Hitachi Magic Wand

I'm sorry to hear of the problems you have Jephtha, particularly your wifes.

I'm afraid that dependence on a device like the Hitachi is somewhat addictive and many men see that dependence as a threat to the relationship - sort of something or someone coming between you - literally in this case.

However, its good that you recognise her need to orgasm and allow for it, much as it interferes with the closeness. You mention the missionary position and I can well imagine the difficulty.

Have you thought of penetration from behind, in the spoons position? That way the Hitachi would not be between you. You could even use one of the attachments such as shown at http://www.healthandcare.co.uk/hitachi-magic-wand-attachments/le704.html to stimulate her clitoris whilst you have intercourse.

Ultimately though you should both to try to reduce or eliminate the dependence. Firstly you should both consult a medic. Hopefully one who understands sexual issues and depresssion. Different medications for depression have different effects. You could also try reducing the period the Hitachi is in use, switching it off for slightly longer periods and on for shorter periods. Over time you can slowly reduce its use in a given session of lovemaking.

It's nice you should feel fulfilled in meeting her needs - so rare these days to have such consideration. I hope you resolve the situation soon.

Yes I agree that maybe you should try a different position.

My partner finds the Hitachi too powerful and prefers a fun factory vibrator.

She often holds it against her slit when we make love and I have no problem with this. Sometimes she sits on top, and sometimes we do it doggy style or in the spoons position.

I agree that a vibrator gets in the way in the missionary position, especially a big thing like the Hitachi.

It's well known that anti-depressants, especially MAOIs and SRIs affect the ability to orgasm and/or lower libido.

I hope you can get over these problems in the future.

If you're a man with a woman, the best way to use a Magic Wand is to have the woman lie on top of you, with your penis inserted in her vagina. Use the MW to press down on the base of your penis, so the tip is pushing hard into her G-spot, and your entire penis becomes an extension of the vibrator.

She will very likely have a "whole body" earth-shaking G-spot orgasm like she never felt before

You won't want to miss this.

Absolutely can NOT say enough about my Hitachi Magic Wand! I think it may have actually ruined me! I'm totally addicted to it. It's a guaranteed orgasm and hasn't failed me yet. It's extremely powerful and you have to learn to keep from cumming too fast, but once you've mastered that, there's nothing like the orgasm it creates. My husband uses it for himself as well. He rests it under his balls and lets the Wand do the rest.

The results and opinions vary greatly on the Hitachi. As Mstique reveals, its addicting for her. It is easy for the user to become a bit less sensitive and need more stimulation that ever to achieve orgasms. Then there are some that it is simply too much to handle for them. They are not for everyone. I have found that it is best used 'around' the genitals (inner thigh and labia) for newbies rather than than taking direct aim at the clitoris at first. It does create a sensation that is not as common as most females are used to...especially at first.

They do offer several different attachments for rectal and vaginal use some are aftermarkets but work equally as well. Wands used in tandem on/in different orfices can offer an unexplicable experience for those that can take it. Keep in mind that excessive movement and manipulation is not always key. The sheer presence while it is on and placed strategically may be all one needs but as we all know....results will vary.

Regarding Knock-offs. Yes there are copy cat brands out there. It must say 'Hitachi' to be genuine...not just 'Magic Wand' I have held both side to side and can notice a quality difference but could not verify difference it performance. Ebay does have authentic Wands and can save you money over individual websites and sex toy vendors, again you just have to make sure its an actual Hitachi brand.

If you are into forced orgasms, edging and/or over-stimulation..this gadget is a must have.

My wife loves the majic wand we ordered it from Walmart online and it was at the house in no time. It is powerful you can use it with the clothes on and still get a orgasm. The attachments make it even more fun to use. If you want to save some money Whal also makes a plug in vibrator that is just as fun that one comes with a few different attachments. The cup attachment on the Whal is nice for nipple stimulation. I love to use the wand for distraction when she takes an enema. One time she took over a gallon enema and had no clue because of the majic wand. I would recommend everyone add this to your toy chest. You can find the attachments online as well and it adds more fun to it all.

This is my favorite mobile sex toy.

What is the general feeling from women on this device?

I think its a great massager but it is strong for use on my clit. I sometimes need a thin pillow or cushion between it and myself to tone it down a little.

I do like the attachments and vaginally and anally, they are good.

I so need to get one soon

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I love the Hitachi Wand that Ford bought for me. It makes me scream in ecstasy when used on my clit. It is also an excellent massager on tired shoulders and legs. I use it to pamper my lover by giving him a massage on his calves while he is taking a nap. We both love this new addition to our toys collection.

