Loss of Interest After Orgasm

Lisak said

That means the orgasm WORKED!

It got your rocks off at least for a while

Does having played one game of tennis mean that your desire to play has been satisfied.

For a MAN, one orgasm may be enough but not for many women--and studies have shown women's orgasms last longer than men's.

Today is Sunday and it's enema morning. The show will start around 10:00 hrs. My orgasm happens during expulsion. It's a full body rush and it's very intense. When I'm done, my husband pampers me and I love the attention. This all lasts about an hour and a half. The intensity for me starts to build up the night before. I often dream about what will happen in the morning. I prepare stockings and high heels the evening before and I place them on my exam table. I'll have things ready. My husband treats be like royalty which I'm nowhere near but it's the fact that he takes such good care of me. He dresses me in stockings and slips my sandals on my feet and helps me into position. Thinking about this the day before really taxes my emotions and I get the heebie jeebies. I'm thinking soon I'll be Queen For The Day!

After he helps me out of my table he takes me to the bedroom and I'll fall fast asleep and sleep hard for about two hours. When I was younger I wanted an enema every other day. My mind was filled with thoughts of having a firm and flat belly and looking good in the gym. Those were not fun and passionate enemas those were greedy because I wanted to look good at all costs. I was a prisoner of the mirror! And looking back at those times I was very self centered. We did have enema fun but not like we have today.

I think of enemas during the week and we talk about that sometimes so we have not lost interest. What we enjoy is the anticipation! This type of intensity would be way to much to endure if we had enema fun every day. We fill the gap though! I'm wild for anal sex so that fills the void during the week!

I'm getting butter flies! Soon and very soon good things will happen!

Your Sunday mornings sure sound like fun I don't get much of chance to enjoy enemas now wife has retired. I feel like a series would be great now so warm and humid being naked taking it all in whole 4 quarts.

I also lose interest in the enema after I cum. However, that is perfect for me. I want to be a bit dominated and sort of forced to have the enema.

I think that soapy and I have what some might call premature ejaculation,. At the same time, maybe we have been satisfied with one good enema instead of the multiple fillings that Bruce was able to take and still enjoy in his younger years.

Today is Sunday and it's enema morning. The show will start around 10:00 hrs. My orgasm happens during expulsion. It's a full body rush and it's very intense.

I have given a lot of orgasms during an enema but have never had one happen during expulsion and this is the second time I have heard that. Very interesting.

I, too, have a loss of interest in taking the rest of the enema in my bags after I have reached orgasm. I don]t know exactly why.... but I do... I remember one time while on our second honeymoon, my wife had prepared several bags of soapy solution for me. She had also found some half moon shaped ice cubes in the cabin's refrigerator, something she had seen a woman do to a man on a movie called the "Other side of midnight." I had asked her to be sure I took all of my water and after I came, all interest evaporated. She said "Mike don't get up, you haven't taken all of your water."' I could have cared less, but I let her inject the rest of that bag into me. I was so bloated that I looked as if were ready to deliver. I guess I should have been happy but really I felt exhausted.

I always lose interest in any sexual activities immediately after I cum. This is a part of the natural male sexual response, called the refractory period. After ejaculation, sexual interest diminishes and the man becomes incapable of ejaculation for a while. Often the erection goes away at this time, but not always. I always lose my erection after I cum. My being 100% submissive, and in servitude to Dominants...…….my losing all sexual interest at any time during my serving can be a major issue for me, as most Dominants demand me to be fully attentive to all their desires while in service to them. I have been subjected to prostate milking without orgasm and I can verify it works for me. It causes me to be more sexually frustrated and even more attentive to the Dominant's demands as I try to please the Dominant in the hopes of being allowed a regular full orgasm.

Not only lose interest, but would also feel guilty about my love enemas and enema equipment. Would result at times of my getting rid of all my enema equipment (what a waste that was!)... then as days and weeks went by, I begin to think about getting new bags, etc.

I also found the embarrassment of buying bags to then be both humiliating and exciting.

The world is unfair...

My lady is capable of multiple orgasms and orgasms several times in a row. When I unload, I feel like I'm having a bucket of cold water thrown over my head. And it lasts until the next burst of pleasure.

