Spanked in the ladies room at church

Our church's ladies room is in the basement and I know for a fact that it is not only used for its normal purposes. There have been many times when I had to do my business but had to wait while I could hear a young lady getting her rump roasted by their mom.

That experience brought back very sore memories of me or my sister or both of us being taken down there by mom for a sound spanking for not behaving during service. It was so embarrassing to be marched out during a service by mom knowing that many of the congregation knew what was going to be happening.

Have any of you had a similar experience?

I'm sure no one gave the spanking sounds a second thought with all the spanking the priests were giving the young boys. Your spanking sounds must have just blended in!

On many occasions I heard some unfortunate kid getting there dose of 'hell fire' in our own Church's ladies room. My overriding emotion on these occasions was sheer relief that it was not my butt being roasted! Though I always felt a surge of excitement on hearing a spanking being administered; I also felt much sympathy for the recipient since from personal experience I knew only too well just how much a spanking HURT!!! Such was the degree of approval for spanking at our Church that one of the most influential lady members had a paddle hung from the wall in the ladies room itself! It was complete with biblical scripture and customary drilled holes! The said paddle saw plenty of use; though most parents came fully armed with their own weapons of correction.

It was complete with biblical scripture and customary drilled holes! The said paddle saw plenty of use; though most parents came fully armed with their own weapons of correction.

See any piles of stones piled up in the basement for the occasional stoning perhaps? ... that's about as biblical as you can get ... ha ha ha.

It not only happened in Church, it also happened in Temple. Friday night or Saturday morning there were spankings going on. One Saturday morning I acted up so Mom got up and pulled me up and we walked to the back of the temple and into the lobby and downstairs to the Ladies Room. As we entered we heard a girl crying as her mother spanked her bare bottom and told her she was ashamed of her acting out till she had to bring her here and spank her naughty bare bottom.

Meanwhile, Mom brought me into the big stall and locked the door and proceeded to take my pants and undies down while I said No Mom No I'll be good I promise Please don't spank me here. Mom replied Not only am I going to spank you here I will spank you again when we get home young man." "Now you hold on to the changing table and bend over." I did as I was told. Mom took out her oval oak hair brush from her purse and started spanking my pushed out bubble butt. [[ SMACK SMACK SMACK SMACK SMACK ]] The sound of her brush smacking my tender tush reverberated around the bathroom like a loud cap gun in rapid fire. I was yelling and screaming and crying. "Please Stop I'll be good I promise I promise, My Tush My Tush Ow Ow OUCH !!!!! " After giving me some fifty spanks she stopped. She helped me up and hugged me tight. I could feel the heat radiating from my hot hiney. She kissed me and pulled up my undies and pants and said now you behave for the rest of the service and we will talk when we get home.

If you grew up in the 60s and attended church regularly, you most likely had this experience. My mom not only spanked me in the ladies room, but on one occasion did it in an empty crying room, which mortified me, because anyone facing the back of the church would have seen everything through the window.

Not sure if this is in the right section or not but nearly we did not have a so called spanking room at my church I am from the uk But I rember sometimes going to church in our local village as a teenager and having been very soundly spanked that am or the night before for some offence ect

I would find sitting on the hard wooden pews very uncomfortable so mum would ask the church warden for a cushion used for kneeling when in prayer! I needed for my bottom not knees!

The church congregation knew I had been spanked as they saw me sitting on the cushion!

Also some would tease me afterwards and say you had y bottom spanked well ? Very embrassing!!

My stepdad is a pastor so if I’m to be spanked at church I’m taken to the pastors office which is also where I administer spankings to my kids in church

It not only happened in Church, it also happened in Temple. Friday night or Saturday morning there were spankings going on. One Saturday morning I acted up so Mom got up and pulled me up and we walked to the back of the temple and into the lobby and downstairs to the Ladies Room. As we entered we heard a girl crying as her mother spanked her bare bottom .

