What's the most embarrassment you would take in public

For me just wearing the diaper out in public with light teasing from a friend or girl friend. I've got my many fantasies but that right there might be a good mile marker for me. If I could handle that then I'm not sure how much more I could handle.

I would like my wife/mummy to tell her friends I am a bed wetter and then put me over her knee spank me pin me into thick terry nappies frilly baby pants and frilly dress and announce that I will be her sissy baby from now on

Imagine you’re out in a store, or a movie theatre lobby, and the person who is with you asks loudly if your diaper is wet or dirty? The idea is for people around you to hear it while not having to interact with them. The fun continues when you don’t answer quickly enough and the question gets repeated, a bit more loudly and emphatically, as in “I said, is your diaper wet or dirty? Why don’t we go and check.” It gets even better if the person continues with “if you’re going to be difficult, we’re going to go right home and i’m Going to put you over my knee, and then it’s a clean diaper, Jammies and straight to bet for you!” The scenario can be played out in a number of ways, but as long as enough people around you hear, this sound like a wonderfully embarrassing time!

That's a very good question and one I've thought about over the years.

Let me first say that, what I've found about myself when doing any of the handful of "diaper excursions" I've done over the years is that the longer I'm out in my diapers, the more brave I get. I'll start off being very careful then slowly make them more obvious, for instance, instead of letting my t-shirt cover my plastic pants I'll reach around back and actually pull up the plastic pants and tuck the bottom of the t-shirt in them to make them totally obvious. Also, since I wear thick cloth diapers, the more they get wet the more they sag, making them even more obvious. On a few of these occasions I've actually pulled off my shorts and gotten out of the car to get gas, mail a letter, buy a drink out of a machine, and such while only in a t-shirt and diapers/plastic pants.

And on a few occasions I've been caught this way. The most memorable were at gas stations. Once I was putting gas in the car--nothing but a t-shirt/very wet diapers and plastic pants--when the young, pretty attendant (probably 25, blonde and a bit on the "pleasingly plump" side came out to sweep. As I put the hose / gas cap back and came around the car to get back in it she walked around the gas pumps and saw me--from about 15 feet away--and got this big astonished "I absolutely do not believe this!" grin on her face.

Another time I was doing this and as I was finishing up a girl, probably 18-19, actually walked up to me and asked if I could give her some money for gas, she was from another town about 30 miles away and didn't think that she had enough to get back. This, while I was standing there putting gas in the car wearing nothing but a t-shirt, diapers/plastic pants, and flip flops. I said "Sure" and after finishing with the gas sat down in the car, got out my wallet and handed her a few bucks and she thanked me and went back to her car. That particular day I'd awakened in my very wet overnight diapers, gone out in them that way, wet them a lot more and even done a big poop in them and it was completely obvious--even while I was sitting down because of how the poop stains had made their way around to the front and were plainly visible around my legs.

And what I found was--both times this happened, at the "moment of truth" that I thought would absolutely terrify me and embarrass me to death--what I really experienced was absolute complete joy over the fact that I'd just been seen this way, I was experiencing my fantasy of being seen this way, and I loved every minute of it.

So, that being said, it's hard to know how much embarrassment would be "too much" because once I'm experiencing it, I may love it so much that I'd want even more.

But anyway... Let me describe a situation I've thought about for years and on a few occasions, my wife has actually said that yes, one day maybe we can do this: Book a weekend at some small hotel/motel at the beach with the intention of me spending the entire visit there in diapers.

When checking in we would tell them at the desk that "I'm in diapers, is this going to bother anyone? Tell the maids who service the room about this and that I'll be in there with a diaper pail full of my diapers in the bathroom, just ignore it, it goes with me everywhere. Is there anything you'd like me to do because of this? Plastic liner on the bed? I do not usually leak but can put a pad under me if need be."

Sometimes the maids are young women, this could be lots of fun and very embarrassing just noticing the looks on their faces and hearing anything they may say about it. Often the maids are speaking Spanish and in that case, I'd have no idea what they were talking about (though it might be fun to learn the Spanish words for "baby" and "diapers" so I'd know if they were talking about me).

Checking in / out we'd not at all try to hide the fact that along with the luggage we were taking in a big babyishly-adorned diaper pail and stacks of diapers/plastic pants.

