Surprise wake-up sex

How do you all like to "surprise" your partners with sex and wake them up from sleeping? My husband (and I of course!) loves it when I wake him up for a frolic in the sheets when I get home from work. I work nights as an ER RN and work one week on one week off; on my work week we don't see a lot of each other (I'm gone for 16 hrs on work nights) and "wake-up" sex is important to us so we can stay close to each other. I want to more than just come in, kiss his neck and start rubbing him lol. I send him some classy/dirty RN pics throughout the night sometimes so he wakes up hard for me. ? I send him random dirty texts to get his mind where I want it. Just wondering what everyone else does to set the mood and mindset for when they get home to wake their partner and begin the fun. ☺️

Sounds awesome red! Can't imagine any husband not loving those kind of texts and attention.

I tend to be a light sleeper, and also an early riser, so when an SO has stayed over, I frequently wake them up by massaging their butt. Many times they will have leftover dried KY between their cheeks from the previous night, which only takes a little saliva to get nice and slick again. I slowly massage them, carefully circling their hole, dipping inside gently so as to not startle them, before eventually beginning penetrating their ass as they start to wake up. This usually leads to a sensual fingering session for her using both holes as she cums before I take her ass and deposit my cum inside her. NO better way to wake up than that!

Cant wait to do it again!

I like to call it morning sex. My wife and I love it. We use to wake up good and early and have sex just like the night before. Though we always worked 1st or 2nd shift in a normal job. Now we squeeze it in anytime we can, even in the middle of the night if we wake with the urge.

I like the butt idea. I've done face kissing and breasts, but never butt (other than grinding against her while we're spooning).

On a woman going straight for the genitals can be too much, but for a guy you're probably OK. While I haven't been able to persuade my wife to do this yet I will suggest whatever you use be warm and slippery.

Sometimes women forget that guys have breasts too.

Best idea is to get together as a couple and make your own erogenous maps. Find out where and how each other likes to be touched/licked/whatever, then springboard off that. Mix it up and then it isn't always kissing his neck.

Dutch oven.

Okay not really.

@moliere : my husband loves it when I tease and lick and bite his nipples!

@Agasmic : ??? I guess that would be one effective way to wake him up! Though it doesn't really set the tone for what I was going for… I think that idea needs a little more work.

Does he like going down on you? You can try cleaning up and positioning yourself near his mouth. If he doesn't wake up from the movement and smell a finger or fingernail tracing around his body could help.

Note this might not be a good idea if he has PTSD.

Oh that is an excellent idea! I will be doingthat this morning when I head into bed… No PTSD so fair game for whatever he's UP for ! He is going to have the best awakening in a long time this morning. Thanks for the suggestion! He's not a morning person so this should be a great reward for waking up with the sun.

I discovered it is quite possible to have receptive anal sex while asleep.

I woke up once from a deep orgasm induced sleep, to find the guy I was with had his cock right to the hilt in my butt. I was furious that he was in there bareback, and let him know in no uncertain terms.

He completely violated our trust.

He claims he thought I was faking it.

However- Wake-up sex...all for it.

I discovered it is quite possible to have receptive anal sex while asleep.

I woke up once from a deep orgasm induced sleep, to find the guy I was with had his cock right to the hilt in my butt. I was furious that he was in there bareback, and let him know in no uncertain terms.

He completely violated our trust.

He claims he thought I was faking it.

However- Wake-up sex...all for it.

REALLY??

You slept through that for real???

You must have been drunk or on drugs to do that.

Female or male, I like to wake up my bed buddy with oral. They usually wake up once they start choking.

I was furious that he was in there bareback, and let him know in no uncertain terms.

He completely violated our trust.

That is so totally NOT cool!

Of the women that I've done the sleepy anal fingering, I always had consent in the form of free reign on their body to touch, fondle, massage, play with them... whatever I wanted. They also had free reign on my body as well. Why would I ever object to a lover touching me??

