, hard nozzle pushed in and then out repeatedly while it is still turned off. Similarly how does it feel, and what do you think about as you hear the click and the fluid begins to gush into you Do you try to squeeze the nozzle tightly to stop the flow, and how do you react when you realize that you cannot do so? What thoughts and fears cross your mind as the load moves relentlessly into your bottom? How do you feel about your Domme or Dom who is making you receive this? And then, when the flow ends, how does it feel as the nozzle is removed and you tighten your anus to prevent an accident, as you are told that you must retain that punishing load for ten minutes regardless of any cramping or other discomfort? Do you beg for permission to privately expel it in the bathroom, and if your giver refuses that permission do you try to negotiate with them? Finally, once you are given permission to release how does it feel and what goes through your mind?

I find NO clear cut cases of punishment actually leading to POSITIVE change in behavior.

Pure unquestioning submission is NOT POSITIVE behavior in the modern world an will often make you an easy victim.

As a result I don't use punishment and certainly not the kinds of enemas and the situation where an enema would be abusive

@Lisak said

I find NO clear cut cases of punishment actually leading to POSITIVE change in behavior.

Pure unquestioning submission is NOT POSITIVE behavior in the modern world an will often make you an easy victim.

As a result I don't use punishment and certainly not the kinds of enemas and the situation where an enema would be abusive

@Lisak, you really don't get it.

We are NOT talking about punishing children.

This is about BDSM and play enemas and "punishing" your partner, who 99% of the time WANTS the punitive enema.

From your posts over the years, you sound like a (probably) male skrinkologist out to punish mostly men for acts they may or may not have committed instead of telling the person claiming they have a problem that the problem is THEIRS and that they need to get a grip on life.

>Pure unquestioning submission is NOT POSITIVE behavior in the modern world...

Maybe you're just not doing it right.

In play pure submission to the one you love and trust is the best feeling in the world.

Peace,

Caz

Caz, I am in full agreement. That very trust eventually brings me to no longer need any "safe words" with that partner, allowing the to occasionally exceed my stated limits without risking anything unsafe being done.

I find NO clear cut cases of punishment actually leading to POSITIVE change in behavior.

Let's see, among other positive changes in behavior, punishment from my Dom has led to me driving no more than 5 mph over the speed limit, stopping for yellow lights, and being sure my doors are locked at night.

@LisaK, you need to note what context punishment is in before you go criticizing it.

(While I'm on the subject of punishment, punishments as a child did correct a number of behaviors, like losing track of time while playing with friends and talking back to teachers.)

It's more the psychology, as well as the tone of voice that is being used.

The first thing that goes through your mind is fear knowing that what is to come is going to be very uncomfortable . The anticipation is bad enough.

Then having to take my clothes off and get into the knee chest position where I was completely vulnerable with everything on display including my slightly gaped rose bud hole.

My senses heightened as I heard the water going into the enema bag knowing soon it would be going into me. It was a Domme who said..."You have been a very bad boy so now you are getting a punishment enema and after that you will get a nice red tush which will make sure you stay good and not be naughty like you have been." I said..."Yes Ma'am.

Then I felt it, her finger filled with Vaseline going around my rosebud hole and then slowly but firmly going all the way in. Then she slowly pulls it almost all the way out but plunges it in again. She continues to do that for a couple of minutes and finally takes it out. She picks up the nozzle coated with Vaseline and slowly but firmly pushes it in and then out and then in , driving me nuts as I gyrate my ass back and forth. She smacks my tush hard....SMACK SMACK .."Oww Oww" enough, She shoves the nozzle all the way in and opens the clamp on the hose. I can feel the warm liquid enter my rectum and bowels and go into my tummy. It didn't take long for the bag to empty because it was hanging hi from a pole. I was starting to cramp and pleaded to evacuate. She said this is a punishment enema so you will cramp till I tell you that you can evacuate. I was feeling remorse and very sorry and as I was doing so our next door neighbor came in. She nearly busted out laughing but my wife stopped her saying I was getting a punishment enema for being a bad boy. So embarrassing. " Please I begged I need to go." She finally said "Alright I think you have learned your lesson you may go." With that she pulled the nozzle out and I clenched my cheeks so nothing would leak and dashed to the bathroom and sat down on the toilet I looked up to see her and my neighbor standing there watching me. The mixture came rushing out {KERPLUSH, KERPLUSH, KERPLUSH, Fart, dribble, dribble } They both had smiles on their faces. My face was very red. My thoughts took me back to being in my early teens. I promised myself to be a good boy from now on so I wouldn't have to be this embarrassed again.

Caz

Your comment "In play, pure submission to the one you love and trust is the best feeling in the world" serves as a beautiful reminder of the feelings that motivate and give fulfillment to those of us who choose to relate this way. It is so sad that many reject this type of relationship because they automatically judge it to be abusive, dangerous, and the opposite of love. We who celebrate it, and through it each other, are able to experience the feelings you describe. Thank you!

I've always thought that a dad giving his daughter enemas and supervising the process was a bit off. While I'm not prepared to say it was abuse, at the very least it doesn't look good. It might have been totally innocent but it smacks of impropriety. The potential is there for abuse and the older she got the more the chances for sexual abuse.

