Men: Penis size?

In my youth I was about 7" long. Now, due to a bit of extra padding and aging I am only 5.5" - 6" in length when fully hard with a slight curve. Girth is about 5". When flaccid it is much smaller, probably about 3".

So it does shrink with old age... Explains why when I recently measured I'm just 5.5" whereas I always thought I was over 6 - and I remember my 1st wife who mentioned after coming back from cheating that she missed my big dick.

2 and one half inches errect. When soft almost undetectable it is lost in the hair.

Sitting at 8.25 inches fully erect, and anywhere from 3 to 5 inches flaccid (unless it's cold or I'm dehydrated)

200+ replies. Such a popular topic. Amazing to me, since I was in puberty, how obsessed some people seem to be with penis size, particularly some men. I’ve never measured my penis, flaccid or erect.

I’ve had 20 some female girlfriends and sexual partners in my life and I cannot think of a single time a woman commented on the size of my penis. It’s a complete non-issue. Never a comment that it’s good or bad or too big or too small and definitely never been asked “so, how many inches long is your penis?” I think the closest it came was a certain girlfriend who never failed to say during drunk blowjobs “I love your cock!”

I’m not saying the sex was great with every single woman I’ve been with, but when it wasn’t good and the woman explained why, penis size was never the topic.

6.25 inches fully erect, but as the years roll on it doesnt get as hard as it did when i was a youth

7.5 thick

I agree with Richard. I do think we tend to obsess about size and it isn't very healthy. As for some of the fantastic sizes reported here, especially girth, I am amazed not jealous. I wonder if it can be unpleasant to be too long and thick? Surely not something I will achieve. Be well everyone.

Maybe we should start one about breast size or clitoris size.

I’ve had 20 some female girlfriends and sexual partners in my life and I cannot think of a single time a woman commented on the size of my penis. It’s a complete non-issue.

Got me thinking... I never told my girlfriend that I did not like her floppy vagina lips, nor did I tell another partner that I liked a cock to have bulbous head, and his did not.. So perhaps these are things we don't tell our partners. In the ten years I was married to my first wife she never mentioned my cock - it was only after we had separated that she mentioned how she liked the thickness of mine.

I'll answer the question, then make a simple statement.

The length of my penis is 5.75 and the circumference at the base is 5.25 inches.

It's not small, it's not large, at 67 years old it works, very well I might add, it pleases others, and it pleases me.

The only time it ever fails me is if I have a drink or two more than I should.

Other than that I still enjoy a good orgasm and don't see that coming to an end anytime soon.

6"" flaccid. When I was a teen I looked at every penis I saw and compared it to mine to see it I was bigger or smaller than them. When I was with the forces I was surrounded by naked males. Some had a penis far longer and thicker than mine who could not wait to show it off, whilst others were a lot smaller than mine but perfectly at ease, and it was at that point that I thought what the hell, I am what I am, I cannot alter the size, so live with what I am.

I’ve had 20 some female girlfriends and sexual partners in my life and I cannot think of a single time a woman commented on the size of my penis. It’s a complete non-issue. Never a comment that it’s good or bad or too big or too small..

Unfortunately, that has not been my experience. I'm a big guy overall - 6'4" with an athletic build (an aging athletic build). I've had women who were initially thrilled with the size of my cock, but later came to regret it. For many, oral sex was tiring for their jaw, and penetrative sex became uncomfortable if I "bottomed out" or hit the cervix. Some have started off excited but later complained frankly that I was too big (no, it's not flattering)

While many men and women have been led to believe that a big (or bigger) penis is desirable, it's not always practical.

That being said, I've had lovers who were completely satisfied with my size. It's just not the "be-all-end-all" that many have been led to believe.

My current husband measures in at 11-1/2 to 12 inches long and 4-1/2 to 5 inches round. Several of us have measured him and depending if he is really excited and hard or just hard makes the extra half inch up.

My ex, his looked like a deers nose sticking out of the brush!!!! He had to shave just to see that he had something to work with. I could not give him head through a zipper or my nose would get raw from the zipper teeth. But, he had determination. He sure could beat the hell out of my lips!!!

@FredD: While many men and women have been led to believe that a big (or bigger) penis is desirable, it's not always practical.

Appreciate hearing that! My long term girlfriends seemed happy with my 6+ inches...

I'll share..I"m 8.5, cut, THICK (4.5 diameter) mushroom head. My Ex-wife enjoyed it, and now "being out as GAY", I guess I have the "best of both worlds". LOL.. To many guys DO worry that they are "to big, to small" never happy with what we were born with. Enjoy what you have, and don't worry about "what it would be like "IF"

Hope this will be helpful to some of you guys. If you go to a gym, you will see all sizes, some men covering to hid erections, or "their less than what ever..." just get over it and like I said: ENJOY WHAT YOU HAVE.. IT IS THE ONLY ONE you will "probably have!".