I have developed a "technique" that delays an orgasm by solving mental arithmetic problems at that moment...😂😂😂. sounds stupid, but it helps.

My lady knows me and of course notices this. The saying often comes up: "Well, again in the maths mess..., I'm fine with it..." 😂

The world is unfair...

My lady is capable of multiple orgasms and orgasms several times in a row. When I unload, I feel like I'm having a bucket of cold water thrown over my head. And it lasts until the next burst of pleasure.

Choose Wisely!

God was just about finished creating Adam and Eve......and told them "Okay guys, I've got two attributes left to give you--one for each of you. I'm going to let you choose which you each want. The first is, you get to pee standing up."

Adam jumps on that one right away. God says, "are you sure? You haven't heard the second one yet!" to which Adam replies, "no, this is fantastic! It's so convenient!" He's already standing around pissing on everything in sight when God says "Okay, Eve, I guess you get the multiple orgasms!"

Loss of desire for an enema is 100% after an ejaculation, however my wife saw that as an opportunity. She will put me in the center of the bed and insert a nozzle. She then ties my arms and legs to the corner posts and moves to a 69 position. I know where this is going since we are not into bondage and I let her have her way. She enjoys the oral sex as much as I do so that goes well and it is not long lasting. But after I orgasm she moves to between my legs and asks if I want my enema now. My answer is a nominal later maybe, that is as unsuccessful as are all other pleadings, after a short lecture on being a good team player the enema begins and while she may lower the bag when I plead for her to stop she loves the squirming and squawking. The enema continues until the bag is drained. She has learned that the loss of desire fades over maybe half an hour so she doesn't waste too much time before starting and finishing. There is no equivalent in the other direction, she might protest sometimes but we have a method by which we can protest while still signaling to continue.

Before orgasm, I feel like having sex with a guy I chatted online. After ejaculating I don’t feel it anymore

After a few days it back in my mind again. Post nut clarity

I would like to know if the original question was " Do you lose interest in sex and arousal after an orgasm reached by enema games or after reaching an orgasm in general, no matter the way employed to reach it?

@Mike_E Loss of desire for an enema is 100% after an ejaculation, ... wife ...ties my arms and legs to the corner posts

Amazing, yours is the first I've read of someone here doing this besides myself! Well, I had my girlfriend tie me up and pop my cork, and like you said once that happens you 100% lose desire for an enema. I was doing this to re-create what it was like when I was young and did not want an enema.

I lose interest after my penile orgasm, but I can have as many anal orgasms as my ass can take until turning raw, and still be yearning for more. They're that good. Actually, not craving penile orgasms at all, most masturbation is anal, usually without touching the penis.

@Mike_E said,

Loss of desire for an enema is 100% after an ejaculation, however my wife saw that as an opportunity. She will put me in the center of the bed and insert a nozzle.

My wife discovered the first year we were married, that if she gave me an enema using a curved douche nozzle after we had sexual intercourse, that I got hard as a rock during the enema and could go again and last longer. During our first vacation together, we stayed with her best friend Peggy (not her real name) for a week. On the third day, the girls approached me about having a threesome, and needless to say, I was floored. When they told me what they had in mind, it really intrigued me. The more the girls talked, the more I kept thinking, this is really going to be fun but naughty at the same time. The weird thing was, I wanted to get in Peggy’s pants the first time I met her. Now, my wife was giving me an engraved invitation with her blessing. There was no way I could turn them down. I agreed and that evening we joined Peggy in her master bedroom. We started by undressing each other, then kissing and fondling one another. As things heated up, my wife got up and fixed an enema and gave it to Peggy. When my wife finished giving her friend an enema and she was holding it, I mounted her, and we had sexual intercourse as my wife watched us. What surprise us, was how much it really turned both of us on just watching one another. Then it was Peggy’s turn to give me an enema laying on my back. With Peggy holding the douche nozzle and my penis standing up hard as a rock, my wife mounted my penis and slowly started moving around as the warm enema flowed in my colon. As she slowly ground on my penis, Peggy was slowly moving the douche nozzle back and forth in my anus. I can’t begin to describe what it felt like. But when she had her orgasm, I exploded cum deep inside her vagina. It was by far the best orgasm we’d ever had and the first time together. Needless to say, we really enjoyed ourselves plus it opened the door for my wife and I to consider having a foursome with another couple our age when they approached us about it.

