Being bi, and in a relationship with a woman, all the sex I have with men is casual. I don't like them to be there when I get up.
I have no qualms about meeting a guy, having wild sex, and sending him home without remembering his name.
In the last year, about half the guys I meet have asked about anal fisting. Two years ago, it would have been...ZERO.
I understand, it's a little different for me, since I explain to the guys right away that any penetration is going to be anal. Honestly, I don't think that a couple of years ago, these same guys had ever heard of anal fisting.
Is fisting becoming mainstream? Is it just that with modern porn, eventually guys (or girls) will stumble upon a nice video of someone with a fist in someone's butt? I kind of liked it when it was the epitomy of extreme, and even a little creepy. It was not long ago when any mention of anal fisting was met with 'WHAT????????'.
Aside from the main topic, I've been anal fisting much more lately, and I'm starting to find it my preferred way of penetrative sex.