Well I am not the best in writing or explaining myself exact words (due to an accident Front Left Lobe Brain) but going to try.I am a Bi-sexual Male have been since (I figure) 9-10 yrs old. First started and remembered doing the doctor with the girl next door ,but also did it with the boy next door also.I can remember at age 11 & 12 sleeping over at a certain friends house and learning different types of sex with each other ( oral sex,anal sex masturbation)We were best friends through out High School and kept having sex with each other without knowledge of others.I also went out with Girls,had girlfriends ,had sex with those girlfriends ,enjoyed being with Woman and Men.
Now in my 20's I would have come together with a Male or Female whoever I met that we had the same likes in sports,entertainment,sex,different opinions etc.I found a Female ,my wife (married she had 2 children 4,& 6yrs.) Yes I still was/had Bi-sexual feelings but did not cheat on my wife while married .we lived together for 5 years then married for 23 years. Became divorced and now I am single and looking for a Mate/Partner . Yes a Male OR a Female and Yes to enjoy one another's company including sex (this time being totally honest up front of my sexual likes ie: submissive,oral giving,anal receiving ,Water Sports,Spanking ,Enema(s). Again as long as we also have many other likes aside from sex .
Now Maybe I am seeing or not explaining myself right but I am Not Gay because I am not Just looking for a Male yet I could very easily spend the rest of my life with a Male providing we got along ,enjoyed each other sexually etc. NOT into Bar scene .
Yet the same could easily work if I was too find a nice Woman with same likes/dislikes,enjoyed each others company,enjoyed each other sexually also .
Am I asking for my cake and eat it too ,I do not think so .I am looking for someone Male or Female that I can enjoy the rest of my life left,enjoy it with laughter,dinners,daily routine.