@Rick6981,

I always enjoy your posts, but this one tops them all! Wow, what a great enema lovemaking story. I’ve been getting ready to plug myself today for the last 5 hours and feeling I’ll probably wear my plug until I finish preparing my first enema in weeks. Your post inspired me even more. I loved everything you touched on here, including not only the enema details but your thoughts and interactions with your wife and her friend. This one was really special. Thank you, very much, and Merry Christmas to you and all,

Eric🍑💦

@ericmacson,

Thanks for letting me know how much you enjoyed my post about my first vacation with my wife. The last ones on earth I ever expected to make such a request, was those two girls. It was totally out of left field, and needless to say, I was floored! What I hadn’t realized was just how close those two girls really were. It wasn’t until my wife was willing to share her husband with her best friend, that I realized how close they really were. It was very special to me, that both girls put so much trust in me. I returned the trust they put in me and was rewarded with a closer bond with my wife.

Merry Christmas and have a Happy New Year.

Rick

I have written previously about my childhood enema experiences in foster care but as I got older and started to have good erections which of course meant soon I stated to experience pre-cum and it wasn't too long before my foster aunt realized that her enemas (and there were many) soon roused my young cock to a very visible state and my foster uncle would be told to "deal with it". He would usually masturbate me with his hands but sometimes it was a full blow job.

Either way it resulted on me losing all interest and begging for the enema to stop which it didn't. My aunt would remind me that the enema doesn't stop until the bowl is empty and my bowels are full. She soon realized that once I'd cum with her giving me the enema when I didn't any want anymore could take things to another level. So while she was standing there with the enema ready, she got my uncle to bring me to a full orgasm and then immediately I'd feel the enema nozzle being fully inserted and the hot soapy water flooding into my bowels. Of course, my pleas for her to stop were ignored, and she just smiled "Ohh..you're going to get extra water now and then you're going to hold it until I tell you WHEN you can empty your bowels.

It took her enema sessions to a new level and my fear of the dreaded enema increased..

Afternine says he can have “as many anal orgasms as his ass can take”. How does one obtain an anal orgasm? I have tried for years with no success. I once have a girlfriend who could orgasm during anal intercourse, nothing seems to work for me. Advice. BTW, my avatar name suggests that I am female. I am male.

If I come either during or after the enema, interest is certainly lost.

After I have an orgasm, no matter how it happens, with or without an enema, butt play or whatever what I really want is a cuddle with my female partner...

After orgasm, my glans I'd so sensitive it's painful to touch. It takes 45 min or so before it it's ok to touch. After that, further stimulation results in an immediate orgasm, then it's hours before it can be touched. It's like pins and needles.

Afternine says he can have “as many anal orgasms as his ass can take”. How does one obtain an anal orgasm? I have tried for years with no success.

As many had already said - it usually comes when you least expect it - right mindset, toys, enough time, position, sequence of stimulation techniques etc.... Usually it all starts with a whole day plug wear 😃 to get you horny and relaxed. Once it happens, it gets easier.

OMG!!!!.... I was wondering... Whiskey, Tango, Foxtrot??? Then I realized ..... what I "Thought" I read was,"Loss of Internet after orgasm!!!!"

But then ... from my youth... just remember.....

"The only time you ever have 'enough' is right after you just had some!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"..... and "That" only lasts about 3 seconds!!!

go figure!!

highwater

Like most men, I too lose interest after I ejaculate. My first apartment was in a complex that had a separate laundry facility. Since I usually did my laundry on the same day around the same time, I met a woman about ten years older than me who was also there at the same time. After several weeks of talking while we did our respective laundry, I discovered she was a "health nut". One day, I was doing my laundry after working a midnight shift and she suggested that I should give myself a "wellness" enema, which used an herbal tea mixture instead of plain tap water. Although I have loved receiving enemas ever since I was a child, I acted like her suggestion was the worst thing I ever heard. Since she also worked rotating shifts, she invited me to come over to her apartment in a couple of days and she would give me one.

