I decided to circumcision as an adult, it was my own decision. The reason was incomplete phimosis. Because it was neglected in my care, I would pay attention to parents of small boys among friends and relatives, to make sure that their sons do not have phimosis. After my remarks, three of them were found to have phimosis and three were circumcised. As far as I know, the people who decided were mothers of boys. In one case, the father agreed with the mother's opinion, in the other he had some doubts, but he was persuaded. In the third case, the parents were divorced and the mother decided about the child's health matters, the father took note of them.
This third woman tells me that she agreed with the doctor that circumcision is necessary for her son. She convinced the boy about the need for surgery. However, she herself had a lot of fears which she did not speak about. She told me that when on the day of the assassination she signed her consent for her son's surgery, she was relieved that the decision was made.
Her son was 11 during the procedure and was getting more and more nervous while waiting for the surgery. When she signed she was calm and able to calm him down (of course, as far as possible).
I think the decision is on the women's side, because the mother always has more than the father to say about the child. If the father is uncircumcised, he may think of this as a mutilation. She said that when she saw the boy's circumcised penis after the operation she felt pride that she was dealt with it and that the problem - phimosis was removed