In nearly 25 years of living together I've never heard my wife say the word "gynecologist." I've heard her call him/her the "female doc" and make references to her "annual," but she's never used the proper term for her doctor.
When I was a stay-at-home dad I had a female friend of ours ask me to watch her daughter for a few hours while she went to the "girlie doc." Once again, she seemed uncomfortable using the word gynecologist in front of me.
So what do you call your doctor? How do you refer you your annual appointment for a pap smear and pelvic exam?