I love my magic wand.. We have had much fun together! I am actually on my second one. I wore the first one out.

This is an amazing toy very powerful. It does take a little getting used to. If you love a vibrating egg you will be over the top with this. I don’t find the fancy attachments to be worth the money. I went all out when I got mine. My favorite ones are the funky straight and curved blue ones. It works great on the clit or putting it on the man’s sack up against the prostate. He loved the feeling and came so hard.

I gave my wife one last year and she loves it! She can orgasm in under a minute with it. She has told me many times that was the "best" gift for her. She needs direct clitoral stimulation in order to orgasm and oral sex/touching cannot do it so that little toy is her best friend. After regular sex she will use it to finish off. I got her some attachments but she does not like them very much. Question for the women, how common is it to be unable to achieve orgasm except from direct clitoral stimulation? My wife is the only person I have ever dated that was like that.

Thank you all - this has been recommended to me before - I better just take the plunge and buy one!

@12196979

«Question for the women, how common is it to be unable to achieve orgasm except from direct clitoral stimulation? »

It may not be very common, but I have the same problem as your wife.

I must try a Hitachi Magic Wand

VERY IMPORTANT FOR YOU GUYS TO KNOW:

. . . .«Question for the women, how common is it to be unable to achieve orgasm except from direct clitoral stimulation? »

It may not be very common, but I have the same problem as your wife.

I must try a Hitachi Magic Wand

Two thirds to three quarters of women do not have an orgasm from intercourse alone. This is a well known scientifically substantiated FACT.

Clitoral stimulation is required for the very vast majority of women to orgasm.

So, if you want your women to be happy, you will pay attention to this.

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12196979 said:

My wife is the only person I have ever dated that was like that.

If you dated a lot of women and you think your wife is the only person who was like that--MOST OF THOSE WOMEN LIED TO YOU!

I love Hitachi Magic wands. Mine finally died on me so I'm without that monster of a machine that gets me off in seconds flat and man, do I miss it. It's so great to be full of stress and tension then five minutes later, be a sated, sweaty, satisfied lady who is ready for either round two or well-deserved sleep.

I recently extolled the virtues of a Hitachi Magic wand to my new lover but he seemed unconvinced. I asked the gal at the adult toy store if anything compared to it or if it was the best. She said, "Oh, lord. I remember my first time with a Hitachi. Magic wand..." And we shared story after story, along with a fantasy I'd like to try with my lover and a Hitachi Magic wand. When I told the fantasy to her, I thought she was going to have a heart attack. She was like, "Girl, I'm going to have to try that."

So my new lover was schooled and now knows that a lady needs a Hitachi Magic wand. It's definitely worth its weight in gold.

How do you use a Hitachi Magic Wand while having intercourse at the same time?

I used to put a Prelude 3 between us. It was small enough to fit. We both had incredible orgasms that way. Now they make WeVibe -- how does that work?

I love my Hitachi. It is my favorite, only ahead of the rabbits. The Hitachi is top of the line in vibes and every woman (men also) should have one. They are also great for sore muscles.

Ms.l loves hers

A platonic friend has one and absolutely swears by it. One funny story is that the rounded white end of the wand was blue in appearance. The reason it was blue is because she uses it while wearing her denim jeans and the dye has transferred to the wand. Also can be referred to as Bob (battery operated boyfriend). I think it is one of the favorites of the ladies.

They're awesome, but beware of fakes, especially on eBay. Here's a link to a good article on how to spot a fake. The fakes are of lower quality and not nearly as powerful. http://hitachimagic.com/identifying-a-real-hitachi-wand-over-a-fake-massager/

BOBs are for wusses. Real women use Hitachi Magic Wands which plug into an electrical outlet. 😃

BOBs are for wusses. Real women use Hitachi Magic Wands which plug into an electrical outlet. 😃

Try one of the Wand Essentials rechargeable wands. All the fun, less tangle, more choices m

I have both the plug in and the 8 speed / 8 program WE.

@jds4med But are they as strong as the plugged-in vibes?

Yes, and have identical geometry and much more utility.

Like said Switchablesusie a vast majority of women only achieve orgasm with clitoral stimulation wich makes a "pure vaginal orgasm" as exotic as obtaining an orgasm by nipples stimulation or rectal penetration only ( but off course the brain is our leading sexual organ so who knows?)

What is the Big wand Vibe that you see alot in porn that REALLY gets the women off? I have to get one of those for the wife 😃

Hitachi Magic Wand I suppose , it exist lot of attachements, 2-3 belts to hold it on the vulva.