I've always thought that a dad giving his daughter enemas and supervising the process was a bit off. While I'm not prepared to say it was abuse, at the very least it doesn't look good. It might have been totally innocent but it smacks of impropriety. The potential is there for abuse and the older she got the more the chances for sexual abuse.

@Moppys_jalopy Exactly! If she truly had hundreds of enemas growing up, by the time she was 10 she could do it completely without supervision. Not exactly complicated and totally unnecessary for a parent to be there watching and listening. That just seems creepy. Its just an enema!!

And just my opinion, but disregarding a serious digestive medical issue, how many enemas do kids really need? Maybe a couple of times she ate so poorly that there was a bowel issue? Could happen a few times. And if girls found an enema soothing or helpful during a time of their cycle, then by that age they can do it themselves, with the parents giving them privacy.

I would dearly love to be heavily restrained and at the mercy of a Dominatrix intent of giving me a good cleaning out!

The fear of the invasiveness and knowing that no matter how bad the cramps get there is no chance of releasing without the Mistress's help is really arousing.

I hope I can experience this one day.

I’ve given and taken punishment enemas as an adult. I think much of the punishment effect is the anticipation that goes with. Know that a hot soapy bag. Is coming, usually, right after a spanking has an incredible mental effect on me

I love a good punishment enema from a dominant Woman! Unbelievable experience it feels so good!

There is nothing more exciting than making someone spread their cheeks for the first time. Not only is there an aura of excitement for both giver and receiver, but the first spread of the cheeks can be the most intimate thing you've ever done. Nothing finer

Oh god I'd love to be restrained and be forced to recieve a hot, high and a helluvalot enema from a babysitter.I'm sure i'd make up a fight not to be suspicious but i guess i would just surrender in the end 😜

Well many have different ideas about what is punishment. I am not into causing pain or receiving it but discomfort and fighting the urge to expel is combined with role play etc effective discipline. After all the object for me is to have pleasure and cause it. Must admit seeing the struggle can be erotic

The anticipation of how a punishment enema is going to feel before it is administered is a part of the punishment. They, the punishment enemas, are not pleasant.

There isn't alot of time to contemplate what you do wrong. But the after affects stick with you so you can try to do better.

I find NO clear cut cases of punishment actually leading to POSITIVE change in behavior.

In my life, as a child and an adult (vanilla and kinky), punishment has worked. To avoid future punishment I don't do the offensive deeds. Plain and simple.

A punishment enema is very uncomfortable by design. It creates a lot of pressure and cramping because it's administered rapidly and held for a minimum of 15 minutes. I've always been given a sound spanking first, so the enema is about as welcome as a slap on a sunburn.

I’ve had an enema that I didn’t want before, but never a punishment enema. It sounds awful and exciting at the same time.

Never had one or want one! I want it to be with minimal cramping, warm and soothing, and relaxing. 😉

My play with a mistress is based on me being punished. But it is consensual. I want it. She takes control and I go with it. Its part of the play.

What does it feel like? Wonderful. I’m taken back to when I developed the interest. A young man who needs to be disciplined for his actions. Exciting when mistress states you need a good spanking and I’m going to give it to you. A feeling of butterflies in the stomach when I’m made to stand before her as she scolds me for my behavior. That continues when I’m ordered to “Pull down your pants!” The look I’m given when I say No. Then the embarrassing feeling as she forcefully pulls me to her and unfastens my belt, unzips me and yanks both pants and underwear down. Totally exposed before her when ordered over her lap. The gentle feeling of a paddle caressing my bottom before it turns into sharp spanks. More butterflies when I’m told, “When I finish you are getting an enema!’ No! More hard spanks until I agree. Please stop, you can give me an enema. (Did I just agree to that? goes through my mind.) Then stripped and made to lay down as enema is made ready. The smile from mistress as she puts on the black latex gloves. Then pleasure of an enema fills me even though it’s punishment. Then I’m made to hold as mistress seems to delight in my predicament. The need to go washes over me. Not yet, you are being punished. It feels like punishment, I need to go. Then given permission, a feeling of relief(everyone here knows that feeling)After? Mistress turns from punishing to nurturing. I melt. On the way home? An overwhelming feeling of peace and contentment with any and all stress gone.

My feelings of a punishment enema.

Aquarius, no doubt. I do not receive a true punishment enema like others relate. But it’s all I have available. And it’s fun to play make believe. Better than nothing for me.

I like to refer to a punishment enema as an educational enema; That doesn't sound so "dramatic" 😎

That is a good term…"educational enema". I like that and may start using it.

@MissStress I've seen the phrase “attitude adjustment”.

@MissStress I've seen the phrase “attitude adjustment”.

@Pecan_nutjob that term I use for spankings.

“Flushing out the meanness” ?

“The bad mood will go with the poop”?

“Hydraulic based improvement opportunity”

I would enjoy a mock punishment enema from a mature woman especially if she was sorry she had to do it to me and after hugged me and said she was sorry.