Was your first masturbation an accident?

My first ejaculation definitely was an accident, as I just had my flat palm rubbing my penis inside my jeans. But after that (I was a late bloomer and almost sixteen, so I knew exactly what had just happened), proper masturbation with my fingers wrapped around my penis with the goal of ejaculation was entirely intentional.

I don't remember how old I was, I'm sure it was in my early teens, I liked to stick things up my butt. In the family's medicine cabinet was an infant bulb syringe. I would sneak it and insert it. I don't recall if I had an erection or not but suddenly had what I thought was an urge to pee and I couldn't stop it, tried to pinch it off and made it to the bathroom unnoticed. That was my first orgasm, didn't know what happened. The rest is history.

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We didn't realize what we were doing.

My cousin and I stayed with my grandma through the summer. I was four and he was around 6. I have always cathed myself and changed my own diapers as far back as I can remember. He would join me during diaper changes and would watch as I "made myself pee" with the catheter.

Before I put on a clean diaper, we would play doctor and play with each other like that. It always fascinated me to no end to watch and feel his penis get really hard when either one of us touched it. He would put his finger in me and play around down there.

One time, he put on one of my diapers and wanted a catheter but it was too short to reach his bladder so he had to pee on his own.

All we knew is it felt good. We thought our genetalia was just a built in toy our bodies were built with.

When I was ten, as part of PE lessons on the gym circuit there were climbing ropes. When I pulled myself up the rope, it was right between my legs. By the time had git to the top, I had a sensation in my balls which was very pleasant. I had no idea what it was at the time. As I went down the rope at speed it became more intense. We stayed on the apparatus for about 5 minutes so I climbed and descended quite a few times. I wonder what it would feel like now...?

Yes! I was in kindergarten and being that age we rode a separate bus because we had half days. Getting on and off the bus, our bus driver would seat us where he wanted to. He walked each child to a specific spot and it varied from day to day. One day I was sitting there and I felt a tingling between my legs. I realized I enjoyed it. I always tried to go to that seat but the driver would put me where he wanted to.

One day, I told my mom the driver was mean. She had asked what happened. I said that he hadn't let me sit where I wanted to and I told her why. I don't remember exactly what she said but I do remember her saying that I shouldn't be doing that. It wasn't until years later that I remembered this.

The first time was sort of an accident. I was either 13 or about to turn 13, I don't remember how it started but me and a friend of mine were experimenting with each other, first we rubbed each others cocks and then took turns sucking each other. While he was sucking on me I started to get the feeling that something was about to happen, at the time I thought I was about to pee so I stopped him and ran to the bathroom. Of course when I tried to pee nothing happened, I started to rub my cock a little and that feeling started coming back so I kept doing it until finally I ejaculated into the toilet. I remember going back to him and helped him to his first ejaculation. Happy memories!

I was sleeping and my teddy bears cold button nose touched me in the right spot and scared me but it felt kind of good at the same time..

Nope.. i started playing with myself before I really understood what was going on besides that it felt good. Then I learned that if I did it long enough something would shoot out and that it would feel really good... been jerking off as much as I can ever since.

Yes around 11:00 early 12 years old. I started having wet dreams and it didn't take me long to figure out I could do it myself.

Totally. at about 10/11. Laying down on the bed started grimding. Got a nice sensation and a stiff penis It felt good, then bang. Came. But no liquid.

no idea what it was. Tried again a few nights later And it worked again.

Kept it to myself though.

Yes. I didn't know what would happen, but I was fooling around with a hand held massager. I tried it on my neck and found the sensations to be quite powerful. I then placed it on my normally erect penis (age 12), and found the sensation quite intense. When I thought I was urinating involuntarily, I stopped and fled to the toilet. When I saw that only a thick, white, unfamiliar gel was coming out, I understood what had happened. I returned to the massager, and allowed the ejaculation to occur without interruption. Prior to that, I had had one experience I would assume was a wet dream. Vague memories.

@dgh What do you mean about grinding on the bed ?

@Thalie_little just moving back and firth against the bed sheets laid down.

I had been enjoying orgasms, or dry ejaculation, since about age 6. Enemas, or nozzle penetration, often triggered those special feelings. Additionally, I found that climbing various objects, or pulling myself up, could cause tremendous feelings in my goin/crotch area. I often didn't need to be in contact with the pole or tree trunk. I just needed that extended exertion with my body extended.

One day at about age 9, the sensations occurred while I pulled myself up on a round column. When the sensations subsided, I was quite wet. I thought I had peed and went in the bathroom to discover some sticky, gooey substance in my underwear. It took a few days of research to determine this was semen and that I would live to enjoy those feelings again.

My first actual masturbation occurred while I was taking an enema in the bathtub. A little intentional manipulation resulted in an enjoyable outcome. All those previous sensations now made sense. I kept my proclivities secret for many years and still enjoy the simple pleasures from those simple activities.

I wouldn't say it was an accident, but it was definitely unexpected, being naked in bed and rubbing my whole body and hard penis on the pillows. When I ejaculated I did not know what's coming out of me 😃

Mine was a complete accident. I was around 12 and just sitting on my bedroom floor. I had a blanket over me and I was watching TV. I just had my hands in my pants and just touching myself. Not in a sexual way. I was one of those kids, who just liked sticking their hands in their pants and just cradling my genitals.

