Who else is obsessed with spanking?

I'm obsessed with being spanked hard with a leather strap... I also love the ritualistic behavior that precedes it... Any thoughts on this? Anyone else have the same obsession?

I like being spanked. And fantasize sometimes about getting it in public. I've fantasized about getting it otk, about getting it with a paddle, and with a strap.

Obsessed is a good way to describe my interest. I love sucking cock, rimming a butt deep and the joys of anal sex both ways. But nothing gets me hard faster than the thought of being spanked hard... I do like to give it out too but very happy to be on the receiving end, preferably with a wide leather belt.

-dan

Please read my profile- I love to be spanked. I have no idea of how or when it began, but I used to ask mom to spank me, instead of grounding me, even in high school. Luckily, i have friends who like it, as well as my husband!

Hi gabistillgetsit, like you I am not entirely sure why I am so obsessed with spanking! Being born in 1957 I, like most of my generation, received spankings and paddlings; but whether this accounts for my interest I don't know. It is entirely possible that even if I had not been spanked I might still have had a fascination with spanking! All one can say for certain is that the obsession is there!

As a child of the mid 1940's and early 1950's is when the actual spankings started. I am the baby I have two older brothers. Dad left when I was borne . He shared custody with my mom so he was around. Mom was the main spanker but also had help from my aunt {her sister} and uncle. Mom was a piano teacher so she used her oval oak hair brush to spank us with. My aunt and uncle used their hands. When dad re-married my step mom used her hand as well as an oval oak hair brush. When mom re-married my step dad used his hand and other times a paddle and sometimes a belt. We were hand fulls so not a week went by when one or two of us were being spanked. All spankings were on the bare bottom which was very embarrassing. Every spanking I deserved and some I didn't deserve I learned from. Since my wife isn't strong enough any more I have to do a self spank when I have either been naughty or need stress relief using a hard rubber spatula with holes in it. {Rubs thinking about it}. So you see I am obsessed with spanking.Being a switch I spank a few special friends when they need it.

Ihave a really serious obsession with being spanked. I need for someone to remove her shoe, pull down my pants, put me across her knees, and whack my bare butt repeatedly, until she gets tired.

I was not particularly obsessed with any instrument, I liked them all. A few years ago one of my spankers made me take the leather strap while standing in front of him facing to his left. I had to take 100 strokes over some very thin and tight triathlon shorts, he then repeated the 100 strokes using 5 different paddles, twenty licks each. He then pulled my shorts down and made, me bend slightly so he could get to to sit spot (the gluteal crease). God that was hell-of-a strapping and I had to remain in perfect position or he would not count that stroke and give me two extra at the end for each time I moved, I probably received about 140 strokes over all. He was swinging almost full force and for the extra probably was full force. I was then made to kiss the strap and one of his body parts to show respect to the strap and to the one who used it so expertly on my ass.From then on I have loved the strap and that one in particular.

He has added a painful twist to his application of the strap. When we have finished a very long spanking with multiple instruments he will lightly kick and not so lightly spank my balls until I cum.

We have discusses my love/hate relationship with being spanked after I have cum, so now I have to bend in front of him and take a final 100 from my favorite lover, the strap when it inflicts nothing but pain. I then have to kiss the strap up and down both sides and do more than kiss his above mentioned body part.

Rob

I am also a bit obbessed with spanking have been bare bottom OTK and very soundly spanked with leather strap brush and cane made for OTK! SIT Spots are given alot of attention!

it has me kicking wriggling and yelling i tend to move a lot when spanked put my hands in the way ect and generaly resit a sound disiplinary spanking sometimes i have little accidents on my spankers lap due to all my wriggling ect how i am disiplined for lossing control is another story!!

Yes, my pleasure is spanking or caning a deserving bottom...

ME! Since puberty. The harder the better, and restrained my my wife! I get spanked for discipline and arousal.45 years ago I bought a paddle for my girlfriend to spank me, we were very soon married, 45 years ago & still getting spanked. Even when it is for no reason, " I am going to spank you because I can and because I want to"!

I began to enjoy my bare bottom whippings when I was young and still at 32 I am whipped with a belt and always masturbate afterwards

I want to be spanked so hard I can't sit, and maybe even cry, but I haven't found anyone who can do that for me. I'm tiny, so every guy I play with is scared of hurting me ?

Shame we arent nearer, id oblige !

I've been obsessed with being spanked since I was in high school. Always with a doubled up leather strap, sometimes, so hard I scream out loud, beg for that person to stop or genuinely cry. I want to be spanked so hard I can't sit for a week- I think I also like the loss of control, the feeling of being controlled/dominated, the sheer terror/excitement when I know I'm about to get spanked, and the humilitation that goes with it...especially being made to strip naked, bend over and spread my legs, with my arms tied up for the whipping...

