I would never marry "another" Vanilla. At my age, I've come to far, and know too much, to ever go back.
When I was young, a long time ago, there was no internet or sex manuals, only my father's nudie magazines, encyclopedias, 8mm "stag" movies, xxx movie theaters, and sex shops. In my world, we started out as All Vanilla. Being married, our piece of non-vanilla was a hard plastic dildo and some lube. We just happened to live in a sex toy friendly state, so we could receive, but always lived in fear of someone finding out. Before that it was only Vaseline and our imagination. We didn't even have an enema bag (my first kink), because the first one hated enemas.
Rock on through the years with other wives and girlfriends it stayed Vanilla, because the women I dated were straight laced or kept their kinks well hidden. Through the years I occasionally gave an enema to a lucky lady, but in reality I was the lucky one, being able to share my first kink with a willing host.
My "Last", Long, marriage was so Vanilla it was Boring. We did accomplish other great things that were so rewarding, and continue to reap wonderful successes to this day. I've always believed that we were brought together to succeed, where others had failed.
I've learned that marriages should never be based on relationships that are Vanilla or otherwise. It is the end results that truly make the difference.
That being said, it's time for me to teach women about my non-Vanilla kinks, specifically Enemas and MedFet. Those are where my spark gets lit.
Thank you fellow Kinksters for listening.