I did manage to wake up one partner by sliding my penis into her ass, and we a nice fuck to start the day. It's almost impossible though, due to leg positioning, moving the covers, getting the right angles and not resting any weight on her... all of which is hard to do without waking the person up! Fingers are a lot easier!

Buttwoman , were you comatose ?

@Buttwoman said

I woke up once from a deep orgasm induced sleep, to find the guy I was with had his cock right to the hilt in my butt. I was furious that he was in there bareback, and let him know in no uncertain terms.

He completely violated our trust.

@CJ1999 said

That is so totally NOT cool!

Of the women that I've done the sleepy anal fingering, I always had consent in the form of free reign on their body to touch, fondle, massage, play with them... whatever I wanted. They also had free reign on my body as well. Why would I ever object to a lover touching me??

I expect @Buttwoman consented to protected penetrative anal sex i.e. with a condom, but did not give consent to unprotected penetrative anal sex.

From how she described it, she had every right to be angry, and yes, the trust was violated.

However, as @SwitchableSusie says, @Buttwoman must be a deep sleeper not to be woken instantly when the penetration was attempted.

Consent has limits, and boundries.

If a person has been told that sex will be with condoms, that area of consent stays in force until revoked. No questions.

Recently in the courts the act of 'stealthing', or removing a condom without telling the sex partner, was deemed sexual assault.

. . . . However, as @SwitchableSusie says, @Buttwoman must be a deep sleeper not to be woken instantly when the penetration was attempted.

Not to mention sleeping through pulling back the covers, partner climbing on, being mounted (do they still use that term?) spreading the cheeks, insertion, etc.

Switchable Susie. you've NEVER spooned with someone, and they kept poking you in the ass with their erection? C'mon.

Trust me, it does not require lifting sheets, mounting or anything else really. It also a perfect angle for anal penetration.

The ONLY intercourse I have is anal. I've probably done it over a thousand times in 40 years. If a cock-head pokes against my ass, it can go in. Same as your vagina. It is so well toned it opens and closes on demand, yet will still hold in serious Taco Bell squirts.

Switchable Susie. you've NEVER spooned with someone, and they kept poking you with their erection? C'mon.

Trust me, it does not require lifting sheets, mounting or anything else really. It also a perfect angle for anal penetration.

The ONLY intercourse I have is anal. I've probably done it over a thousand times in 40 years. If a cock-head pokes against my ass, it can go in. Same as your vagina. It is so well toned it opens and closes on demand, yet will still hold in serious Taco Bell squirts.

The anal sex position for me is doggy and just some times we have done it when I have been on my back but spooning is no good for that. @DrZ wakes me up quick if he pushes his finger up my bum. I know that I have got a tight vagina but I know that my bum is tighter and too tight really for spooning anal sex.

I absolutely agree with Amethyst , I am not a super light sleeper but a finger up my bum is sure to wake me up . And anal penetration with me would not only require some generous lube but also some " readying of the playing field " . Even then it still takes some effort .

I also enjoy anal but I dont care what position we are in , it isnt going to just fall in !

I first had anal sex in about 1976. He just stuck it in. We did it three times in the first night, and I came each time.

Some of us are just built different I guess. Luckily, it's not a competition.

I love foreplay, someone to play with and get my ass hot, and ready, but it's not nessasary. I LOVE spontainious, lift your skirt up, anal sex, and I'm ready to go, right out of the gate.

Yes, I did see a Dr. about my dislike for vaginal, and my rabidness for anal. She gave me a thorough examination, and concluded- Don't fix what ain't broke.

Oh that is an excellent idea! I will be doingthat this morning when I head into bed… No PTSD so fair game for whatever he's UP for ! He is going to have the best awakening in a long time this morning. Thanks for the suggestion! He's not a morning person so this should be a great reward for waking up with the sun.

I would love for my wife to do that to me (one of my fantasies), but with one change: finger for a while, then a blowjob. If she could get at my butt I love the finger idea there as well. If that actually happened I'm not sure where it would go next - would we stay 69, or would one of us back off for a while?