I am definitely obsessed with being paddled on my bare butt, loved getting swats in high school although not on my bare butt, I am 62 now but can vividly remember when I was 14 or so getting a bare bottom paddling from my aunt. Love the burning sensation and the sound of the paddle on my bare ass also love the command to remove your pants and underwear and bent over

Yes, my pleasure is spanking or caning a deserving bottom...

What makes a bottom deserving of a spanking? ?

I am not a fan of spanking, but my wife is possessed for sure. She uses every little infraction to spank me. She punishes me on average of 3 times a week. It can be for coming home 2 minutes late from work, to not doing a specific chore properly. She definitely believes in corporal punishment and I believe she goes out of her way to find ways to use it. They range from normal to sever where my bottom can have white spots from repeated contact in the same place.

My dad used to take me to his shop/woodshed when I deserved a "really good whuppin' on your bare ass, young man".

My GF and I are obsessed with spanking, and the most extreme examples of this are trips to my GF's sister's house. The sister and her husband own several acres of land and the husband has a shop/woodshed and a small barn on the property. They allow me to leave my father's old razor strop hanging on the wall of the woodshed, right next to the razor strop that belonged to my GF's (and, obviously therefore her sister's) father, from whom the land was inherited.

Having my GF give me an old fashioned whuppin' (like my dad used to) is my favorite fantasy/obsession. My GF is very petite, but physically fit... she has no problem adminstering a whuppin' that would've make dad proud.

My GF is very petite, but physically fit... she has no problem adminstering a whuppin' that would make dad proud.

You are a lucky man....

I'm completely obsessed with spanking, mainly school paddlings. I continue my quest to find the perfect partner... a girl that is physically able and doesn't lose a bit of sleep about "wearing my ass out." Until them, I keep ads posted on craigslist for girls to paddle me. Its hit and miss but ever now and then I luck up.

I am not a fan of spanking, but my wife is possessed for sure. She uses every little infraction to spank me.

Well you must be a fan in some way or another, even subliminally, because no offence, but between grown-ups you cannot keep on physically punishing someone for extended periods of time without their acquiesce on some level. There must be some sort of benefit in it for you, even if only derivatively by for instance being a prelude to sex or some other activity that you (or both) enjoy.

Perhaps you also don't mind, but even so, there has to be some kind of compensation in it for you.

Well you must be a fan in some way or another, even subliminally, because no offence, ....

I am a fan of the relationship I share with my loving wife. Living in an FLR is challenging at times especially being a type A personality and an executive at a large company. We agreed when we were dating that this lifestyle would keep me grounded, which has proven to be true. At home I am a completely different person catering to my beautiful wife. She is my best friend and we love each other deeply. Living is a FLR is challenging and while I am not a fan of all aspects, it is what makes us happy and deeply in love.

I also obsess about spanking, big time. My focus is largely and almost exclusively on the razor strap or the so-called school strap. My other choices have rarely included a wooden paddle and the human hand. I was a bottom for many years, but for the last many years like going either way. Need practice applying the razor strap effectively, not a lot of male butt available to practice on.

For sure there's a big time sexual component in this for me. I've been obsessed essentially all my life, since maybe age 5 or 6. Really like a "bad boy" and "strict dad" scenario, mild role play, again either as a bottom or a top. An ideal spanking partner is a guy, interested in switching as I am, for long-term experimentation and fun.

I wouldn’t say I was obsessed but I do appreciate a good snd spanking and the strap or belt is just one of my favs....that ritual before hand like scolding and being told to bee bare ass....mmmmmmmm

I have asked myself this question many times; What is so appealing about baring a butt, placing the person across your lap and spanking them as "needed?" I am certain the answer could fill up a library but for certain this age old practice has an "inner appeal" to both the spanker and the spankee! Personally and in general, among adults I am inclined to view this appeal as a form of bonding and the pursuit of a more trusted and intimate relationship/friendship. Of course there are a multitude of other reasons and such but nonetheless spanking a bared butt either as the giver or the recipient it is "appealing" to even be an observer. Think about that,,,,,,,

FYI, this weekend is the Texas All State Spanking Party. They near filled their hotel with participants.

Check out the web site for the Texas Spanking Party, sounds like it’s well organized and should be lots of fun.

I too am obsessed with spanking. I don't really know why. At some point in my life, I eroticized spanking. God knows why. I hated the spankings I got as a kid!

Obsessed? I am not certain about that but I can say that "something" profoundly happens when you "connect" with a person and one of you either give or receive a spanking from the other & emotional "fireworks" go off within both of you!

Strangely, when you were a youngster a spanking was a form of punishment which you hated but later on in life a spanking becomes a very desired and pleasurable experience. Quite a bit to think about fro sure! I say why bother? For now simply take down your pants and undies and across my lap you go. Or would you rather I take a turn across yours?

Lets enjoy this age old practice of spanking a bared bottom while we can................

Definitely not an obsession, BUT, I might initiate that I might deserve one if I did something wrong during a foreplay scene with another person---with limits