Then in the mornings when they come to service the room I'd just be sitting there in a t-shirt / diapers, like, "everybody knows, not even trying to hide it". We'd get a room with a balcony overlooking the beach and I'd spend much time out there where everyone could see me. And if that went well, maybe we'd even take me out to be beach with them obvious under my shorts (or, perhaps not).

Well, this may never happen but if it ever does, be sure I'll show up here and document the entire experience!

If you HAVE to do something because you don't have any other options ,there's no embarrassment, I have needed to be changed in public ,I have had complete diaper failures and I am strapped into a complex rehab power chair by my toes ankles knees pelvis and torso. I'd someplace lacks adequate facilities for a guy to be changed ,I am not embarrassed for myself, I am embarrase d for a society that cares so little for its disabled people ,that people have to be changed in public ,I have dealt with that more than once . I also detest stupid people who think disabled people are dumb or have always been disabled, I enjoy embarrassing them by pulling out my shield and saying I am a retired disabled firefighter ,what do you do ? I earned my condition serving them ,and I have a thicker skin then they ever will .so I font feel embarrassed I need care even if in front of God and country .

Mom changing me on the tailgate of her station wagon. Mom lead all the teasing and laughter as people crowded around the car. She made sure everyone saw my soaking wet diapers as she changed me. I was left standing in diapers and plastic pants in the middle of Von's parking lot. Mom hopped into the car and locked me out. After mom drove off I was left to walk home in diapers, plastic pants and t-shirt. I never lived the experience down due to all the people that witnessed my mom doing this to me. I was the talk of the area we live in for weeks.

I would love to relive this experience again, just not during my high school years.

The most embarrassing thing like this happened to me during a road trip with my ex girlfriend a few years ago. She knew and was into my diapers. She told me she wanted to go to the mall while we were there, but she wanted me to try boxers until we got to the food court. I told her I was really scared I wouldn't be able to hold it that long and I would pee my pants but she told me she would bring pants and diapers for me to change into so I agreed. She made me wear grey sweatpants and red boxers which made me even more nervous. I managed to make it to the food court without wetting but when I asked her if I could finally go to the bathroom she told me she wanted to eat first so I tried to wait but I did leak a few times before we sat down. I told her I leaked and she told me I was a good boy and started massaging my tdick(I'm a transguy) with her feet through my pants under the table. I was so desperate and nervous that I started peeing and she felt it and started rubbing me faster until my pee was dripping onto the floor. After that she took me by the hand to the family restroom and changed my pants and put me in a diaper. Many people saw her leading me with wet pants into the bathroom and leaving the bathroom with black jeans. I heard mostly sympathetic mumbling and some chuckling. I actually really enjoyed it.

I usually accompany my wife when she goes shopping. She's well dressed and has two or three favorite upscale stores she gets her clothes and usually makes appointments with her saleswoman before hand. I wear my cloth diapers and rubber pants whenever we go out, end up wetting myself a few times before we get home since my wife loves to spend an afternoon trying on clothes before she decides what to buy. Since its upscale, the saleswoman always offers a glass of wine or two and finger sandwiches. This one time my wife was really into it, trying on one outfit after another, while I watched her undress and dress time and again, getting a little tipsy and horny from all the wine and wetting my diapers in front of my wife and her saleslady several times. My diapers were getting so full, I was trying to move my wife along, until she asked me in front of her saleslady "what's the rush? Do you need your diapers changed? He wears diapers all the time and I suspect he's had too much wine and wet his diapers" she tells her saleslady. "Seriously, can't you hold it until we get home and I can change you?" "Hey, it's been hours" I said. "I'm sorry but why did you tell her. You're embarrassing me." Now my wife is pissed and tells me "You're a grown man but you insist on wearing diapers and rubber pants all the time and pissing in them like a three year old. If you're going to act like a baby you will be treated like the baby you are. Honey, do you have anywhere I can change my husband? I know he's soaked and will never make it out of here without having his diapers changed." "Well, this is a first. You're a great customer so I'm sure you can use our changing room. Do you need any help? I'm dying to see what his diapers look like." I feel so embarrassed when the saleswoman tells us "Follow me, you can change your husband in the ladies lounge. We have a bed in there for the ladies who need to lie down for a bit. It should be perfect for you" as she guides us to their employee lounge room. As the saleswoman closes the door my wife orders me to undress and lay down on the bed. Her saleslady asks "I hope you don't mind my asking but how long has your husband been wearing diapers. Seems a little strange." My wife tells her "he's been wearing diapers since we first met. Don't get me wrong, he's a wonderful man, but he has this diaper thing, and now he's wearing diapers all the time, even when we go to bed. And, believe it or not, his diapers are always wet when we get up. I don't know how he can sleep all night in wet, soggy diapers, but he does. But confidently, I know he'll never find another girl who would put up with this so I do feel pretty secure with him and an additional benefit is he gets so horny when I change him. Get your pants off baby and let this nice girl see how naughty you've been. Going potty right in front of her. Have you no shame?" Well, I did as I was told, took my pants down and laid down on the bed in just my diapers and rubber pants, which unfortunately were pink, causing me even more embarrassment. The final humiliation occurred when my wife unpinned my diapers, took the soggy diapers off and I my penis was erect right in front of both of them. I wanted to disappear, but couldn't as my wife wiped my penis and asshole, powdered and pinned a fresh diaper on. I had to leave with them, carrying my daiper bag with my soggy diapers inside and quietly return toour dressing room for the two of them to finish. I knew the saleslady kept lookijng at me funny, shaking her head and thinking "Now I've seen it all."

