How many sex partners have you had?

Over 120, over more than half a century, with roughly ⅔ of them being ‘working girls when I was in the Army.

I don’t know whether or not any of my casual hit & run, one night stand encounters produced offspring, but since I still have the sperm count of a 30-something (per a test less than a year ago, when i began using transdermal testosterone supplements to get ahead of some ED issues) combined with a stubborn unwillingness to EVER wrap my rascal, I imagine that I’ve spread at least some of my seed around the world.

Does it really make a difference? 😧

Definitely in the three digits area. Would have to sit down and figure out the exact number. Luckily never picked up any std's. My second wife said I was a male slut. 😃

Very promiscuous at an early age, and continued on through my military career over several counties and after I left, between marriages.

Still exploring at 76.

I have a lot of respect for people who have had only a few partners. You were lucky enough to find the right ones, obviously.

The debate throughout this thread is interesting but I would be curious to know what definition was used in whatever research I'm assuming (hoping) the original topic was referring to. Statistically I would be interested in what the mode of the data set was… what was the most common answer, or really what were the top few. I would hazard a guess that a good percentage were between 1-3 and over 10, but that's just a supposition on my part. If you have two responses of 0 partners each and two responses of 100 each, the average is 50 but that's not really useful info to draw a conclusion from.

Many years ago, when I was young and dumb, I had a list. I forgot about it and during a move it fell out of the book it was tucked in. Unfortunately it was my ex who found it and was shockingly astute enough to deduce the nature of it. While he knew he wasn't my first, I guess he didn't anticipate the number that came before him. This got thrown in my face during more than one later fight, but I never felt as bad about it as he seemed to think I should. I don't have an exact count anymore but would say more than 10, less than 20, assuming we're only counting actual intercourse.

Does it really make a difference? 😧

Maybe some define their sex appeal by the number of knotches they have aquired. The more the merrier?

Off the top of my head about 2 dozen women. Some while I was married, others when I wasn't. As of late, I haven't had a good sex partner for years. I sure do like to screw.

I am going to say over 100 I have never kept count but it just a guess. I grew up in a small town where the answer to the question is drink and fuck was very true.

Not enough.

3 different guys on 4 meetings since 2017

How many before that, idk. Guessing since I was 16, probably a few hundred.

18 here, 16 women and 2 men. 3 of the women were virgins, neither of the guys were, and I sure wasn't after the one guy..he he he

Elaine (who was hoping to add to that count tomorrow, but got dusted…sigh)

I am 70 and I am afraid this will be some kind of final count.

10 for sure. Girls or ladys I had vaginal sex with. 8 of those agreed to anal sex. 7 gave me blow jobs

2 persons I am not sure to include in the list. I was involved in a threesome Ith a young couple of expats on an assisnment in Africa unthe 80's. I had full sex with the girl ( she is one of the 10), but the man refused to have any kind of sex with me. So I will not count him.

The last person is a girl I had a wonderfull relation with for a few months in the 90's. She shared with me a strong rectal temperature fetish. We spent hours taking eachover's temperature on the partner's lap and she gave some tremendous orgasms doing so. But she refused any kind of sex She never touched my penis or testicles. I never touched her vagina. Still, I think she deserves to be on the list of sex partners.

So, that makes 11.

I've had vaginal sex with 18 different women. Most were one night stands, friends, some girlfriends and one wife. That's it unless you're counting handjobs and oral sex which would then raise the number to about 30.

@LordJim2 you might be able to teach me a thing or two one day!!!

15 in total over 50 year span

two threesomes

one 20 years my senior and the best I’ve ever had

two ex wives and current wife

I would say around 30 give or take. Married 3 times, several one timers in high school and college, more of long term monogamous relationships now.

Not enough!

I've screwed a handful of girls, but I've only truly experienced sex with my wife. 😉

Not enough. I know it is somewhere close to 2 dozen. Best sex was a minister and a minister's wife. She loved to screw. Had a woman in our church who love to screw a lot.

Best sex was a couple of women who enjoyed sex a whole lot.

Only three. In person. A few more on line. Love it all!

