Enemas and Anal Sex

For all those who enjoy receiving enemas for health and sexual stimulation reasons would it be safe to assume that they would also enjoy receiving some form of anal penetration?

I don't know that it would be a "safe" assumption to make generally, but as a gay man, I definitely enjoy anal penetration. In my case, there is definitely a connection between my enjoyment of enemas and my enjoyment of other forms of anal play.

I can only speak for myself and provide my view of how enemas and anal sex are related. I am very anal erotic. Underneath that broad umbrella of anal eroticism I like enemas, prostate stimulation and anal penetration with a penis/dildo. So for me when I started playing with enemas at age 13 I was just beginning to enter my world of anal eroticism. At that age I did not know what anal erotic was- it just felt good and I wanted more.

I don't think everybody who does enemas do them for sexual pleasure but for the ones that do, I would imagine some kind of anal stimulation through penetration (fingers, toys, dildos, penises) is likely perceived to be pleasurable.

Well said @ProV1! Your reply would mirror mine almost word for word (with the exception of the prostate reference). 😄

However, my introduction to enemas in my mid-late teens revealed a very "anal erotic" side of me. I had no idea of the concept at the time, only that it made me feel good and I wanted more of it.

One of the reasons I enjoy enemas is that it satisfies that anal erotic craving I manage to get and clears the way for other anal play with dildos and occasional anal sex with hubby. Plus, it still feels good!

Deb

I had a fixation on anal penetration before receiving enemas. However anal sex (that is, receiving a dildo) came quite later. It's one thing to receive a thermometer or finger, it's another to receive a dildo or penis.

@ProV1, wow! You are absolutely spot on. I got enemas growing up for all the reasons kids got enemas growing up in the 50s and 60s. I did not know I was anally erotic either. All I knew is that when something was inserted in my butt, it felt good and made masturbation oh so much better. Using the enema nozzle was just the next step along the way. Around age 11 or so is when I no longer was given enemas but started to to take them myself and masturbate at the same time (of course, no one was home). The feeling of being penetrated by a finger, dildo, enema nozzle, or penis is something I've always found to be totally and completely erotic. (As well, I love providing that stimulation to my partner.)

For me enemas are a part of anal eroticism. As early as age 8 or 9 I remember dreaming of sitting down on a metal slab that had protrusion that would enter my anus. I was never given enemas as a child and had token about them through which means I do not remember but began sneaking them as a teenager. I now use them as a means to clean my gut out and as a cleansing and "foreplay" prelude to anal and genital masturbation. I enjoy the feeling of being cleaned out by a good soapsuds enema all by itself and dislike having my toys emerge from my bottom with smelly brown stuff stuck to them. My wife is somewhere between being asexual and anti-sexual and considers enemas part of "dirty sex," so I have to do all this while she is asleep or out of the house. As we are both retired this is not a regular possibility. I am definitely anally erotic and find "toys," especially toys the push on my prostate to be wonderfully stimulating. I would like to explore the possibly of strap-on or proper penile penetration with internal ejaculation.

As said by others here, in the beginning I did not know what anal erotic meant. All I knew was regardless of being taught by mom that little girls should not put their fingers in "there", it felt so good. There was that crayon I slipped in to pretend I was taking my temperature. And the unexplainable pleasant feeling of the enema nozzle sliding in and feeling the water being squirted in. I think in some ways my enjoyment of mom's enemas and my early efforts at self-administration of them was in some way justifying that an enema nozzle was one of the few things that was OK to stick into your butt. Don't you think? I think I made the connection between anal arousal and sexual arousal shortly after puberty. I never got beyond occasional anal sex mostly due to my husband not seeing anal stimulation in the same way. I guess we are all different in our attitudes toward enemas and anal.

I started fooling around with anal penetration when I was 6 or 7. Fear of my mother catching me prevented me from doing it often, maybe 3-4 times a year when I was home alone. Enemas from my mother were not pleasant, so I was not attracted to that sort of anal stimulation until she stopped giving them to me when I was about 12-13. But I started sneaking enemas when my parents were gone for the evening (I have no siblings, so nobody else to catch me at it.). By the time I was 15-16, I started sneaking them more regularly. By then it was a great turn on, and I would masturbate with each one. In short, I wasn't turned on by childhood (less than 12) enemas, but grew to like them in my early teens. I still enjoy them, but I have to hide them from my wife.

I was given my first enema at 6. From there a spark was lit. After that, I put other things in my bottom because it felt good and satisfied a sort of curiosity. I started self administering after seeing moms bag hanging in the shower. I think I was 12 at the time and I've been at it ever since.

I do enemas mostly for pleasure and to facilitate other anal play. Although, I feel like there are some health benefits. The one most important to me is stress management.

