Enemas and Anal Sex

Yes enemas are part of our preparation routine for both toys and anal intercourse. Most of the time I do my own preparation but husband enjoys giving me one as well.

Dita

Most definately...nice large enema to clean you out then have some anal play.....it’s amazing

On my wedding night, I didn't think my new husband would want anal sex I had known him for years and he had never raised the subject, but as some of my bffs from college warned me, people can change when they are able to totally let their guard down

So, I kept 2 Fleet enemas in my duffel bag. Better safe than sorry! A year later they were still in the bathroom cabinet.

If someone enjoys enemas sexually, then its pretty safe to say they are anally erotic. And if thats the case, they probably enjoy some form of penetration, although size might matter, re liking smaller toys and maybe not a penis. Someone who ONLY uses enemas for health reasons might not enjoy anything sexual done to their ass. If they haven’t at some point gotten excited while feeling a nozzle going in, they might never.

However I dont think the reverse is true. Someone who enjoys anal sex could be completely adverse to enemas. I might even say most ppl, since anal sex is pretty mainstream nowadays, yet erotic enemas are still on the far fringes in kink. The feelings/sensations are COMPLETELY different than any other form of anal penetration with a solid object. And thats why we klismophiles like them! While anal sex continued to be a major part of my and my partners sex life, many tried the enema only once and didn’t care for it.

Most people who do anal sex use an enema first just for practical and cleanliness reasons

And this I reallly dont think is true. I have been into anal sex for 32 yrs now, and enemas for 20. I never correlate the two; I’ll have anal sex with my partner anywhere, anytime and never relate to them having an enema first. I’ve also introduced many women to anal sex, and not one of them thought they should take an enema first.

Anal sex can be mostly done without any thought of poop and going to the bathroom. Sure, she can’t be ‘needing’ to go at the time, and there might be a tiny ‘remnant’ as you pull out, but a quick wipe takes care of that. But an ENEMA is MUCH more intimate! The receiver is giving up control of their bowels, knowing that they will have to release with their partner around (if not watching). Most sexual partners still keep visiting the bathroom secret or at least private even after yrs of being together. The enema really pushes the envelope of intimacy with a partner... another thing that draws me to this fetish!

You are more than likely to have a stronger correlation between enemas that provide sexual stimulation to anal pleasure. Than of that between enemas taken for health reasons to anal pleasure.

There was an anus which lead me sexual pleasure before knowing enema. I started playing with my anus at around ten years old. Later, enema became a part of measure to give me anal pleasure. Eventually, it became the best one among various treatments such as expansion, deep penetration, etc.

Definitely! I love anal penetration, especially after an enema or series of enemas.

I agree with CJ1999 on this. Just because you are anal doesn't mean you are into enemas. I have been lucky in that my partner was anal, and loved a hose in her butt. She didn't get them as a child and discovered them later in life. I gave her the first one that wasn't self administered and then used a vib and my fingers to get her off. The connection was immediate and she also liked beadsand also what we called the bumpety, which was a glass plug with bumps on it. The vib on her clit and the bumpety going slowly in and out after an enema was dealt with really did it for her. I'm sure due to the poo factor, many anal girls would probably find an enema disgusting. The act of surrendering your bottom for an enema is the most intimate thing that can happen in my opinion.

The act of surrendering your bottom for an enema is the most intimate thing that can happen in my opinion.

Yes, you get it. on at least 3 levels:

1) Exposing the most intimate parts of your body to another.

2) Having those parts penetrated and violated.

3) Giving, or have it taken, control of ones bowels, A primary function we are schooled in from earliest age.

@teleduke

I would agree with your list except for one item.

I do not equate penetration with violation. It is only violation if it is unwanted. I would add to your list of most intimate acts, giving control of any part of your body particularly anything with the genitals and breasts.

For me, giving control of any part of my body to my partner is a huge act of trust. Anal ratchets that up immensely. So much so, that I have only shared it with three of my partners. I've only shared enemas with one partner, my last one who introduced me to them.

The first partner I shared anal with was a huge mistake. He failed to stop when asked and hurt me. Ironically, I was the one who had shared I was intrigued and trusted him, not a previous partner who had been pushing me to allow him in the back door. He pushed the idea so much and so often, that while I was intrigued, I simply did not trust him to stop when I asked or go slow even though he always had with everything else. But his demeanor was so different when it came to anal, I just wasn't willing to go there with him. So instead, I trusted another (after my relationship ended with the partner who pushed the idea to much) and got badly hurt.

Years later, I reconnected with the partner who kept pushing the idea of anal and the topic came up. When he found out I had been hurt he was pretty upset. I've written about it in several posts. He is the one who gave me my first anal orgasm.

My last partner was extremely gifted in anal play and gave me multiple anal orgasms and regular multiple orgasms as well. After having a partner who was into and skilled in anal, I find I'm not open to a relationship without it anymore. Regular orgasms seem to cause an anal "ache" the way I can ache for regular sex.

I'm curious to explore enemas more but only with a partner. Hmmm, I guess this is also answering would I marry a vanilla, and the answer is "No".

My two cents...okay closer to 5 cents maybe 10 cents.

@teleduke

I would agree with your list except for one item.

I do not equate penetration with violation. It is only violation if it is unwanted. I would add to your list of most intimate acts, giving control of any part of your body particularly anything with the genitals and breasts.