When the day finally arrived, I was so excited, and my mind was filled with all types of scenarios. When she opened the door, she was wearing a sweater and blue jeans. She invited me in and said that we needed to discuss the "ground rules" of my enema. As we sat at the kitchen table drinking some tea, I was informed that she would be giving me an enema for purely health reasons and that there would be no sexual activity between us. By now, I was hard as a rock and the only thing I wanted was to get an enema from this woman. After telling her that I agreed, she told me to go into the bathroom and try to urinate and have a bowel movement. As I walked towards the bathroom, I told her that I might have an erection during the enema, and she said that was a normal reaction.

As I looked at the enema bag that was sitting on the counter while I was on the toilet, my penis got even harder. She knocked on the door and told me to go into the bedroom and lie down on the towel which was placed on the bed. There I was on my back with my erection pointing straight up. She informed me that she wanted to massage my stomach area before giving me my enema. As she did, she brushed her arm against my penis, and I began to ejaculate. After apologizing profusely, she told me that she understood and that she would be back with my enema.

Here I am lying in a woman's bed waiting for her to return with a full enema bag and I now lost all interest in what was about to happen. When she returned, I told her that maybe the whole evening was a mistake and that I would give myself an enema later. She responded by telling me that she was not going to force me into receiving the enema. Believe it or not, the guy who would do just about anything for an enema got dressed and walked past a woman who was holding a full enema bag.

I was so embarrassed that I changed my laundry day and time so I wouldn't have to see her. Looking back, I realized that I made a huge mistake. My best option would have been to let her give me the enema even though I was no longer in the mood. At least, it would have allowed me to have another session in the future.

As we sat at the kitchen table drinking some tea, I was informed that she would be giving me an enema for purely health reasons and that there would be no sexual activity between us

Maybe she was putting up a front of non-sexuality for some psychological reason that pertained to her upbring or beliefs or whatever.

In my mind, I'd say anyone (especially a more or less casual lady acquaintance) who offered to give a naked enema and made no big thing of a rock hard erection while rubbing your lower abdomen, must surely have been putting on an act of false modesty or playing out a (muted?) sexual role game in her mind for some reason or another.

Now, that doesn't mean I would automatically think she wanted physical contact or sexual intercourse, but there must have been something sexual in the situation that appealed to her, perhaps just a sort of dominance/control aspect over a naked man.

Which is fun enough actually. And maybe even better than a true sexual relationship with all the emotionality and 'commitment' that is expected of both partners. And little risk of stds or pregnancy as cherry on top.

Why don't such things happen to me? I might even prefer it to the old piv type of conventionally expected sex.

I was so embarrassed that I changed my laundry day and time so I wouldn't have to see her. Looking back, I realized that I made a huge mistake. My best option would have been to let her give me the enema even though I was no longer in the mood. At least, it would have allowed me to have another session in the future.

@rope I don't understand why you gave up such a Golden opportunity!!! 😜😉

In response to the last two posts, I was probably 21 at the time of this incident. My dating life was rather sparse when I was in college since I had to work and fulfill other obligations. I dated one girl for two years and we engaged regularly in enema play. (I spoke about this activity in other posts on this board) Since we were dating, there was a sense of familiarity and comfort when it came time for my girlfriend to shove the hose up my butt.

In this case, I was out of my league. I had a woman, who was a little older and whom I only knew for only a brief period of time, recommending to me that I should allow her to give me an enema. At that age, I was young, dumb and full of cum. I agreed to the session because I was thinking with my penis.

I lacked the wisdom that I have today. I don't know if she had some ulterior motive. At the time, I thought that she was a little eccentric when it came to health issues. Therefore, I thought that she just wanted me to benefit from her administering an herbal tea enema to me.

When the day finally arrived, my arousal level was through the roof. I would have agreed to any terms just to have the enema that was soon going to be prepared for me. Once I ejaculated, my penis was no longer in control of my actions. Throughout my life, the joy and/or thrill of receiving an enema ceases to exist after I ejaculate. All of a sudden, I went from being invincible to being embarrassed. Both physically and emotionally, I was no longer looking forward to receiving the enema.

I should have told her that I was too embarrassed to continue. Also, I should have asked her if we could have waited for an hour or two for me to regain my composure (In my case...arousal). At that age, the only thing I could think of was to flee and not to face her again.

Unfortunately, there are no "do overs" in life.