Man Lyric all I can say is that I’m really jealous I really need to meet a lady who would keep me in my pin on cloth diapers and plastic pants and make me wear my sweat pants or tight jeans that make it totally obvious that I’m wearing diapers and plastic pants and even insisting that there is just a bit of my plastic pants sticking out of the back of my pants and take me out shopping or dinner or concerts etc and she would pick out what plastic pants that I would wear and what color or patterns of my plastic pants and also how thick my diapers need to be and check and change my diapers when ever she wants and telling me that that is why she is keeping me in diapers and plastic pants all the time and even asking if there is a place where she can change my wet or dirty diapers or doing like my mother did up until I was like 15 or 16 years old and take me in to the ladies room and change my diapers right in front of all the ladies in there and telling me that I should really be ashamed of myself for wetting and pooping in my pants, having to wear diapers just like a little toddler ❤️🧷😎

My wife has become non chalant and open about my diaper use and its incredibly humiliating. On an airplane? Pulls out a new diaper and hands it to me to go change myself. Everyone sees me walking to the bathroom (or at least it felt that way).

At her Moms house (we stay over as its a few hours from our place). Openly talk about "getting me diapered up for bed" and eating breakfast in my pjs and wet overnight diaper every morning. Her Mom knows all but still embarassing to have it discussed like that.

This winter my wife has started pushing "Pajamas Humiliation".

Basically we will long periods where Im only allowed Pjs. Typically thin, feminine pjs (we recently bought these for example https://www.lavieenrose.com/en/cotton-pink-flamingo-long-sleeve-shirt-dusty-grey-4010052500007) and this nightie

https://www.lavieenrose.com/en/cotton-pink-flamingo-sleepshirt-dusty-grey-4050032300007

The humiliation for me is 3 fold:

1. Ladies pjs that are sometimes worn in public (its winter so I always have a big coat on but they are still visable). Never wear a nightie in public. Thats pushing our lifestyles on others.

2. Never wearing real clothes. More humiliating when my wife gets dressed up and Im still in PJs. Make me feel veey submissive. Even more so when wearing a nightie that just covers my diaper.

3. The diaper/pullup bulge. Its ok when dry but certain patterns and pjs becomes very noticeable when wet.

Practically speaking, the most embarrassment I would take in public would involve being in a private unisex bathroom changing a soaking wet diaper when a girl walks in and proceeds to make fun of me in my diaper in private.

I don't feel like the general public pointing and laughing, for example, would really matter to me. It's more about the 1:1 interaction that would be most embarrassing to me :-)

Practically speaking, the most embarrassment I would take in public would involve being in a private unisex bathroom changing a soaking wet diaper when a girl walks in and proceeds to make fun of me in my diaper in )

This would be the same for me also.

I think I could handle anything as long as it was not life and health threatening. Where it would come to a hard no would be when I encountered disgust and negativity. that would destroy me. I got a taste of it in the doctors office once. Not cool.