I would agree with you pretty much completely, sweetkisses, it really isn't violation if it's wanted. It is being extremely vulnerable, both in exposing your body and your pleasure to another. Done right it's beautiful and intimate and loving.

I can see why a man would reach for "violation" though (and why I might even do it at times). As a man we are socialized to be non-penetrated, so somehow that intimate surrendering of the body is to easily confounded with violation. Also you are in the position of being the bottom or the sub (depending on how it is playing out), when you're often doing some power exchange. I don't think it's the best way to think about it, but I can see why with everything that's going on "violation" can be pulled out as a descriptor.

Yes I would also agree that it isn't really violation if it is pleasurable and acceptable. But it adds another dimension to the play if enemas and sodomy are given as a form of punishment and involving humiliation, and then I use the word 'violation' a lot to arouse my partner. It certainly seems to work and her orgasms can be explosive.

I was given enemas by my Mother when I was young, sometimes with a neighbor lady watching. I suppose that started me on my anal erotic desires which have never stopped. Fingers to toothbrush, hairbrush handles to eventually anal toys, it's always been a part of who I am and masturbation.

My guess is that if you receive sexual stimulation from enemas, the odds are very good that you also enjoy various forms of anal penetration. After all, that's what an enema is......from both the nozzle, and the flow of liquid into the rectum.

I enjoy anal sex with a partner who knows what they are doing, however I am not into enemas. I try to be clean but my thought is if you are going to play in the sandbox expect a little sand now and then or don't play in the sandbox.

Just my thoughts

Yes, of course, while as a small child receiving regular healthful enemas from our parents, when we were locked out of the house to allow them special space on Saturday mornings, we played house, making weed/grass soups and giving enemas by running a finger into each other. We did not play with genitals till years later. We started with anal pleasuring and none of us were ever queer by nature, butt often in behavior. Today young people are being taught to believe they are bent as soon as they play with the same sex.

I have given personal, face to face enema counseling to men and women. I take on a scientifically reasonable approach in explaining every choice of method, but with women, my pants are a sticky mess and heart rate is elevated the whole time.

I love anal sex but I am kinda new to enamas I have been using the fleets but after your posts I have a lot to learn.

Receiving both enemas and anal penetration are very hot for me. One day my wife is going to watch me get both while she plays with her vibrator.

As an anal erotic, you can certainly assume that a enema clean-out series is just the prelude to a fun anal penetration scene to follow. That can be anywhere from anal dilators and dildos all the way to the ultimate feel of a real penis gliding in and out of your anus and rectum. The stimulations are divine.

For me enemas are very erotic. My wife's libido seems to be declining and regular sex is not very frequent, sadly. So I try to stick with a twice a month enema schedule for me, she won't try one, but she will given them to me. I love the way she lubes me, but I wish she would do it longer. She uses a douche nozz to deliver all three enemas and she uses short in and out strokes to get the nozz all the way in, them she wiggles it a bit as if to make sure it stays in. After she releases the water I will try to push the nozz out so that she will have to push it back in. While holding, she will play with the nozz and wow, it really winds me up. Often she will give me a hand job while playing with the nozz to massage my prostate and it really works. I can't take more than 15 20 minutes of that before I cum big time. I just wish we could do this more often.

I love the way she lubes me, but I wish she would do it longer. ... I just wish we could do this more often.

@3quart It's great that she will give to you, as that is more than many other men have here. But as for lubing you longer, or doing enemas more frequently, have you ever asked her? She obviously already knows it's sexual for you so if you asked for her to lube you longer would she actually refuse? The old stupid sports saying " you miss 100% of the shots you never take " is actually accurate. If you never ask, it'll never happen. But if you do ask, ?!?!?!?

I love anal sex giving and receiving but we always give each other a enemas first it part of the sex for me and him

In the back of our basement, dimly lit and sequestered, my ten year old neighbor buddy and I played doctor.......squirming and whimpering as we each surrendered to "those things"..........tings that young boys recall with dread; rectal temperature readings and eyedropper enemas.

As we approached puberty , the dread became strangely erotic, a compelling obsession about which we were unable to understand the psycho-sexual stirrings.........but we were unable to avoid repetition.

At 17, with drivers licenses and pubic maturity we planned a weekend together, camping in the Sierra. At this juncture there was no mutual acknowledgment of exotic anal interest..........but that first night under the sky our conversation hesitatingly drifted to sensual episodes in our past, reawakening the thrill of taboo.

The following morning we drove the short distance into Reno seeking the anonymity of a city pharmacy, at which venue we sought not eyedroppers but a grotesque red and black instrument with which to explore post-pubic eroticism

Our enema procedures , once again tentatively undergone, had become more leisurely erotic realizations of forbidden fantasies............fashioned with intimidating demand and blissful surrender.

For me, yes that does certainly peak the interest

I'd say that is a pretty safe bet. Enjoy!

For me you would be correct

Yup, love the eroticism around "preparing" for what is about to come. Its not as quick and easily ready as vaginal sex, so the fact that we have to clean adds a whole mental level to what you're doing next!

Enemas definitely let me to try anal sex I've had both live cocks and strap on I enjoyed them both but nowadays I prefer strap-ons with pretty lady

I believe that those who love enemas would also anal sex. I always make sure that I am clean before a male top gives me anal sex.

I would think one of the draws of enemas is the anal stimulation. What would you think about anal penetration while full with an enema???