I defiantly loose the desire for any punishment to be applied after orgasm, especially to my balls. Having said that, I am a complete hedonist, I look for pleasure over the long run and if going through some pain to obtain greater pleasure I am willing to do that. I am also masochist by nature so I will allow myself to be subjected to pain to that leads to the ultimate outcome, pleasure.
I discovered early in my life that spanking is a sexual act, at least for me. That is why am so opposed to corporal punishment for children, I consider it sex abuse. The threat of a paddling only does one thing for me, turn me on. The spanking usually leads to a climax. I really enjoy that but there are pleasures beyond that.
If I am told either in advance or during the spanking that I will subjected to further punishment post climax, that heightens the excitement and the dread. I must say that the dread of punishment is a big turn-on for me.
The the time comes(no pun intended), for that climax just before the real punishment starts, I try every thing to hold back, I want the climax but I hate and dread what will happen to my butt next. As I have said in other post, when they push you out the door over the drop zone there is no going back, the fall is so pleasurable but you know the ground is coming up and that case to not be very pleasurable when parachute technology was primitive. I would give anything to take back that ejaculation but that is impossibe.
So there I am ass our or ass up awaiting the dreaded impact of the paddle. I am going to use the paddle for this discussion for an instrument of punishment any other will do. Then wham! I would give anything for my ass to be anywhere else or belong to anyone else. If not restrained or on something for support it is almost impossible to remain in position. The people I have trained to deliver this type of punishment are vey good at not counting that stroke or giving extra and extra had licks for too much movement.
When this ordeal is finally over, it can and usually goes on for quiet a long period, I am left with nothing but a burning ass and usually a painful ride if I am visiting the dom. Some where on that ride a feeling of peace and tranquility emerges for me. By the time I am back to where ever I am staying, I am back to being stimulate again and relived that the punishment spanking over . It is as if some burden has been lifted and my mood is greatly improve and stays that way for a long time. It is a great feeling to know I have suffered real punishment and that is the pleasure that I mentioned in the first paragraph.
It must be an endorphin thing because I get a similar feeling from a long endurance event, I have done up to 50 mile races, 4 mile swims, ling bicycle races. I have pain after those but I feel great having done them.
I am not trying to convince anyone to do this or to condemn me for putting pain in the equation to obtain a far greater pleasure than an orgasm.
Thanks;
Rob