7 Women and over 30 Men.Considering I've only started having sex with men like 8 years ago I guess my relationships with women were long term and with men it's just sex. So at least for me, by these numbers, it's easier to have sex with men for me.

Too many. Lost count started having sex at 17

Too many. Lost count started having sex at 17

Is that possible? I would have thought the most common answer would be along the lines of: 'not enough'. 😃

Either 24 or 25. I count from memory so I get mixed up, lose count and have to start again.

But I will say not nearly enough. Most were vaginal sex, a few anal too and a few included enemas. I have also given enemas to women I’ve never had sex with. I love being their play doctor.

So I’ve been involved as a play doctor only with another 25 or 30 women. Not sure. Remember I have a counting problem.

I have had fewer than the Google-stated average.

TNTC.

Let me think about it for a minute . . . and try to calculate and tabulate all my sex partners over the past half century . . . and I could round up or down . . . . And the answer is a grand total of . . . .

One . . . my beautiful and amazing wife of 46 years.

And the sex keeps getting better and we keep discovering new ways to do things, not major things, just little positional changes and a few new tweaks and twists and fun little trinkets to add to our chest that is full of treasures that we have accumulated over nearly a half century as best friends and lovers.

About a month ago, my wife suggested we have sex every day. We are retired so we have the time and with a little help from Cialis . . . wait . . . scratch that . . . with a LOT of help from Cialis (5 mg taken every day so I am ready anytime, any day), I am able to perform well enough to have sex every day.

Our goal is NOT to reach orgasm because we can only achieve that comfortably and easily about once a week. It takes too much effort to orgasm more often than that so we just enjoy the journey of making love every day instead of focusing on the destination of an orgasm.

And the important thing is we actually take it very slow. We are not trying to set any records. And wow! We have found that by slowing down, we can feel much, much more . . . like each and every inch of each other, inside or out. That is, I can feel each and every inch going in and out and she can feel each and every inch of me going in and out. If we go fast, yes, we can feel things as we chase the orgasm, but not the same way as when we slow it down and focus on feeling each and every inch.

And the physical and emotional connection by going slow and by doing it every day . . . well, . . . it is, in a word, . . . erotic, sexy, sexual, sensual, stimulating, outstanding, astounding, astonishing, amazing, inspiring, impressive, incredible, remarkable, unbelievable, notable, noteworthy, excellent, exceptional, extraordinary, fabulous, fantastic, flabbergasting, marvelous, stunning, stupefying, staggering, striking, significant, splendid, spectacular, mind-blowing, phenomenal, prodigious, cool, and most of the time, my winky is up tight, out of sight, and in the groove. (Sorry, that ended up being 51 words).

We both wish we had learned this slow-it-down-and-enjoy-it technique years ago, but I suppose back then life was busier and we were rushed with everything that was going on in our lives when we had kids at home and with work and lots of family responsibilities, we felt we had to hurry before duty called.

And when I say that our sex life now is better now than it’s ever been, you may think, “Well, then your sex life must not have been pretty boring if going slow and barely banging out an orgasm a week is better than back when you could swing from the chandelier and pop out an orgasm a day.” But you know what? We had a great sex life but those days are history and faded memories and the physical feelings we get from those days . . . well, there’s not much there because it’s just memories whereas this slow stuff is here and now and every day and it feels so erotic, sexy, sexual, sensual, stimulating, outstanding, astounding, astonishing, amazing, inspiring, impressive, incredible, remarkable, unbelievable, notable, noteworthy, excellent, exceptional, extraordinary, fabulous, fantastic, flabbergasting, marvelous, stunning, stupefying, staggering, striking, significant, splendid, spectacular, mind-blowing, phenomenal, prodigious, cool, and most of the time, my winky is up tight, out of sight, and in the groove.

We highly recommend it!

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Currently (35y.o.) it's 8: one woman and 7 men. To be honest, I don't count it as considerable number

I’ve had 4 in 69 years.

I never kept track. I’ll sum it up by saying that I would have preferred more variety. I’ve always wanted an Asian or Scandinavian girlfriend. Never had either.

To many to remember, my ex called me a male whore, but I think that was stretching it a bit. LOL 😆

I have had 56 female sexual partners , but no males. I even remember all of their names , and what we did!