Possible First Time Threesome, with his Wife!

I hope I'm allowed to post this here...

I am a semi-new submissive who has been playing mainly with two Doms. I suppose they are play partners since both are married and in open marriages. Guy #1 was mentoring me online until we realized how close we live together. we've since played together many times, we are friends as he already has a sub and sees her once in awhile as she lives out of town., his wife is vanilla.

Guy #2 is the one that is most Domly toward me when we are together. I have agreed to allow him to be my Dom when we're together and he's taught me so much. This is the Dom whose wife is kinky too, but they aren't with each other too much. She seeks other men out for playing with her who has the same personal kink as she does.

Here's my dilemma and it's making me all kinds of nervous and uptight....we are all going to a munch together tomorrow. they are traveling down this way to attend and i'm, driving one town up. Anyway, I always spend the night with him and he expects me to tomorrow as well. What if she makes a move on me?????? She's is bi-sexual and I'm not, plus it's going to be weird sharing a bed with his WIFE! This is what he wants and I want to please him but this is new territory for me. does anyone out there have any words of wisdom so that i can handle this graciously? I've never been with a woman but I almost was once. Yikes, i'm scared!

Thanks,

the chicken from georgia

Well, 'chicken from georgia', I'm 76 these days and I'm sorry for ALL of the opportunities that I have missed out on. I know that you said that the wife is bisexual and you have thought about it before and it didn't happen but you girls know what you like and I feel that you might appreciate what the other knows and the tenderness that you girls can be. It's quite exciting allowing someone into your life and trusting them. As a klismo over most of my life I'm glad and thankful for this site that I've come out of the closet. I told my Dr about my klismo activities and his advice was "as my enemas weren't hurting me and give me pleasure and I'm not hurting anyone else, GO FOR IT" 😃 SO, DR 333's advice.....Go for it. regards, irrigator333

With no experience in these matters @Violet I'm in no position to offer advice, but I'm sure I'm not the only one who would like to see an update.

Above all, trust the voice inside you and be safe.

I have no first hand experience in this situation, but I'm happy to share an idea.

(I assume there is no concern for personal safety here, only a concern for emotional comfort. )

Explain your position to your Dom just as you have explained it here. Be honest and clear about your desire to be with him and your hesitation with his wife being included. Don't make this too long or wordy, he will understand your point of view very quickly. After all, he knows too this is a first for the theee of you. End your explanation with the acknowledgement that you look forward to being with him, you want to please him, and you trust him to take care of you.

The ball is in his court to make the right decisions throughout the weekend. He miight make a few choices that you would not have, either by mistake or on purpose. No mater what happens, you will learn quite alot about him by how he handles this. You might also learn something about yourself if you are asked to be in situations that you would not have chosen in your own.

Enjoy life, and have fun exploring its many possibilities.

And please please please keep us posted on your adventures.

-Hookajoe

@Violet , what happened? I hope that it all came about in a way that made you feel comfortable and in a way that you were happy.