Distention: does it hurt?

I used to give Petal enemas from a 4 quart bag. Some days she was fine and other days 2 quarts was her limit. Our rule of thumb as to give it until it wasn't comfortable then stop. As I usually filled her slowly there was lots of time to get that Hitachi up to speed and making her day. It was never a contest to fill her to the brim and she usually did more on enema #2. Have fun, stay safe people.

Any woman who's experienced premenstrual bloating and distention KNOWS it's uncomfortable, can be painful at times. If anything, I believe enemas should help bring relief, not cause more discomfort. We also know if we're so bound up that we need an old-fashioned nurse's SSE, even my 2 quart syringe is enough to cause some pretty mean distention and cramping. So, yes, it can hurt.

Weigh yourself naked first.

Distention is a good feeling to most, as long as very little air is introduced, plain slightly saline warm solution is being slowly enjoyed, and you are on your back happily getting it in. Then when you are ready, stand up and look to see your little water baby in a mirror. Weigh yourself when full to better appreciate your accomplishment. Some even parade and show off their biggy. It often helps to even lay in a warm tub bath when time permits. In all, it should always be fun.

Then to change the experience, keep track of the temperature with a meat thermometer and take a fill that is 5 or 8 degrees Fahrenheit cooler. And for safety sake keep all enema experiences between 85 to 105 F.

The pain you get with distention depends on how much pressure and distention you have on any given enema,

I experience some amount of pain EVERY time I take a 4-qt enema.

It IS at a tolerable level, I've known a lot of things that hurt far worse! But YES it DOES hurt.

I experience some amount of pain EVERY time I take a 4-qt enema.

It IS at a tolerable level, I've known a lot of things that hurt far worse! But YES it DOES hurt.

Why do you do that to yourself?

An additional smaller enema will do the same thing for you. It isn't necessary to get to the point where the expelled enema looks like drinking water.

Don't know really!

Switchblade Susie sounds like my Dad, "Yellow, like you are peeing out your butt hole, that's a clear return, You don't have to take it all the way to 'Richard Nixon Soup!'"

Took me a little time online to get the Richard Nixon reference. Was funny once I got it!

Maybe there is some level of mild to moderate masochism involved here.

I agree with Susie! Distension does hurt, but there's no reason to go that far! A series of 2-3 qt enemas will get you to a mostly clear, straw-colored return. In 7-+ years of enemas-til-clear, I have NEVER had or seen a drinking water clear enema return. Not saying that cannot be reached, but I never have seen it. IMHO, the point of "enemas-til-clear" is to leave your colon clean. Bacteriologically, that is impossible! Any treatment which left your colon sterile would in all probability kill you, along with your colon flora!

These days I often do 4 quarts as a first or often single enema as I get too irritated with more than one, so I usually don't even need to be cleaned out before getting in the 4 quarts. I may go fairly fast as I do enjoy rapid filling, but sometimes I just take my time to get in the 4 quarts and thoroughly enjoy the filling process with a good deal of turning over left and right, changing positions and massage to fill myself very full but comfortably with the 4-4.5 quarts I use. Even the one single time I let myself take in 5 quarts (2.5+ 2.5 q) as an experiment, I went slowly enough to completely accept the 5 quarts but with no pain at all, just a lot of very pleasurable distention. I'm sure I could have done even more, but I enjoyed the 5 and didn't want to get up to any pain or risk complications.

I don't regard enjoying a great deal of filling, internal pressure and visible distention as any sort of pain, just a very satisfying and pleasurable experience. The experience of rolling around during and while holding the 4-5 quarts and especially struggling to get up off the floor is also very interesting and pleasurable. If I ever get to the point of sharp pains during filling or holding, which has never happened to me, I'd stop right away and empty. I'm always doing an enema just for pleasure and orgasm production, not any particular level of cleanout, so emptying at my leisure after I've retained as long as I like and climaxed works fine.

TL; DR: for me at 66 after 50+ years of enemas, distention rarely if ever hurts but is just an extremely pleasurable though intense experience helping me towards satisfaction and orgasms. If it starts actually hurting, I need to stop or change something quickly.

Enjoy.

Eric

Three quarts is my comfort level. On the way to 4, my belly will start to distend, and while I can't say that it hurts, it is uncomfortable. At 4 quarts it is very un comfortable, and retention is difficult. Unless given a reason otherwise, I will stay with 3 quarts for now.

LisaK,

What is "Richard Nixon soup"? Reference?

The 4-t bag is bigger all around .

The connector is wider, the hoe and the nozzle both have a wider inside diameter

As a result I can get the soapsuds almost to the thickness of a light syrup

That is when I really do make it as thick as I can.

Why do you make your soap solution so thick, like a syrup? Isn't that much soap very irritating/painful to your colon? That would probably irritate me so much I'd have to immediately expel it, and probably even rinse myself out at least once which I never need to fo with my usual Castile soap enema concentrations. Thanks.

Eric

Nixon liked cottage cheese with ketchup on it for breakfast, an article described.

Nixon's breakfast was the same as Little Miss Muffet's "curds and whey" which is cottage cheese, except Nixon spread ketchup on it.

Nixon always liked to make things "Perfectly Clear"

It was one of the first things Nixon Impersonators in that day learned to say the way he said it.

