For Real or common fantasy?

I have read in several websites (such as Topix) a childhood story from the 50s, 60s or 70s in which the author came from a family that had a weekly enema night. All the children, mixed genders, get naked & line up for enemas. Neighbors, relatives, friends (even teachers) passing through assist in administering the enemas.

It's the aspect of outsiders participating that leaves me incredulous. You'd think that some outsider, a neighbor, a teacher (!) encountering the family enema thing would object, say something, & maybe inform authorities.

In FetLife a male nurse PMed me about his family background & the aspect of a family matriarch (& nurse) obsessed with colon cleansing doesn't surprise me, but strangers taking part? This particular male nurse worked at an LA hospital & bragged about how he took personal pleasure in swxuslly humiliating teenage boys. He administered enemas & made it a point to leave the curtains open wife enough for passers by to see. Once he shaved a kid for an operation & sadistically insisted the kid's mother be present (using some lame excuse) in spite of the kid's objections & crying. I blocked this nurse.

I also posted a separate thread about the nurse's PM I got on FetLife, & someone recommended that I call the authorities, as what the nurse was doing was "sexual assault". Of course the nurse had already been blocked.

Hypothetically speaking, if I had taken the individual's advise & informed the authorities, they certainly would've dismissed it, as anything done under the auspices of medical institutions are allotted plenty of latitude. I would've gotten laughed at.