Anyone enjoy being handcuffed / tied up while getting jacked off?

Knowing you're going to be made to cum, and that someone else is in control of making that happen.

Perhaps as if you are imprisoned by your need to be gotten off.

I understand the excitement of having someone else being in control of getting you off. That is the main reason I enjoy receiving handjobs so much. I prefer having it done as a willing recipient and being imprisoned by my desire to have someone else in control of my ejaculation. In other words, I do not want to be physically restrained but controlled by my need to ejaculate and have someone else provide the stimulation. For me, a handjob through a glory hole is perfect. I am willingly presenting my penis and scrotum to be worked on but am unable to use any body part to influence the person working on me. This is especially exciting if there is an audience watching my experience.

There are many times I enjoy jerking off my husband.

There are also lots of times I like tying him up (or other men) and jerking him off until I see he is almost ready to orgasm and then I like to leave the room. 😁 😁 😁

Being tied up and being jerked off does NOT guarantee an orgasm. In fact is usually guarantees you WON'T have an orgasm. When you're tied up, your body is my playground.

My hubby and I can not understand why people enjoy being restrained during the most exciting physical act available to two people. Yes, we tried it ... more than once, in fact ... agreed unanimously that THIS WAS NOT FOR US. Sorry about that! We love to have full freedom of movement when performing.

There are many times I enjoy jerking off my husband.

Susie, i click on like just by this opening sentence alone. You earned a like for it.

LOL. Then i proceeded to read on in you post as to how devious you are.

You tease, you.

But i do like the idea, that you get the idea, that once you have someone tied up, their body IS your playground.

I've never had the pleasure of being restrained and jerked off, so I don't know whether I'd enjoy it or not. But I think I would.

However, as I posted in a different thread, I recently attended a male-to-male spanking club for the first time that proved to be very stimulating. No, I wasn't restrained and jerked off. But I've been chatting with one of the organizers of the club and have been making plans for the next meeting which I hope to attend.

As I've expressed to him, my fantasy is to be strung up with my hands tied to a spreader bar above my head and a similar one between my feet. I would be progressively stripped until I was finally fully nude. While strung up like that, and basically helpless, I would be spanked, touched, fondled, groped, and yes most likely jerked off (and maybe sucked off) by one or more guys. The spanking and edging would alternate back and forth for as long as I could take it before I'd finally shoot my load -- either hands-free all over the floor, or in someone's hand, or perhaps in their mouth.

That's my fantasy and he has assured me that it's quite possible to make it a reality, as similar things have been done before. So in a few weeks, if I'm brave enough to go through with it, I'll have some dramatic new experiences.

I just love being in restraints. Metal handcuffs are not comfortable, but nicely padded leather wrist & ankle restraints are. Being blindfolded adds to the excitement. Then being securely tied to a spanking bench, or getting an enema in restraints is wonderful. Frequently I'm so stimulated that I can't cum, but it's more fun to be kept on the edge for a long time or have a whole body orgasm which is different from ejaculation. When doing enema play in restraints, best to do it with a colon therapists speculum so the enema can be released into a container.

All this can be very exciting and the feeling of surrender is wonderful

I just love being in restraints. Metal handcuffs are not comfortable, . . . . .

All this can be very exciting and the feeling of surrender is wonderful

Last time I checked, handcuffs weren't supposed to be comfortable. 😁 😁 😁

A certain amount of discomfort adds to the dissonance between the pleasure of being jerked off and being uncomfortably restrained.

Being tied up and being jerked off does NOT guarantee an orgasm. In fact is usually guarantees you WON'T have an orgasm. When you're tied up, your body is my playground.

You are just a mean woman. That is cruel. I hope he beats your ass when he gets loose.

You are just a mean woman. That is cruel. I hope he beats your ass when he gets loose.

That's not likely to happen.

He always has the question of "what would Sue do to me next time" in the back of his mind. The thing is, he's always waiting with baited breath for the next time!

😁 😁 😁

I had a sort of reverse of what Susie describes - orgasm denial. In my case, at the end of our session a certain lovely Domme told me I wasn't allowed to climax until she gave me permission, which of course she didn't, even as she was manually stimulating me quite skillfully to orgasm. I naturally received a severe spanking as a result of my blatant disobedience...

I had a sort of reverse of what Susie describes - orgasm denial. In my case, at the end of our session a certain lovely Domme told me I wasn't allowed to climax until she gave me permission, which of course she didn't, even as she was manually stimulating me quite skillfully to orgasm. I naturally received a severe spanking as a result of my blatant disobedience...

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SwitchableSusie said

There are also lots of times I like tying him up (or other men) and jerking him off until I see he is almost ready to orgasm and then I like to leave the room.

What I said sounds like orgasm denial to me!

What I said sounds like orgasm denial to me!

No argument. Except in my case I was punished for having an orgasm against my Mistress's direction, and your husband's lack of an orgasm was the punishment.

Ah, yes, I see.

Your orgasm was prohibited, but you disobeyed and had one anyway.

