Susie,I'm very interested in your D/s dynamics here, being a switch myself. So how did it work - Maybe you were just satisfying an overwhelming urge to be a Domme that night as a requirement for him getting to fuck you later? Or perhaps you liked him enough that you wanted to make sure he knew you were a Domme and he'd have to enjoy subbing as part of your long term relationship? I'm fascinated. Thanks,
Eric
I'm sure I have related this event before but here it goes again!
The background to our almost life-long relationship is this: My husband and I have known each other since we were about 11 or 12 years old in middle school. We always knew we liked each other a lot even though as kids we never came close to contemplating marriage. When were kids, he was one of my friends that I tied up to a kitchen chair using my jump ropes in my den. At 11-13 years of age we definitely had our clothes on when we were doing this. Even after we started having sex with each other in high school and continued having sex with other people, we always had a strong attraction for each other. By the time we were juniors in college, we had pretty much decided to get married, and we did about four years later after grad school. We also continued to sleep with other people.
OK, so now the answer to your enema question: I always played the Domme and he knew that was my role. I defiled him in the same manner as the other boys I had in school by making him oral me to orgasm before we had sex the first time and I did have my way with a dildo fucking his asshole. We have both been switches for many years now.
The first time I gave someone else an enema, it was to my boyfriend, now husband on a Friday night at the end of finals week in my college dorm. He forgot we had a dinner date. This was years before we all had cell phones so there was no way to contact him. Practically everybody else had gone home. I was dressed up, hungry and waiting for him and he came to my room over three hours late after celebrating with his friends and he thought he was going to spend the last night of the semester with me before going home. I told him he couldn't sleep with me unless I gave him an enema. This was a tremendous surprise to him as he never had an enema before. The poor horny freshman with an eternal hard-on couldn't say "no." I stripped him down and smacked his butt a number of times, but I slowly and lovingly gave him one quart of plain warm water and played with his balls while he filled up. I wanted him turned on and wanting to to this again, not grossed out, in pain or having cramps. To complete his punishment I made him expel the enema while I watched. He took a shower, came to bed and fucked me as I demanded. He couldn't get inside me fast enough.
About 29 years later, We are still giving and getting enemas from each other.