The vanilla starfish

So my wife is really sensitive about her dark anus and I wanted to find out what is involved with DIY Vanilla Starfish - I will try on myself first if anyone can give me some goo dpointers. She tastes great and is always clean (WTF is that??) but when we do videos she always feels that she would like to tone down the brown 😜

I've seen a few references to this stuff working. Takes about a month with nightly applications (your wife may 'need' your help with this...). Active ingredient is hydroquinone, which for some people can be irritating, in which case the product says just stop using it:

https://www.amazon.com/Esoterica-Fade-Cream-Nighttime-Moisturizers/dp/B00HA69KUI/ref=sr_1_4_a_it?ie=UTF8&qid=1514036418&sr=8-4&keywords=esoterica

A dark anus makes a better target in low light conditions.

This is one of those things that really begs the question 'Why?'

This is one of those things that really begs the question 'Why?'

Ass-thetics.

Sorry, couldn't resist...

If you can honestly tell your wife you like her the way she is then do. My wife was bugged by some spots (not her anus, she doesn't like buttplay, too bad) and a combination of my telling her how much I liked her the way she was made her ok with it.

Like buttwoman said it also helps to set the anus off. If it's the same color as the skin it can get lost.

Personally, I think that is such an attractive quality, it looks wonderful, it does make that area stand-out so much better, (which is especially terrific in photos and videos!) I really find it a turn-on seeing that in a woman. I'd say work on embracing that bit of dark beauty!

I like and respect the replies. I tell her I love it already and I think shes only half serious but anyway thanks for the opinions - you are right - in the dark - its all the same and in the light its really ... all the same to me! lol