Wife and a well endowed man

Been married for 30yrs. Early on my wife told me many times about a guy she had, some Italian guy with a 8" dick.

She talked about how good he was, how much fun she had, how she surprised herself that she could take all of him. How she had toe curling orgasms, etc.

We have several toys 8" and she takes all of it.

So now in last 3 yrs, I have told her I would like to get her another well endowed guy, First she said who, then quickly changed to I don't know, seem apprehensive.

The next times I mention it told her I think it would be fun, my fantasy, think she would enjoy it, he can be someone she knows, I know, black, white, what ever she would like. Told her we can try once and if like it, maybe become a once or twice a year treat, or what ever she likes. Still I don't know to no, apprehensive stage.

I even sometimes, infrequently as I don't want to push it hard, when wearing a penis extender which takes me to 7" tell her how hot it makes me thinking about a large dick in her.

As I said, only brought it up 3 times in as many years, as I don't want to push it too hard.

Has anyone ever gone through this, did she ever eventually say yes, anything you said to change her mind to yes?

What was your first experience like, would love to her from both men and women on this

It sounds like you would like her to experience this.

Have you ever mentioned to her your suspicion that she liked laying naked on a table, in a room full of men. You could try to build on her comment about how fast someone got her naked, & encourage it from there. Might work.

I even sometimes, infrequently as I don't want to push it hard, when wearing a penis extender which takes me to 7" tell her how hot it makes me thinking about a large dick in her.

So what is the size of your penis?

I am 5.5"x5"X1.5" very average

Questions is not how big you are or how big the other man will be . Question is : Can you watch your wife suck another mans dick ? Can you watch another man stick his 8” into your wife , and be ok with it ?

I have the same scenario playing out with my wife , but size isn’t an issue , I’m well hung , after being married for 20 years I think my wife wouldn’t mind exploring

Questions is not how big you are or how big the other man will be . Question is : Can you watch your wife suck another mans dick ? Can you watch another man stick his 8” into your wife , and be ok with it ?

In college and a few years after, my husband saw me doing all sorts of debauched activities with other men. My husband is average sized and he saw a number of horse sized dicks go down my throat when we were younger. Now I'm only his for that sort of stuff.

In college and a few years after, my husband saw me doing all sorts of debauched activities with other men. My husband is average sized and saw a number of horse sized dicks go down my throat when we were younger. Now I'm only his for that sort of stuff.

We’re you married at the time when your husband saw you take horse sized dicks go down your throat ? Were they also going in between your legs ?

Would you and your husband be ok doing it again ?

Yes, at the time they were going (and cumming) between my legs too.

My husband and I have not discussed doing it again but I'm actually not interested at this time and I don't think he is either--otherwise he would have said something. We haven't been swinging since before I got pregnant.

Yes, and it was horrible. The guy thought his big penis was all he needed to satisfy me. He had no clue about female anatomy and our pleasure centres, no clue about good communication, no clue about good love making skills. He thought I'd just like his in-out-in-out. I didn't like sex with him at all. Being well endowed is just the start. You need a whole lot more.

I don't think I'm all the way to "well endowed" but I am definitely above average and am very much in the "it's not the size so much as what you learn to do with it" camp. Knowing where and how your partner likes to be touched you can work out ways to hit those spots even if you are "very average."

Wish my wife was interested in finding those ways too, but I guess you can't have it all.