Using daughter's or sister's sex toy

I don't have a sister and my husband and I have so many toys that I never had to use one of my daughter's toys.

I know my daughters never used any of our toys because our equipment room is ALWAYS locked when we are not in our room.

My story is the reverse of the postulated question. My mom kept her dildo, with extra batteries, and condoms in the bathroom closet. Lord knows why but that is another story! She always put a new condom on it when she used it or washed it in the sink. Once in a while she would forget and leave it in the shower with a tube of her spermicide jelly. I knew what it was for and turned it on a couple of times to feel it vibrate but nothing more. When I started masturbating frequently right after I got my period temptation overcame good sense one day when I decided to give it a try. Of course I just used the vibrator function. At that time I would not even think about putting it inside me. I was hooked after one use. 100 times better than my finger!

So being logical and following my mom’s habit, I put a fresh condom on It after I finished because I knew it would freak her out if she used it after me without a condom change. The problem was I was blowing through the condom supply at a rapid pace. I am sure she noticed because another big box, I mean big box of condoms appeared beside the old box. She never said anything for about two months even though she had come into the bathroom when I was using it in the shower. I am certain she could hear it before I could turn it off but never said a word until one Saturday morning. She came in and I still remember the words “ hurry up and finish in there. I need my vibrator now! I guess we will have to get you one.” As soon as I turned the shower off she was in to get it. She ran back to the bedroom. When she finally came out apologized a bit but not much. I found out the next day when we were looking at a sex toy catalog to find one for me that dad was away on a business trip and they were having phone sex and mom needed some help.

I got my own in the mail about a week later. I think it was called a rabbit or something. Used it for many years until it died. Like my mom, I use a condom on my dildo.

My first girlfriend bought her mother a vibrator. Her mother was divorced and quite conservative. My gf figured her mom would never buy a vibrator herself, but she need some way of relieving her horniness. We never knew if she used it, but she never complained about receiving it.

I can possibly see it happening the other way around if someone "finds" their mothers toys but not the other way around.

If you suspect yours has been moved then buy them one of their or give them some cash to do it themselves.

When they were teenagers I purchased sex toys for both my daughters--dildos, floggers, deerskin corsets, vibrators, and gave them a few ropes for tying up their boyfriends that my husband (their father) had done a beautiful job whipping and finishing the rope ends. We do not have sexual secrets from our daughters and they don't appear to have them from us. Since they were kids, they told us about a lot of their experimentation.

One "toy" of mine I did use on my older daughter was a riding crop when she asked me for S&M and bondage lessons years ago. She wanted to know what it was like to be restrained because she wanted to tie up her boyfriend, so when she turned 18, I tied her spread eagled to her bed while she wore a string bikini for one hour. I sat on a chair reading a book where she couldn't see me. I told her to be absolutely still, not to talk at all and not to fall asleep. The not falling asleep turned out to be the hard part for her. I told her I would strike her with the riding crop on her breasts and vulva if she disobeyed my instructions. Her figuring out NOT to talk to say "OW" when I struck her took a few attempts on her part. I struck her a number of times and she said it was the longest hour of her life.

I have to admit that I have used both my wife’s and my daughter in law’s sex toys. Neither knew that I did. And I was very careful to clean them thoroughly when I was finished. There was something quite stimulating thinking where they had been.

I just ran across this topic again and saw this

https://en.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;msg=873881

@Lora_C said, "She wanted more - and wanted that with her husband, a good kid himself, a saint for putting up with her spoiled ass."

It's probably because he played one too many games without a helmet. I hope I can be that for my daughter when she gets to that age. Right now I answer her questions with "no shit no sugar" and the only difference than what @Lora_C did and I hope to do, is to do it a little sooner. And maybe someday when my daughter turns 18, I will show her this place and what I have written about and make up her own mind about the person I am or hope to be remembered by her.

Whether she reads what I wrote with a "wow" or an "ewww" will depend on how I raise her to view sex. That is in about 12 years from now and how she views sex will basically be a result of how well or how fucked up I taught her to feel about herself and what she is worth.

She is becoming tactful, as far as a 6 year old can be, and no one can blame me for that. I just hope that if and when she reads about her mom here, that she will see that her mom really did care.

Even if "ol' mom" was pretty fucked up herself.

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Hopefully zity.biz will be here by then, but in the mean time I need to find a better way to download entire topics or threads without some of the copy and paste things I've been doing.

One "toy" of mine I did use on my older daughter was a riding crop she asked me for S&M and bondage lessons years ago...Her figuring out NOT to say "OW" when I struck her took a few attempts on her part. I struck her a number of times and she said it was the longest hour of her life.

Did that longest hour of her life and lightly flogged breast deter her or did she remain a keen student.

Did that longest hour of her life and lightly flogged breast deter her or did she remain a keen student.

She was NOT lightly flogged! I swung the riding crop the way I would on anybody who needed to be disciplined. I will say that a riding crop creates more noise than pain when it hits the skin, although you do know you have been struck.

She knew her father and I did S&M activities since she was 11-12 years old and she had seen our fully stocked equipment room when she was 15 along with her sister who was 12, so she knew what was going on behind closed doors, not to mention the time she walked in on us when she came home a day early from a friend's Thanksgiving weekend party when she was 15. In our family, she is known as "The Adventurer" and her younger sister is "The Voice". It used to be "The Mouth of the house" or just "The Mouth," but when she was in college, she told us to make it "The Voice." Yes, they are both very good students in all their endeavors.

I'm pretty sure my mom never used any of my sex toys. I know she has her own.

I found my younger sister using one of mine when she was 15 (she's 3 years younger) so we had a little fight about it and a chat the hygiene aspect. She told me she'd washed it so after I threw it out I bought her one of her own

She was NOT lightly flogged! I swung the riding crop the way I would on anybody who needed to be disciplined. I will say that a riding crop creates more noise than pain when it hits the skin, although you do know you have been struck.

She knew her father and I did S&M activities since she was 11-12 years old and she had seen our fully stocked equipment room when she was 15 along with her sister who was 12, so she knew what was going on behind closed doors, not to mention the time she walked in on us when she came home a day early from a friend's Thanksgiving weekend party when she was 15. In our family, she is known as "The Adventurer" and her younger sister is "The Voice". It used to be "The Mouth of the house" or just "The Mouth," but when she was in college, she told us to make it "The Voice." Yes, they are both very good students in all their endeavors.

I remember that day. Adventurer was in a bit of a daze that morning. She was not used to being struck by either of us, so that instructive time was an eye-opener for her.