How many sex partners have you had?

Google says in Canada the average is six. That seems awfully low.

How about you?

I will refrain from answering until I see a few responses, in case I suddenly have to take the fifth.

Hi buttwoman, As usual I am at bottom of the list. I suspect I have only had three so I'm probabily five standart deviations from the mean. I have kept it in my pants. I can only dream of what I missed.

I'm quite embarrassed to say that I've had fifty five to sixty. I can't remember how many. I was a product of Berkeley in the '60s and although it wasn't free I availed myself of it. Fortunately I never caught an STD. In retrospect I wonder what the hell I was doing.

Lol..a lot more than six!!

Closely approaching triple digits.

I would estimate around 15 men. And I am very sure of 7 women.

I feel like such a prude with only one sex partner. I just wasn't one to give it away for nothing to just anybody who asked. I did have one almost, but almost doesn't count unless you're playing horse shoes.

I feel like such a prude with only one sex partner. I just wasn't one to give it away for nothing to just anybody who asked.

Don't. I also have had only one sex partner, my wife. There's nothing wrong with that at all. I would feel weird having sex with just anyone, like you I wanted something a bit more than just someone who was willing for that night.

Don't. I also have had only one sex partner, my wife. There's nothing wrong with that at all. I would feel weird having sex with just anyone, like you I wanted something a bit more than just someone who was willing for that night.

Glad to be in the same group moliere. I may fantasize in my head about having another cock (there is never a face connected to the cock) but my heart still holds my sub/husband the most dear.

I have had just one sex partner and I married him. I got my choice right first time and he makes me very happy with our sex life and our whole life together really so I would not wish at all that I had more men. I just do not think anybody else could be the same and I do not need to try other men to know it.

First you have to define "having sex". As President Clinton taught us, it is difficult to define this. To clarify:

If a male & female have intercourse, and he has an orgasm, but she doesn't, did she have sex? Did he? Did both?

If they have intercourse, and SHE has an orgasm(s), but he does not, did he have sex? Did she? Is the action of "normal" sexual intercourse the (or one of the) defining actions?

What if they didn't have intercourse, but one of them has an orgasm from some activity while the other does not, did either or both of them have sex?

I think most people would consider and probably disagree about whether "sex" only involves sexual intercourse, and whether one has to have an orgasm for it to be properly considered to be "sex".

For example, if a male is caressing a female, and she has an orgasm, did she have "sex" or not? Does she have to be unclothed, or does he have to have direct contact with her? Did he have sex?

If you just have a prolonged hug or cuddle, without any orgasms, did anyone have "sex"?

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Starting with my early teenage years, and continuing in recent years, I had a variety of intimate relations with females during which neither of us had orgasms. I've had others in which she had orgasms -- sometimes the most intense orgasms of her entire life -- but I didn't. I think of all of these as shared sexual experiences, but I think many people (including Pres. Clinton) would claim this is not sex.

2 for me

Oral sex IS sex. Anal sex IS sex. vaginal sex IS sex. Orgasm doesn't matter. If you are fondling someone's sex organs, it's a form of sex.

And while finding that perfect partner on the first try is incredibly awesome, it's also very lucky... and rare. It probably happened in your teens or early 20s. If you don't find that person until your 30s or later, it's unlikely that you stayed virginal until then. But that doesn't mean you were 'giving it away' or doing it with 'just anyone' up until that point.

First let me say, Buttwoman, Switchablesusie, & Liquedsky ..... Holy Batman!?

Mature e Guy & CJ ....we want numbers!

Me? While I dont think of myself as average in any way? I am at 6. lol

My estimate would be 20-25 for me.

Hi buttwoman, As usual I am at bottom of the list. I suspect I have only had three so I'm probabily five standart deviations from the mean. I have kept it in my pants. I can only dream of what I missed.

I feel like such a prude with only one sex partner. I just wasn't one to give it away for nothing to just anybody who asked. I did have one almost, but almost doesn't count unless you're playing horse shoes.

I have had sex with only with three guys. My ex husband, who was my first, my Dom after I got a divorce and now my boyfriend.

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I had sex with 3 guys and 7 gals before and during my college years. I enjoyed sex with two lovely ladies the year I began my career. That year, at age 24, I married not the prettiest one of the two, but the one who just loved to fuck all the time and has endless orgasms like a certain tall blonde with big tits I know. We were so good together, and we still are. On more days than not, after all these years, we still love to fuck.

Oops, I forgot the Juarez hooker and the Manhattan hooker.

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ButttWoman, I think it's between you and SwitchableSusie so far. As a big fan of your blog, I excitedly await your number.

Aside from my wife - who was my first sex partner and an enthusiastic one at that - I've had serious sex with 2 other ladies, one with whom I am still good friends and another who I've never been able to find again when she moved away.

Aside from that there were another 2 at most, but the circumstances were sort of indeterminate. With one we spent the night together in the same bed and afterwards she said we had sex during the night, only I can't really remember anything as it must have been a sort of sleepwalking thing. Funny thing about her is that now, some 38 years after not seeing her again due to life's twisting circumstances and after my wife's death and her husband's death, we are seeing each other again, in a pretty serious way. Neither of us has mentioned anything about our odd night together, so sometimes I wonder if I even remember correctly ... ha ha. But other friends of mine have told me the gossip among friends is that we did have sex, so I guess it must therefore be true. Too bad I can't really remember anything though. 😢

Anyway, if a sex researcher asked me and I were being really honest I would therefore answer 3 partners, or a possible 4. Quite the deplorable number I agree and far below average.

Well over 30 women, received anal from 1 guy, with a condom of course. Ex called me a male whore. 😮

I feel like such a prude with only one sex partner. I just wasn't one to give it away for nothing to just anybody who asked. I did have one almost, but almost doesn't count unless you're playing horse shoes.

I'm NOT GIVING away anything.

I'm TAKING it from them!

I am the DOMME!

There are a few responses that sound almost apologetic for having few partners.

I envy someone who has found true love, happiness, and sexual gratification with one/just a few, people.

However, if your answer is one, or a hundred, that's you. The way you were built, and wether it is nature, or nurture, it's all good.

Serial monogamist here, so only twenty five, though that counts a few Dommes and the occasional dry spell-breaking 'maintenance technician.' Sadly "Rosie Palms" is still my most frequent partner...cheap date and always available with a quick reach-out...

That begs the question what constitutes a partner... does one and done count,,,,, i think not.

A stand-up quickie in the alleyway counts. You don't have to remember their names.

A stand-up quickie in the alleyway counts. You don't have to remember their names.

I have never done that. It's out of my comfort zone.

I'll say, when my husband is away on business, hugging a nice warm pillow, lying in the fetal position after a nice long masturbation session is quite good.

Cuddling is okay after I've cooled down from the workout of schlonging her but I usually end up overheating, so I have to whip off the sheets and turn on the ceiling fan. That "Ricky and Lucy" twin bed set up is starting to look good lately...

A stand-up quickie in the alleyway counts. You don't have to remember their names.

Classic @Buttwoman quote. She should pin to her profile...

It's good to know who the real sluts on this board are! JUST KIDDING! What we do in the bedroom (and elsewhere) will never find me judgemental. Honestly, I lost count at 17, but do know that I've done enemas with 29, but not all had sex, unless you consider enemas as sex. Do keep in mind that I'm well over 60, and have been doing enemas since infancy, and doing them in a sexual context since 14. I guess 2 per year isn't THAT extreme. That does NOT include fun times with Rosie, BTW!

I'm a male virgin, at 38 years old.