Do you tell your spouse when you masturbate?

Nope ,Never ever while I was married to my ex. We had 2 children I can say my ex never said no to having sex but at times was just that very very rarely started it or asked for it . Toys were totally disgusting ,so once the children into University and set that was it we both realized that we were going into diff.directions. She knew I did it almost every day but it was a out of sight/out of mind thing .

If she knew now what I was into and also being BI etc. I would be Damned to HELL and would be totally disgusted at my lifestyle.I can say at least never started (aside masturbation) any of my fetishes until separated/divorced. Do not believe in CHEATING your mate what ever situation .

Sometimes I do it beside her, sometimes she isn't around. I get the feeling she'd rather not know.

I told my boyfriend when I did it. It turned him on. I also always told my girlfriend when I did it. She liked to try and plan on walking in on me.

Yes. My wife has requested that I report my ejaculations to her

I always do. There is no reason to hide. If she likes she Can play with me or watch me.

No, never, although I'm sure she probably suspects that I do masturbate sometimes.

I have been married 46 years and would never tell her. It would offend her. She’s very vanilla and would not understand. It’s lites out covers up when we had sex. I think it actually goes to the how do I get what I desire and still stay within, the religious norms of our time.

I was taught it was wrong to masturbate, but feel it is a better alternative to cheating

Cheating ISN'T something you do TO someone.

Cheating is something you do FOR YOURSELF when you don't get what you want at home.

Basically, cheating is the fault of the person not responding to their spouse's desire for sex.

If I'm home alone.....Married 10+ years with two children at home.....If I've got place to myself and I think she is on her way, you bet I do. Just to let hr know to take her time so I can finish up😃

99% of the time, I'm masturbating to a video of her.....Heart porn....I think it really flatters her that do, really masturbate to her😃

I like to masturbate in front of my partner. Sometimes, he will "walk in on me" and pretend he didn't know I was doing it, I get a thrill out of this.

Yes I do!

My wife and I watch each other masturbate. Occasionally that's our foreplay. Then, sometimes we go all the way and watch each other cum. This is a nice part of our sex lives; this and mutual masturbation. We try to look for innovative ways to spice up our sex play.

My wife likes me to rub my cock on her nipples. this usually only lasts a short time before I have an overwhelming need to ejaculate. She encourages me to jerk off and shoot my cream on her breasts.

Our mutual masturbation goes way beyond just conventional hand jobs. We consider it fun to make up new games to supplement our regular intercourse. If we're fucking doggie style, my wife will sometimes diddle her clitoris to cum simultaneously with me. This is really nice if we're doing it standing up in front of the bathroom mirror.

I don't tell my wife that I masturbate every day. We normally have vaginal sex several times a week and she gives me an enema twice a week and she is satisfied with that. She doesn't know that I jerk off every day of the week.

Communication is the key in any type of relation. I usually tell my partner that I masturbated if I am asked or sometimes I invite her just to watch is she is in the mood. Vice versa sometimes I ask her if she masturbated or she is directly telling me which I find very intimate and erotic.

No,I don't and I don't expect her to tell me when she does.We have watched each other masturbate many times .

Why would I or anyone for that matter? I don't believe it's often a planned event.

My fiancé and I always tell each other when we do. She loves hearing me masturbate or watching so when I’m on a trip she’ll take part . Always wants a picture too. I love do the same.

To add ..100% of the time I’m masturbating. It’s caused by her teasing me ??. We keep each other’s sex bucket full.

No.

Most of the time if I masterbate, it's because I'm not getting enough sex. If I tell her I need to spank it, then she gets all "sorry" and guilty acting for not fulfilling her "wifely duties " and will offer up a bj. Which I do want, but not as a "pity piece". So I just do my thing when I need to and that's that.

Certainly not,nor would I expect her to .

My spouse disapproves of me "depleting my batteries" when she's around, so she expects me to tell her of my sexual needs instead ("this", pointing to my penis, "goes there", pointing to her vagina, "not there", pointing to my hand).

I do what I want if we are not together. We have even purchased a fake vagina for a better experience.

I do sometimes or if she asks not a big deal for her.

LEX ...

Sounds like your wife likes sex and wants to please you .. and I assume you her..

Communicate more masturbate less... Try the five love languages. We are always asking how each other’s sex bucket is .. if I say 65-70% she knows I could use some loving .. and vice versa.

All IMHO..

I work a lot and we got little kids, so sex gets put on the back burner a lot of times. And like pecan said, she doesnt want me "depleting the batteries " either.

Top it off with masterbating is just plain fun. I enjoy doing it.

I didnt mean to come off as complaining, just explaining.

I masturbate at least once a day. I don't tell my wife since most of the time she is at work. If she is at home and asks me what I am doing i will tell her and ask for some help.

Never. We have worked some manual stimulation of her vagina into our sex life over the years to the point that she is pretty comfortable masturbating in front of me. Sometimes, it's nice to have that option for when we want to mess around, but don't want the kids or house guests to hear the bed squeaking.

But she has never seen me masturbate, on accident or by design. Nor has she ever asked me about it. I'm sure she suspects it. Considering we went through a point in our marriage when we didn't have any sex for a few years, she would have to expect something, right?

We are fairly open about our habits. She knows I do it a lot and sometimes we talk about it (we are often apart, so it can be a subject of a phone conversation and occasionally leads to a hot and steamy call) Occasionally I will do it when we are together in bed, if we don't want penetration and she enjoys watching and learning techniques to use on me later. It works the other way round too.

I do not make a point of telling him unless I want "some help."

I don't tell him when I brush my teeth either.

Only if it was in some way exceptional or if I want to turn him on. Occasionally if I find a piece of porn I think is good I’ll send the link to him with the note ‘I rubbed one out to this’ or similar.

Only with my ex-wife about 10-15 years ago. She wanted me to tell her every time so she could help me do it or at least watch me as I did. She said she wanted to share all of my sexuality and not miss anything.

Eric

I tell her, but only do it if I am home and she's working. She has told me many times there is no need to masterbate when we are together, just tell her I need her now!

Actually, it's an unspoken issue with us. We both have different tastes as I am a morning person and she is an afternoon person when it comes to our masturbation preferences. It's not a secret thing because we all know that everyone masturbates at some time, let's face it, a bit of "alone" time isn't a bad thing. Sometimes when I am really involved in something during the day, she will retreat to the bedroom and close the door for a "session" with our favorite vibrator. I can hear the buzz and her heavy breathing when she's about to climax. For myself, I "entertain" before she gets up as she likes to sleep later. She's walked in on me a few times and just said, "finish what you're doing, I'll catch up with you later". I acknowledge her times alone saying "You look refreshed!" There have been many times when we will ask each other, "do you want some help with that?" and it has led to some really satisfying sex!