Spooning

Thanks SwitchableSusie - always thought spooning and cuddling were the same, now I know the difference thanks your informative post!

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For my GF and I spooning is simply the most intimate way to sleep together. It doesn't last all night but is just the most loving and personal way to drift off. We don't stay that way as night goes on but often will wake up and spoon again. I love being able to kiss and C's neck and shoulders as we snuggle. She seems to enjoy as well.

Spooning is awesome! So much skin contact, warm and soft, holding, hugging. Such a nice feeling with someone you care about.

While the standard ‘safety boob’ hold is always a wonderful way to spoon, I’ve written here about the kinky, anal ‘spooning’ variation that I love. Its a regular spoon position, except that our bottom legs are straight and top legs bent, so our upper legs overlap and sort of lock together. Before that I will slide a lubricated middle finger into her anus, then lock our legs to hold my hand against/between her cheeks. I get to feel her warmth, her tightness, her pulse, invading her so intimately. She gets to feel me inside her most private hole, filling her, stimulating her. Many times it’s the start of another play session, but otherwise it’s just the most intimate way to fall asleep together, letting her know that I ‘own’ her ass!

Seems like such a great position in on a lazy Saturday morning!

the standard ‘safety boob’ hold

Securititty 😃

Once in awhile I fall asleep spooning my wife and I wake up in the morning spooning our golden retriever she loves cuddling in the bed also. As soon as I open my eyes she gives me a lick on the face. Sometimes the cat sleeps on my pillow next to my head dog will lick her too it's one big cuddle fest in our house cat doesn't really like that.

Spooning sounds great for sure! It’s very intimate.

Whether we have sex or not on any given day; me & my Love spoon most every night (been together for years).

Spooning for me is the “sweet spot” right before I fall asleep. I get in bed with my wife (she is already asleep or not, doesn’t matter) and she is facing away from me. She is curled up in a semi fetal position. I slowly and carefully lay down behind her doing my best not disturb her. I’m wearing what I usually wear to sleep, boxers or whites. She usually has on PJ’s. As I lay next to her, my body begins to mold into hers. I take one arm and wrap it around her and pull her to me. At this point, whether she is asleep or not, she instantly pushes her body back to mine. We become two bodies perfectly molded. It only takes a few minutes to begin to feel this incredibly warm feeling emerging between us. Usually, but not always, I will get a hardon, which I will gently push against her ass. My arousal is brief, because I know the “sweet spot” is seconds away. The feeling of complete happiness, security, and oneness floods my mind and body, and I fall into a deep sleep.

@beebe perfect description of spooning. TY

I take one arm and wrap it around her and pull her to me.

Just from curiosity, what do you do with the “lower” arm? I never know where to comfortably put it.

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There is no good answer to the lower arm spoon question. You wait for it to fall asleep and pray you don't dislocate it. They make pillows you can buy to try and alleviate this problem, no idea if they actually work though. (Seriously, google “spooning pillow”) This is the real reason us girls always want to be little spoon though.

I guess spooning would be one rare activity where being one-armed gives the person an advantage over two-armed people, eh?

Also, spooning is a post-sex, pre-sleep event. It's the amuse-bouche to sleep. Sleep is serious business, requiring room to move, distance from anything potentially overly warm and the ability to be in comfortable, and possibly different, positions. I'm told I'm not necessarily the best companion for actual sleep. 🙄 An evening or weekend of sex, cuddling, spooning and dozing until round 2, 3, 4, etc. of sex can be great. When I'm really tired though, I need unencumbered sleep.

@MittenKitten - you have touched a nerve - spooning is my ultimate kink - naked body holding naked body - absorbing each others warmth - essence - my problem is I get aroused lol

I have a spooning story - my first wife was prone to doing spontaneous things - one day she announced she wanted an Irish Wolfhound - so it was off to New Jersey where we brought home in our 2-seater Datsun 1600 George a 3-month old puppy and Charlie our 3-year old Standard Poodle - and my wife - the girls din't get along at all as George instantly became very protective of me.

At 6-month George could put her paws on my 6' tall shoulders and lick my face - I liked to sleep late and in the nude. One morning I woke up spooning - I as usual became hard - I went to nuzzle my wife's ear and got a mouthful of short hair - it was a very content George 🌹

@MittenKitten A single bite sized hors d'œuvre.before sleep is an excellent description for post sex spooning (I had to look it up!). We sometimes had sex in a spooning position (usually anal) or occasionally got into a spoon position after sex to cuddle and fall asleep. However we usually separated before falling asleep and used up the entire king-size bed - each to his/her own side/

Usually though, after sex, we both just flattened out on our backs and said “whew!!!!”

@MittenKitten - you have touched a nerve - spooning is my ultimate kink - naked body holding naked body - absorbing each others warmth - essence - my problem is I get aroused lol

@eeetime Spooning can be great, but you proved my point! Someone or everyone ends up aroused and sleep takes a backseat.

At 6-month George could put her paws on my 6' tall shoulders and lick my face - I liked to sleep late and in the nude. One morning I woke up spooning - I as usual became hard - I went to nuzzle my wife's ear and got a mouthful of short hair - it was a very content George 🌹

Pups need cuddles too!

Spooning for us means sleeping in sexual union. Many exciting developments can occur and usually do.

Sahara and i sleep nude and always start the night out by spooning, i love her hands on me and she loves my hands on her.

I didn't have a chance to read the many comments so this may be common knowledge but I think the term "Spooning" comes from the way good silverware spoons are stored in the felt lined box. They fit together very nicely on their sides with the eating part tucked into the next spoon. So spooning I think refers to cuddling reclined in bed lying on you side - your partner with his front facing your back and his knees tucked behind your bent knees very nicely under your bottom about as "snug" as two people can get (meaning no space at all between touching parts - snug being a term often used by carpenters when fitting boards together and the origin of snuggling). If I have this wrong please tell me.

Yea, I love spooning especially after sex. I love feeling the cock between my butt cheeks.

Yea, I love spooning especially after sex. I love feeling the cock between my butt cheeks.

@medfedcouple Love that! 😉

Can be as intimate as making love in my view.

Hello. My name is David and I am a serial spooner. I absolutely, positively love spooning with a naked woman. Being 6' tall, I usually have been the big or behind spoon, but not always. It is just so intimate and relaxing.

The feel of her body next to mine. So much of our skin touching. My cock nestling between her cheeks, so very close to her two delicious and warm and moist openings... Did I just sense her butt grind ever so lightly against me? Push back against my stiffening cock?

And I miss it so very much.

Spooning is great, often a prelude to sex but most likely the conclusion of great sex. I love the feeling of my penis pressed against her back or snuggled between her buttocks depending on how we flopped on the bed and how the pillows are arranged at the time. It doesn’t take long for precum to begin oozing from my penis and creating a slippery area for my penis to slide against with each breath we take. It is most intense when my penis is between her cheeks when this happens.