Unfortunately she's not comfortable with receiving oral yet, so it has to stay a fantasy for now.

Yes, I did see a Dr. about my dislike for vaginal, and my rabidness for anal. She gave me a thorough examination, and concluded- Don't fix what ain't broke.

I love this, Buttwoman! I'm glad you took her advice. I think a lot of Zity is too.

Hours after my Pammy went to bed last night, I was still up. I was Zity browsing and getting hard and wet, but I resisted taking care of myself at my laptop, (ha ha). Instead, I got into bed with Pam and I really really wanted to fuck her.

I wish Pam was a back sleeper, but she sleeps nude on her side in a semi-fetal position. Last night she had her butt facing my side of the bed, but alas, she's not Buttwoman, so I couldn't just penetrate her anally, even though she was in the perfect position for that. Pam hates being woken up suddenly. If I do, she gets mad and sex has to wait. So I snuggled up and we spooned for a few minutes. I gently rubbed her top thigh and hip as I softly humped her butt. She was responding a little, but still asleep. Good so far.

I then coaxed Pam to semi-voluntarily roll over onto her back. I gripped her whole crotch with two open hands, fingers just touching. I squeezed her gently from her pubic bone in the front to her tailbone in the back, and I used this vice-like grip, softly at first, to slowly move her whole pelvis slightly up and down.

Pam slowly woke up moaning softly in an aroused state. Then she began moving her hips a little in time with my hands. I knew I had her then. I gradually tightened my grip and quickened and lengthened her pelvic motion. Soon Pam's moans became screams. She began bucking wildly up and down. I had struggle to keep from loosing my grip. I was able keep a tight squeeze on her for 2 violent orgasms. I think I gave her a 3rd orgasm after I let her go and started rubbing her down with a generous handful of Fuck Water lube. Then we both had an incredible fuck, a solid 10 on the 10-point fuck scale as she just kept on cumming and bucking and I went wild too.

When we woke this morning Pam said she'd love to fuck again like that but she was too sore. I'm about to go check on her again right now.

It is so well toned it opens and closes on demand, yet will still hold in serious Taco Bell squirts.

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When I was sick with a fever, I was awakened by my dear, concerned husband feeling a thermometer he inserted in my behind. Despite my 102 temp, a light touch here and a little rub there, well, use your imagination. Such an unexpected beginning to my day, and it certainly made me feel better!! P.S. Couples who enjoy awakening one another to enjoy this intimate pleasure don't need a thermometer to make this happen, but it's a nice oasis when you're feeling lousy.

When I was staying at a hotel in China, i was awake and horny in the middle of the night, as my then girlfriend lay sleeping beside me.

I began caressing her breasts, first lightly, then gradually more and more stronger into a fondling frenzy. She slowly eased into consciousness, as opposed to awaking abruptly. I sacrificed a hand to start fingering her to ensure she was wet. Then i promptly mounted her missionary & went to work.

I'll never forget hearing someone in the next room, packing up in the middle of the night, presumably to move to another room where s/he / they could get rest. Can't really recall if the bed was making significant noise, but i remember the loud moaning. I thought between making someone moan that loud, and making someone else pack up in the middle of the night & leave because of it, that it was funny. And i remember trying to keep from laughing, & just trying to convert the positive energy into the fucking.

It's a shame I have to go back 15 years to find fond memories.

I love this! That they actually were awakened by you and then felt the need to move and they obviously weren't trying to hind the fact you chased them away! Lol That fact only enhances the memory I'm sure.

My girlfriend sometimes wakes me up with a blowjob. She gets woken up by me with some boob licking. Good to have time to take it further in the mornings at weekends. Isn't always time in the working week to have a full session when we wake up so we have to make the most of it before going to sleep.

I like waking my hubby up from sleep with some intimate fun. I usually blow him awake.

My wife likes to sleep late so I wake her up every morning with little willy between the cheeks of her ass or my hand between her legs. If that doesn't work, I take her hand and rub it between her legs...sooner or later, she wakes up as horny as I am. It's a great way to start every day.