Anal Awakening

I have worn a butt plug a few dozen times. I know I like them. They always hurt, but in a good way. I decided to wear one longer. Maybe by wearing it longer I would get used to it and it would hurt less and feel better.

One of the first times it may have been too much lube, or it wasn’t set yet, but it was falling out inside my pants and I looked like someone with really bad diarrhea.

Next time I wore it for a longer time I found that when I sat in a chair my cheeks got pinched by the base. Then it was to little lube and it’s uncomfortable to wear. The longest I’ve been able to wear it is like 3 hours.

Today I got the lube right, but it was slipping. To get it in all the way I leaned into a corner of a counter and rubbed a bit. That got the plug to set in my butt with some suction. It stayed in really well. But I found the rubbing felt good. Really good.

Found myself going into the bathroom and rubbing the base of my plug on corner of the bathroom counter for a while, really slow. Then I went and did some stuff, but found myself taking breaks to go back to the bathroom...

I had a bit of an accident. Things started pushing out. I raced to the bathroom just in time. The plug was filthy and gross. I set it on the counter and took care of business. I discovered that my underwear had gotten a little soiled too. But I found I no longer gave a shit. I wiped everything off got some fresh lube. I couldn’t put it back in fast enough.

Today I finally learned why people love these things!?

I think you need a much larger butt plug, with a narrow waist. The small ones don't have enough difference between the widest point, and the slimmest, and they fall out. I bigger one may be harder to get in in the first place, but will stay put.

I am trying glass. I don’t seem to be able to keep my silicone plugs in for more than an hour or two. Today I stopped by my local sex toy shop and bought a glass one. It’s a bit smaller, but also a lot harder. It slipped in really easy. The base seems a bit small... hope that doesn’t become a problem. ??

I would definitely work out the problems before attempting to leave the house with one inserted. Get some user time with your favorite plug at home and see how things go over a length of time. Once you can wear one with your clothes on and don't have any accidents, then you can leave the house with confidence that you can wear it out in public.

Prevent wardrobe malfunctions with a good enema before you wander outside.

Leave it to Buttwoman to tell you that you need a much larger plug! 😉

have fun

Or wear a diaper just in case. Better safe than sorry. I have sometimes found that even waiting a while after a cleanout there is still liquid that works its' way out. If I have been playing with my toys and need to run out I definitely put one on for extra protection and then I do not have to worry.

Wow! All good advice. I’m hoping to wear it every day. But no plans to go out with it. Wanted to try an enema to see it that helps. I bought a couple of Fleet enemas, but it didn’t help much. Do Fleet products have chemicals in them? It seemed like I took a laxative and not just an enema.

One of my plug’s base can be used as a suction cup. So in the shower I’ll pop it onto the wall and slide it in and out. Of course I seen those dongs with suction cups and wondered... so, last night I picked one up. I tried to figure out how big to go. I got a 7 inch that looked to be about the same girth as my plug.

Then at home I stuck it on the side of the shower stall. I slathered it with lube. I know my plug can be hard to pop in, so I figured this thing might hurt. Then I turned around, lined it up, and aaaahhhhhh! Mmmmmmm. It was wonderful.

It just slid in so easily, and felt so good. I thought I might get half of it in me, but I backed into it balls deep wishing I’d gotten the 8 inch. I rode it, and never wanted to stop. I love my new toy!!

When I named this discussion I didn’t realize how totally appropriate a title it would be.

So it was last night I discovered this dildo would slide right inside my ass and that it felt really good when it did. Played with it for maybe 10 minuets then I cleaned it up and put it away.

Then this morning I woke up and couldn’t wait to try it again. Stuck it to the wall. Didn’t over do it with the lube this time. Stripped down, turned around and it slipped right in. Felt even better than the first time. It’s got rough sides from the vains on it. I swear I can feel every one as I slide it in and out.