I would love to be restrained while being masturbated... having someone bring you so close to orgasm just to deny until they are ready to let you orgasm if they choose to let you

I would love to be restrained while being masturbated... having someone bring you so close to orgasm just to deny until they are ready to let you orgasm if they choose to let you

One of my favorite activities!

I'd love to be restrained and then masturbated to the edge over and over before being locked away in chastity without any orgasm. The only time the belt would ever come off would be when restrained.

There are also lots of times I like tying him up (or other men) and jerking him off until I see he is almost ready to orgasm and then I like to leave the room. 😁 😁 😁

I’m not sure if it is your intention, but that is really funny.

Have you ever thought of tying him up while he is facing the window? When you walk out of the room, get your purse and coat so he sees you walking to your car with them. Get in your car and go get a pedicure and a manicure. You could show him when you get home ?

Definitely, the lack of being in control and being made to cum or not is a real turn on.

Having been restrained, hands and feet, the Dom is able to jerk me off slowly or quickly, stop when and if they wish, invite others to watch and determine where my cum ends up. Will they capture it in a glass ready for drinking, maximise how much lands on me or use it in some other way.

Now where are those handcuffs?

Sounds like fun, but would eventually have to get off somehow.

This is one of GF's favorite things especially when she is feeling "in charge." I'm spread eagled on the bed and blindfolded.She plays with me then leaves the roomful what seems like forever. When she returns she starts over again and just drives me crazy. Sometimes this happens a few times. Finally she comes back, climbs on and in almost no time I explode in her. Then her pussy is on my mouth and I lick her clean which she loves. Once when I was finished I heard someone clapping then the bedroom door shut. She had brought one of her kinky nurse friends in to watch the fun. I think I know who it was but not sure. That woman would be a good match for Susie!

I would love to try that - however my wife is not the dominant type 😃

Sounds intriguing. But it would also require a certain level of trust to let a stranger put you in handcuffs.

I want so bad to be edged and teased while being hancuffed. Man or woman. Just lay down spread eagle. Forced cum control. I edge myself alot. I can go several hours getting close and not cumming. I get the heightened state of excitement and then when im close just take deep breaths and relax. But would love to have someone control me and make me beg them to cum

I want so bad to be edged and teased while being handcuffed. Man or woman. Just lay down spread eagle. Forced cum control.

If you apply yourself enough, you'll find willing participants.

Since my original post to this thread last March, I've actually been edged and jacked off numerous times while I was restrained. I can attest to the fact that being restrained in one way or another, edged for some amount of time, and then stroked and jacked off to orgasm -- all without having any control or say in the matter -- that's an extremely exciting and erotic experience!

That's been done to me at the monthly male-only spanking event that I try to attend. But I've also more recently ventured out into pure bondage sessions one-on-one with guys. Since those sessions are one-on-one in a private session, you can take much more time and enjoy all of the stimulation.

As an example, at my last private session with a guy, I was stripped and chained to his bed in a couple of different ways. First face down, spread-eagle while still wearing my jockstrap. Then face up with the jockstrap removed, in a leather straight jacket, blindfolded and gagged, my wrists and ankles spread wide and chained to the bed. Oh, and a parachute attached to my cock and balls and also tied tightly to the bed! And then finally in the same face-up position but without the straight jacket. During that final scene is when he edged me for a long time and finally stroked me to an "explosive" completion. It was fantastic.

Last month, I went to visit a septuagenarian who had ED. So he was more focused on giving a massage, eating my ass, and sucking me. But because I jack off so much and am not used to having a partner, cumming for him was impossible.

His bed has these really tall bed posts. And I noticed black straps around the posts at the foot of the bed. I thought that having my ankles strapped to the posts would help anchor me, and perhaps excite me enough that i would be able to cum for him. I felt it was like my last chance to see if I could cum for him.

So to get that ball rolling, i asked him what those straps were for. I didn't realize he had 2 more around the head bed posts. He told me guys worry about going home with rope marks, so he used the straps. (But that he also has rope in the drawer too.)

Wasn't successful. So now i know to avoid jacking off days before a planned meet up. Still a work in progress though.

I have never expirenced it but want to more then anything. I want a female to tie or cuff my hands. I dont care if its cuffs rope tape anything so my hands arent free. And to pull my pants down and jerk me with her hands. She can use her mouth on me too. Lay me down on my back and get on top and hup and ride me hard. Maybe if she gentle put a finger up my butt hole too.

I had a boyfriend a while back who would handcuff me to the bedhead and then spend hours massaging me, masturbating me, teasing me (ice, vibrators, etc) and eventually making me cum. It was always awesome... a pity it wasn't more often.

We would take turns being the giver and receiver. I found it was also fun playing with someone who was at your mercy and somewhat helpless, but ultimately you were giving them an amazing orgasm.

This happened to me three times during my teen years,twice unwillingly by my friends? And once by an older person willingly,when my friends did it they held my feet and arms down,I was struggling to get loose they yanked my pants and undies down past my knees and pulled my tee shirt over my head ,one of the boys jacked me while the other boys played with my nipples and balls,after about 5 min of this and all of the struggling,excitement and embarrassment I had a wicked orgasm,cum was flying everywhere. That was a much better orgasm than the one I submitted to with the older person.