@DST I rarely do this, if ever but this time I feel morally compelled! That is unless the "Temple" you speak of is not a Synagogue, but you do reference Friday evening and Saturday, Erev Shabbat and Shabbat. As a Jewess, and modern orthodox at that, I take deference to your "story". You claim to be 70+ years old (B"H to 120) so that would have made you about 10ish at the time and at least 60 years ago. At that time the conservative movement was first taking hold, and the reform movement was just getting its act together, although both had been around since the 1800s. So, what's my beef?

The Laws of the Sabbath (halacha shabbat) strictly prohibit just about everything mentioned in your "story". Thus, your Mom could not have carried her purse into synagogue (Temple), much less her hairbrush, because carrying items from one place to another is prohibited. The use of the brush, even for grooming purposes would be prohibited, technically. Also, so is any form of punishment including anything from spanking to the death sentence prohibited on Shabbat, as well as any form of violence. Any form of offensive physical aggression is also prohibited. (Sorry, @agracier going have to restrict your stonings to between Saturday sundown to Friday sundown!)

Even if it were in a conservative or reform congregation such BLATANT disrepect for the Sabbath Laws would not be tolderated by any Rabbi or any official of the congregation.

DST, if you want to "blow smoke" (BS) that's your choice, but, please, keep peoples' Belief Systems (BS) out of your BS!

Play safe!

@DST may be referring to temple as in the mormon church. I have friends who go to "temple" who are mormons so perhaps that's it. Always keep in mind to respect other people's beliefs though just my two cents.

Mormons worship in a chapel and only use the temple for special things,

Peace,

Caz

Hard to believe - but just another reason not to go to church!!!

@Caz Ah,okay. There are also those churches of the later day saints, but I suppose it can definitely be considered a chapel with all the wards, but it depends I think.

My dad once marched me out to the car from the church service. On certain Sundays our church didn't do Sunday School and children attended the main service with their parents. On this Sunday I got in trouble (I think it involved Matchbox cars). Dad took firm hold of my arm and marched me out to our car. There he retrieved the paddle kept under the seat, put me over the fender of the car and paddled me. Perhaps because we were at church I was spared from having my bottom bared but it hurt just the same and he got his message across.

Several people have said there was a room where spankings took place at church, which makes me wonder how often their parents were spanking them. A church service is what, 2-3 hours maximum? It seems like a good way to ensure children grow up associating God with painful, humiliating punishment.

I was raised Catholic. There were no spankings at church, but my family and everyone at church believed in corporal punishment. The necessity of 'the rod' was a core belief. Books on Christian child-rearing, like 'Dare to Discipline' by James Dobson, taught that children are born 'sinful', promised marvellous results from spanking toddlers, and threatened parents with out-of-control teens if they did not. At the more extreme end of the scale, 'To Train up a Child' by Michael and Debi Pearl recommends parents keep a spanking implement (plumbing tube) in every room of the house. That book has been linked with the deaths of three children. I think corporal punishment and religion can be a dangerous combination.

Several people have said there was a room where spankings took place at church, which makes me wonder how often their parents were spanking them. A church service is what, 2-3 hours maximum? It seems like a good way to ensure children grow up associating God with painful, humiliating punishment.

I get queasy reading about Sunday schools in general, especially the dogmatic ways of instilling belief into youngsters. I often get queasy and uneasy when reading about some of the more over-the-top punishments some members have recounted.

Combine the two - Sunday school/church and punishments and I don't only feel uneasy, ill at ease and queasy, but often downright nauseous. What kind of children will they grow up to be?

Combine the two - Sunday school/church and punishments and I don't only feel uneasy, ill at ease and queasy, but often downright nauseous. What kind of children will they grow up to be?

I imagine they will grow up to be pretty much like the parents, and no doubt that's the intention, unfortunately.

All this church and religious crap boils down to HYPOCRACY on the part of the church-goers, parents and men of the cloth when it comes to discipline and being "good".

The people are supposed to love each other but the bible is full of hate and killing by the gods and the "good" people on the side of their god, in one fairy tale, god loves you, and in another you are supposed to fear god or else you will go to hell and suffer, it's OK to kill an innocent person but if you accept god before you die, you will still go to heaven. SUCH BULLSHIT.