It was another reason there were so many Nixon Impersonators, and why his impersonator were actually funnier than he was

LisaK and Susie,

Ahh! Thanks for the Nixon updates. Now I do recall both those historical facts but needed your reminders. I graduated college the year he resigned and watched the 1973 Watergate hearings on TV the summer before from my college town. The historical facts needed a memory jog.

P.S. Lisa, why do you like your enema soap so very thick/concentrated? Thanks.

Eric

My top quantity is 3 liter soapsounds mild warm solution, pleasurable when you are not so constipated.

I worked my way up to 4 then 5 quarts (once) from 2-2.5 and 4-5 now gives big but painless beautiful distention to me. Just satisfying erotic pressure all over. Fantastic feelings. Wearing a latex catsuit or neoprene wetsuit or sweatsuit over it gives not only nice rubber aroma and feelings but a bit of pleasant belly pressure as well from the outside. Really delightful. But even my earlier usual 2-3 q still gives me a nice thrill and noticeable distention, so I do those occasionally too. I can still feel nicely submissive and humiliatingly be forced to accept the 2-3 quarts my Domme is forcing into me for however long she likes me full. A little Castile soap or glycerin makes it even more interesting if I'm in the mood.

Eric

It can if you take too much

Too much can be uncomfortable. It is a fine line of being enjoyable or not. Walking that line will vary for each enema.

My sub will usually let me know when it is very uncomfortable. I decide whether to keep going, if there is only a little bit of water to go, or to stop. I like to hear the noises he makes when very full. Pushing the limits all of the time isn't something I do. I do want him to enjoy them too.

MissStress,

Just curious. Does he just tell you when it finally gets really uncomfortable? Or do you both enjoy him giving you sort of a running commentary/moaning/begging scenario where you get a lot of interaction about how what you're doing to him feels to him? That's how I usually interact with a Domme, but I'm curious about what others enjoy. I'm glad to hear you want him to enjoy his enemas, too. Thanks,

Eric

Eric,

He doesn't say much unless I ask. I recognized noises and faces so I can tell when he is getting full. Sometimes I tell him I won't shut it off until he asks to have it stopped. Then he has to speak up.

How much do you and he usually enjoy getting into him? What's full for him? Does it depend on solution? How long does he enjoy retaining for you?

At this stage I love 4-4.5 quarts because I'm a big distention fan, but even less always feels wonderful. At that level there's no pain just satisfying pressure and distention. I do love being very full. My max one single time as an experiment was 5 quarts which I also enjoyed a lot. My fantasy Domme (previously real life) is always happy to comply and enjoy submitting me to them with appropriate enjoyed humiliation. I love being filled and forced to hold a long time before climax with a good deal of moaning and begging for release. ?

Eric

The objective is to fully empty the colon in as few rounds as feasible.

The more soapy the water the more likely it won't take too many rounds.

It depends if you mean the distention or the colon. If your belly is inflated outwards, it doesn't hurt in the slightest. But your large intestine will from cramping.

I've been taking 4qt enemas for years as the final fill of a series, I very seldom get any pain at all.

Now a few times I've ventured to 5 and at the 4.5 qt mark I do start to feel intermittent pain, so for me my typical feel-good large fill is 4 qts.

BJ

I made it up to 5 quarts just one time and had great distention with no pain which leads me to think I could have a Domme push me to even more if she really wanted to sometime. But I'll probably stay at 4-4.5 q just for satisfaction plus increased safety margin doing it solo. I get so much satisfaction from 4-4.5 with long retention/massages that I can just enjoy that volume and play around as needed with various solutions for fun and stimulation. I do love being forcibly filled and made to retain for a long time before sexual release, sometimes with other activities/chores while I'm retaining. I'm a fan of chores and exercise while holding enemas, such as prolonged edging, getting up to view walking in front of a mirror, doing dishes or trash collection, treadmill walking and some other limited exercise like pull ups or push ups to make holding more interesting and humiliating. And for me, of course I love holding and doing the chores and exercise the whole time wearing sneakers for a nice added kink.

Eric

Of course it does distent, but it doesnt hurt. It's just a weird feeling.

Of course it does distend, but it doesnt hurt. It's just a weird feeling.

Exactly the beauty of it. No frank pain, just fascinating erotic submissive pressure and distention sensations. I would imagine except maybe for a small minority, most enema fetishists aren't into pain, which is good as it may be a sign of impending damage. To me, enjoying them for 50+ years, I'm only interested in the filling/water movement sensations followed by noticeable pressure throughout from within which then produces outward distention without pain. Sort of like an internal massage. The pleasant internal pressure also translates almost directly into an erotic feeling. Then I extend it with a combination of a long retention plus belly massage and rolling around to add some other pleasant/erotic water movement sensations to the mix. That lasts 1/2-1 hour and eventually I build up to needing an orgasm to finish it all off. Delightful.

Eric

Isn't an enema big enough to produce visible distention SUPPOSED to hurt, at least a little?

Lisak said

Isn't an enema big enough to produce visible distention SUPPOSED to hurt, at least a little?

NO. Not unless you WANT it to hurt.

We have gone over this before.

Another brain fart on LisaK 😁