I never had an orgazim from my prostate before. I have heard wonderful things. And I knew I liked having my prostate stimulated from my playing around with plugs. But this was amazing. It was like a female orgazim because it didn’t end with a shot. In fact my cock didn’t get hard at all. It was like waves of orgazim. The first one hit, then with each stroke on my beautifully hard and perfectly placed rubber cock in my ass, the waves got bigger and bigger. My whole body was quaking, and I can never remember a greater pleasure. I finally stopped not because I was satisfied, but because I couldn’t stand it any more. This anal awakening was bigger than the one from just a few days ago. And I know I am transformed. All from a 7 inch piece of rubber with a suction cup?!? I love my new toy.

Does anyone ever worry about going to o far and ripping or piercing there rectum or colon ? I know , "Lube lube lube" but I've read there are very few nerve endings in deeper so you could damage and not know it ?

A butt plug should be quite smooth...yes there are some designed with ridges, but I prefer the smoother ones. I have no fear of ripping anything because they don't go in far enough and I use plenty of lube to get them there--and I relax.

I have a couple of suction cup dildos I use in the shower, both silicone, but I always cover them with a latex condom so I can use silicone lube on them. This way the lube doesn't wash off and the lube does not interact with the silicone of the dildo as easily. Remember, silicone lube is not compatible with silicone toys!

The key is to make sure that the plug is well rounded, the inserter knows how the rectum curves, and holds it so the plug can follow the rectum. You also need to not push too hard.

In my own experience with butt plugs, I found out that when I take an enema before butt play, some water remains in the colon and when I go to remove the plug that water usually follows which can be quite messy. Now I remove the plug while standing in the shower for easy clean up.

I've read this thread with interest as I've gone thru a lot of the same type experiences mentioned. Without going into my history, I can offer a few things from my experience. First, I have always given myself enemas (1 or more) before any toy enters my ass. My routine the past ??? years has been to generally give myself 3 or 4 enemas per session. I want as clean a playground as possible. That said, I didn't give myself any enemas today and have a 12" double headed dong in my ass at the moment. The 5 enemas I gave myself yesterday cleaned me out really good. Anyway, I would always suggest a good cleaning before inserting any toy unless you want to remove a dirty toy. The amount of clean out is a personal decision based upon experience. Work at it and you will find what works best for you.

Does anyone ever worry about going to far and ripping or piercing there rectum or colon ?

I have progressed slowly over the years. When I first started anal play (about 1995), a Doc Johnson small training butt plug (not much bigger than an index finger) seemed huge as it went in. Now I wouldn't even know it was there. My longest toy is an 18" x 1.5" suction cup dildo. It goes all the way in with no problem. I have several toys I use for a good stretch that are 2.5" and 2.75" in diameter. One of each size diameter that are about 7" or 8" long are no problem to bottom out on. I have a 13.5" (insertable length) x 2.5" diameter I have been able to bottom out on only twice. It's no problem to get 12" - 12.5" in; but, more of isn't an everyday thing. These lengths and diameters have evolved over 23 years.

I suggest taking things slow and don't get too anxious to move on. If you are worried about leaking any remaining enema later in the dy, definitely wear a diaper. I started wearing diapers about 6 months ago for another reason (satisfy a pee fetish); but, I have leaked a very small amount an hour or so after my enemas on just a couple of occasions.

I know I am in the minority; but, I've not yet found a comfortable butt plug which is why I have my 12" double header in me more often than not. I play with it throughout the day. It's always handy.

Fingers are a great starting point, either yours or your partners. That way you have two forms of feedback - the pressure you feel inside and what you feel with your fingertip.

After that go slow and use soft toys to start with so they bend instead of poking. I do like to use an enema first, both because my bowels are kind of wonky and things are not always clean (most people don't have this problem) and second because the water helps loosen up the mucus inside and makes it easier to insert the toys.

Go slow, pay attention to what your body is telling you, and have fun!

P.S. - always bring a Ziplock with you if you go out with the plug, and build up your time slowly. Sometimes it just wants out NOW, other times I can get a little irritation where the plug base rubs.