Combine the two - Sunday school/church and punishments and I don't only feel uneasy, ill at ease and queasy, but often downright nauseous. What kind of children will they grow up to be?

There was a news article about a kid who bullied other kids at school, so his mother made him wear a t-shirt to school that said "I AM A BULLY". A lot of people praised the mother for shaming him - my take was that she was bullying him - and he had learned to become a bully from his experiences at home. What kind of adult will he grow up to be? Like his parents??

PS - @agracier - love the rhyme.

There was a news article about a kid who bullied other kids at school, so his mother made him wear a t-shirt to school that said "I AM A BULLY". A lot of people praised the mother for shaming him - my take was that she was bullying him - and he had learned to become a bully from his experiences at home. What kind of adult will he grow up to be? Like his parents??

Yes, he will be a product of his environment, and therefore he could well turn out like his parents - or a degree worse.

There was a news article about a kid who bullied other kids at school, so his mother made him wear a t-shirt to school that said "I AM A BULLY". A lot of people praised the mother for shaming him - my take was that she was bullying him - and he had learned to become a bully from his experiences at home. What kind of adult will he grow up to be? Like his parents??

What stupid parents. They should have beat the daylights out of him at home and left it at that. There is no need to bring family matters into public view.

The kid will turn out like his parents or worse.

People should be LICENSED in order to have children. If you're not licensed, the kid or potential kid will never live to see the light of day. [Yes, this means exactly what you think it means 😈 ]

Tough love for tough times.

Don't even ask me if I'm serious. I AM.

People should be LICENSED in order to have children.

I have to agree. I've seen more people who would never qualify for a breeding license than you've had hot dinners. There are many who have kids, think that being a parent only means putting on a show of spending money on sport shoes etc, yet won't do the basics of giving them regular meal times, setting behavioural boundaries etc.... then they say "I love my kids".

They should have beat the daylights out of him at home and left it at that. There is no need to bring family matters into public view.\

Don't disagree with that. If it were my kid (hopefully wouldn't have learned the behavior - but if he had) - I'd also make him address the problem head-on and apologize, privately, but in person to the kids he had bullied. Hell, maybe they will turn out to become friends.

Don't disagree with that. If it were my kid (hopefully wouldn't have learned the behavior - but if he had) - I'd also make him address the problem head-on and apologize, privately, but in person to the kids he had bullied. Hell, maybe they will turn out to become friends.

They would never become friends.

I am not one who is big on apologies. It seems women and politicians like apologies. I do not. They are never sincere except maybe in court where the criminal is going to be sentenced for a long time and is hoping for leniency before the verdict is read, but the apology is almost always an act. People do what they do and are rarely if ever sorry in the bullying cases.

The only times an apology is in order is an instance where you ACCIDENTALLY hurt someone, usually a loved one. Otherwise, all the other apologies are for shit. I don't even listen to apologies unless I want the offending person to feel ridiculed and humiliated.

I think bringing religion into spankings is out of line. i have been involved in 2 different religions in my lifetime and that never happened a spanking room. but we have no business discussing anything regarding religion on this site if i am correct. talk about spanking rooms, fine but leave the religion out of it

Have any of you had a similar experience?

We didn't have a spanking room at church. I'm told (I don't remember it) that I was taken to the vestibule for spanking one Sunday by my (step) mom for acting up. (I was never told what I did) Apparently, people were going up to her after the service praising her for doing it.

I have to agree. I've seen more people who would never qualify for a breeding license

While I agree that too many are having kids when they shouldn't, I don't believe the govt. should ever have that much power over us.

Im going to say this again religion needs to be kept out of this according to zitys rules and beating a kid severely does not solve anything

While I agree that too many are having kids when they shouldn't, I don't believe the govt. should ever have that much power over us.

The reality is that there are many people who have proven themselves unfit to breed, and only produce offspring that are a further drain on the public purse.

While I agree that too many are having kids when they shouldn't, I don't believe the govt. should ever have that much power over us.

It is pretty clear by now that power that is ceded away from governments, will end up being appropriated by private corporate and financial interests.

So people are going to have to make up their minds one way or the other which is preferable to them. You can't have it both ways.