So my urologist has told me that I need the TURP procedure, and I am not happy about that. He told me that in my case my prostate has grown too large for any of the less invasive procedures, but I will be looking for a second opinion anyway. I have been on Flomax and Avodart for about 3 months and now have retrograde (dry) ejaculations. For me, it's not the same. While my orgasm is still pleasurable, it is much quicker and the feeling of the ejaculate being pumped and flowing out of me is of course gone. It has the feeling of one small "squirt", and then gone. I really miss my old orgasms, and Diana misses the feeling of my warm cum flowing into her.
Now, when I undergo TURP, the retrograde ejaculations will be permanent as the ejaculatory ducts are destroyed when the tissue around the urethal opening in the prostate are cut away.
So, my question is directed to men who have had TURP. I can still experience a nice orgasm when Diana penetrates my anus and massages my prostate, and the pressure on the prostate when she gives me an enema and during release is very pleasurable and can be orgasmic. With my prostate being cut up, will anal pleasure and prostate orgasms be diminished or go away too?