I forget the exact motion but I was just rolling my hand across my penis. It felt good and I kept doing it. Eventually, I had an orgasm and a bit of cum came out. I looked down and saw a bit of white liquid seeping out. I panicked and ran to the bathroom. Where I started touching the cum and trying to figure out what it was.

I didn't have the “talk” with my parents. So I didn't know what this stuff was! I decided not to tell anyone and cleaned myself up.

@Noonan, does anyone have that talk? I don't know anyone who did, certainly not me. We NEED sex-ed in school. Sex is such a vital but misunderstood part of our young life we need to know the facts. At the time in life when we could enjoy it most we know almost nothing about what we're doing. What we have figured out by trial and error by the time we're 50 hardly makes up for the pleasure we missed when we could enjoy it most.

Welcome to Zity Noonan.

@roscoe I did. It was my Mom who talked with us. She bought some books which made it easier. Sex-ed in public school is toxic because it opens a multitude of doors to agendas.

My first orgasms although i didnt know what they were was when i climbed the gym rope at school. i woulds get the craziest sensation in my groin and have to hold on for dear life. i then discovered i could do it shimmying up poles. i was always doing it.

but masturbation started for me when i discovered i could pull my foreskin back, i would get an instant hard on from the head being exposed to the air but i couldnt pull the skin back over the head when i was erect. so i use to be there with a rock hard skinned back boner and not know what to do with it,. then one day i discovered rubbing it with soap and shampoo. my cock would get red raw and angry the head would be so shinny and it just felt amazing. then one day i felt a stirring in my groin and it got more and more intense until my cock was bouncing about and my body was spasming.

so i guess my first time was an accident but then i discovered tugging the skin behind the head to make myself cum. i miss those days of dry spunking and also how horny i use to get.

I had a close buddy, Paul, in my freshman year of high school. In the summer months between our freshman and sophomore years, we hung out a lot together and often would pitch a tent in his or my backyard, transistor radios and flashlights and comic books on hand. We'd talk and laugh into the late hours. One such night he lead us into a vaguely sexual discussion and he mentioned he was having “boners” or “hardons" of late. While we were the same age, I was a few months perhaps less mature than he was and asked him to tell me more. He did very briefly and asked me to look over his way as he pointed a flashlight to the sleeping bag he was in and pulled back the cover. He was showing me his very erect (and substantial!!!) penis, which he was stroking. His flashlight went out and he rolled over into sleep. Some days and nights later (and with some very enthusiastic practice later!), in the privacy of my bedroom I arrived at the same erect moment he'd shown me. So yes, I was a “late bloomer”. I found it very, very pleasurable and came to my first orgasm. Impossible to thank Paul enough for that discovery he helped me achieve. So…my first masturbation was not what I would call accidental….but maybe serendipitous. Thank you Paul!!

I was twelve years old boy. It was a summer.

It was quite. I laid on my bed on a right side. A tip of my penis was scratching. I pulled out my penis and start scratch the tip, it became erected. Of course I had got erected before, but it was a first time I were scratching my penis for a long time (more then 10 seconds). I thought "Oh, it's feeling nice".

It was 3 minutes or something like that. Suddenly I felt like I'm going to pee myself. I tensed my penis, but there was nothing I could do and... my penis shot with white pee. I was like "0_o What was that? This is not a pee. What a smell! What that could be?"

By the evening I realized that it was sperm. And I thought, “Oh, so I could already do it. I thought I had to be 14 or something to have sex”

At age 13 during one of my first secret enema sessions I experienced my first ejaculation. I was both scared and surprised by the nice feeling, therefore started masturbating combined with high enemas.

Nobody taught me! See also my post #112. At first, my images were amorphous, vague (maybe a bum not attached to a body …) but later that changed. Even so, l can't remember much about them. I do think that they eventually focussed on my own self. Maybe that's true of many people - in Doctor/Nurse Play preferences here on Zity, a majority seem to want receiving over giving, l've noticed. That is, things done to them …

- Ken

I remember I was 12 or 13 in the shower rubbing myself feeling how good it felt and it happened

My first was indeed an accident in a campsite shower age 16 ! took me completely by surprise, and my knees gave way

When I was 12, a friend told me how he jacked-off and something shot out and went clear across the room. I found that hard to believe, so as soon as I got home I tried it. I pumped for a log time and was about to give up when some thick clear liquid shot out with an almost flat trajectory and hit the wall 8 ft away. But I didn't have any orgasmic sensations until I was 13.

I still remember quite well. I at least 12 years old because by that time I had my own bedroom and tv. I sill remember the show on in the background. I had had wet dreams for a while but never masturbated to conclusion. I remember my dick was really hard and I was stroking it really fast. I was pleasantly shocked with the powerful oragsm and jizz. Now that I had discovered how to give myself an orgasm I repeated it 6 times the next day. Eventually I discovered I didn't have to rub it that fast and could use slower strokes.

The masturbation wasn't an accident. A friend of mine showed me porn video and I was interested. Later at home I tried it my self.

But the first ejaculation was an accident. I was sleeping at a friend when I came in the middle of the night. 🙈

Yes! I think I may have been 13, my dick was itching so I started rubbing and it just went off. Scared me.