So I'm an example of the opposite, because I do enemas for pleasure and the health benefits are secondary, but important just the same. Especially in terms of dealing with stress.

Hoo boy, does it ever! The two go together like peas, and carrots.

Another issue... my wife was used to enemas since childhood, and you could thus think she would try anal sex... but when I suggested it, just looking at my penis she said "IT WON'T FIT!!!"

An enema nozzle is thin...

I have to agree with Buttwoman, Any form of sex seems to go better with a series of enemas precluding the fun.

I think for many of us an enema was the first step to anal play. Recognizing that the enema nozzle felt good slipping in there, even if we did not enjoy the rest of the enema so much, was the first step. As Cheryl said, "an enema nozzle was one of the few things that was OK to stick into your butt". Your mom did it so it must be OK. Right? And it was right there under the sink. Easy to take into the bathtub to try out with or without water. Mmmmm, that feels so good slipping in there. An enema nozzle was certainly safer than the pencils, brush handles, and other stuff we tried even though we eventually put all of that other stuff in there anyway. Didn't you? And this was all before you knew what sex was all about.

I have become addicted to giving my girlfriend enemas followed by anal sex! Manually preparing her and administering the enema is so erotic to me that I am usually hard as a rock long before she has expelled. I love the tight warm feeling of her clean asshole squeezing my cock. She occasionally will give me enemas too prior to plugging me while giving me a long slow blowjob.

@RedBulb99 -- I think for many of us an enema was the first step to anal play. ...

I agree. It sure was for me. I gave myself my first enema in my early 20s after reading somewhere that masturbating during an enema was fun. I tried it and it was just as advertised. Almost immediately, I read more about enemas and decided to try a butt plug to retain my enemas. That's how I discovered the joys of orgasm enhancement by prostate stimulation.

Within a year or two I was taking clean-out enemas to prepare to enjoy anal penetration by my wife's fingers and a wide variety of anal toys. More often than not, anal penetration was involved when we had regular sex, or when I received oral sex or a hand job, or when I masturbated. This progressed to my wife fucking me with a strap-on dildo, and then to my wife fisting me.

Lately, I've gotten into 5-foot-long, 1-inch+ diameter colon colon tubes, and 12-inch penetration through my inner sphincter with 2-inch to 3-inch diameter enema nozzles and dildos. About the only things left are anal e-stim and anal sex with a man, which I both want to try. That first enema was the first step.

I was brought up in one of those homes where enemas "cured all".. the were always given gently and with love. as i became aware of my sexuality it was natural that i was aroused by them and from around 10 on i would make excuses so that mom , grandma or aunt alexis who is a lesbian (also) would give them to me.

Do all who responded to my post I want to thank you. We are all beautiful people who are so anal erotic and feel so good with the wonderful stimulation of receiving enemas.

We have been lucky in deriving pleasure from this healthy act that not only cleans us but gives us a sense of pride of what we are.

Thanks to all our mums and other adults in our early childhood who gave us enemas and made us feel vulnerable and accepted as little girls and boys who have become anal erotic for life.

Most people who do anal sex use an enema first just for practical and cleanliness reasons.

I'm a straight man who uses enemas (giver 99% of the time, recipient 1% of the time) exclusively erotically. Have never used them for health or necessity (unless one counts great sex as being both healthy and necessary!)

I enjoy doing all things anal to women and am frequently butt plugged and occasionally pegged. And, all of these things I'd rate "love, Love, LOVE".

I never really felt comfortable about anal sex until i figured out how to give myself an enema first. That was a game changer :-)

Now i like toys, strap-ons and (in the right circumstances) the occasional cock in there.

I think that is a fair assumption to make. People I know who actively participate in anal sex almost always tale an enema prior to having anal sex. I would recommend that to anyone involved in anal sex.

My fantasy is to both give and receive an enema as foreplay before anal sex.

If you are going to take an enema before anal play, why not make that part of the play as well. I know some people don't want to think about them as sexual, but getting ready for the big show is getting ready.

I'll take a disposable enema if needed but when the bag comes out it is a type of anal sex. Some of our nozzles are designed like dildos or special shapes and enhance the penetration.

Hi I love reciving enemas for any reason anal sex is a must to have taken the before entryi like bag ones they real get you clean out and ready.they seam to help me get in the mood even more

Absolutely: having anal sex with a bag full partner is lovely.

I have used enemas for many years which also led me to discover I am anally erotic as well. Integrating anal play with enemas is so exhilarating

The enema was an introduction to playing with other anal toys. I like a good clean out, but sometimes a bulb and my aneros is what's needed.

I started giving myself enemas as an adult because I wanted a clean playground for my anal toys. However, after having given myself enemas regularly over the last decade and more, I would now still give myself regular enemas even if I wasn't going to play with my toys. I love the clean feeling after a good cleansing.