Interested in your feed back if you wish to comment.

Thanks,

JB

@paula said

My current husband measures in at 11-1/2 to 12 inches long and 4-1/2 to 5 inches round. Several of us have measured him and depending if he is really excited and hard or just hard makes the extra half inch up.

When you said "inches round" do you mean in diameter or circumference?

Specifics here are important because a 12" penis only 4 1/2 to 5 inches in circumference could barely [or not] support itself in a horizontal position when the man is standing, and five inches in diameter is the size of a newborn's head.

FOR COMPARISON: A TWO LITER Coca Cola bottle is 11 3/4 inches tall and is 4 3/8 inches in diameter, which is 13 3/4 inches in circumference.

Are you saying his penis is bigger than a TWO LITER soda bottle?

Note: I have no experience with a 12 inch penis.

@NCWarmElover said

I'll share..I"m 8.5, cut, THICK (4.5 diameter) mushroom head. My Ex-wife enjoyed it, and now "being out as GAY", I guess I have the "best of both worlds". LOL.. . . . .

You do realize that is bigger in diameter than a TWO LITER soda bottle which is only 4 3/8 inches in diameter, don't you?

Susie said: When you said "inches round" do you mean in diameter or circumference?

Specifics here are important because a 12" penis only 4 1/2 to 5 inches in circumference could barely [or not] support itself in a horizontal position when the man is standing, and five inches in diameter is the size of a newborn's head.

FOR COMPARISON: A TWO LITER Coca Cola bottle is 11 3/4 inches tall and is 4 3/8 inches in diameter, which is 13 3/4 inches in circumference.

Are you saying his penis is bigger than a TWO LITER soda bottle?

Note: I have no experience with a 12 inch penis.

Yeah, yeah how many of us believe that after reading all your stories? 😁

I never measured mine but it would snap back and slap my belly if I held it down when standing. I thought they all did that. We played all the normal young teen games but smearing dog shit on your abdomen and letting it snap back to see how many flies you could kill wasn't one.

I use the same ruler to measure fish I catch.

We played all the normal young teen games but smearing dog shit on your abdomen and letting it snap back to see how many flies you could kill wasn't one.

Jeez @roscoe Did you sniff paint chips or glue as a kid? ?

Suzie, l am not a carpenter, so l suppose terminology here does make a difference as in size!!

I mean we took a soft tape measure and wrapped it around his penis and saw where the numbers matched up on the other side. He is like one of those big black flashlights the police used to carry. Even soft he is longer than my hand is wide to hold it.

He must be great fun at your parties ......

@paula said

Suzie, l am not a carpenter, so l suppose terminology here does make a difference as in size!!

I mean we took a soft tape measure and wrapped it around his penis and saw where the numbers matched up on the other side. He is like one of those big black flashlights the police used to carry. Even soft he is longer than my hand is wide to hold it.

OK, by your description of the flashlight (we have a few of those in the house) and how you wrapped the tape measure around his penis, you measured the circumference to be 4 1/2 to 5 inches.

Yeah, what you said!!! LOL!! I just know that when he throws a hip into it and cums, l have a runny nose for the day!!! And several of the ladies at our parties decide they want to "take all of him", they find out they either have their hands, mouth or other female orifices more full than they originally believed!!!

I am very proud to be with him in so many ways other than just that as well. And as many have said before and l as well have personally experienced, size it not everything. I have been made a quivering mass by those with quite a bit less.

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When you said "inches round" do you mean in diameter or circumference?

Specifics here are important because a 12" penis only 4 1/2 to 5 inches in circumference could barely [or not] support itself in a horizontal position when the man is standing, and five inches in diameter is the size of a newborn's head.

FOR COMPARISON: A TWO LITER Coca Cola bottle is 11 3/4 inches tall and is 4 3/8 inches in diameter, which is 13 3/4 inches in circumference.

Are you saying his penis is bigger than a TWO LITER soda bottle?

Note: I have no experience with a 12 inch penis.

@SwitchableSusie I think you'll find that a lot of guys here have no experience with a foot long dick. I could walk into a wall with a hard on and still break my nose.

It's small, but it keeps me happy.

@SwitchableSusie I think you'll find that a lot of guys here have no experience with a foot long dick. I could walk into a wall with a hard on and still break my nose.

It's small, but it keeps me happy.

@Cedar - Are you Jewish!! 😄

@Cedar - Are you Jewish!! 😄

The mohel slipped. 😮

I think you'll find that a lot of guys here have no experience with a foot long dick. I could walk into a wall with a hard on and still break my nose.

It's small, but it keeps me happy.

But Cedar, from what we all have read, there are several ladies here that will "cumfirm" your "swordmanship" in that area!!!!

Isn’t the average depth of a vagina somewhere between 3-7 inches? Oral and anal could take a longer insertion, vaginally a 12 inch penis could double back and “instead of cumming he went”!