Why women are attracted to women

I have my special little friend because she is someone I need in my life. While I love my husband, yes he treats me like a little queen, he loves his football, lives and dies for golf, baseball and is in the manly things men do.

So???

I have my special little friend. I say little because there is 8 inches of height between us, me 5'10", her only 5'2", but we are still a cute couple. She is the dom, yes I love it, she spanks my bare ass, likes to keep me naked and just the other day gave me her first enema. We love to cook, never met a thrift store we didn't like and can she make me ever squall between the sheets.

I leave her, return home and become a wife and a granny. Such as is life.

I was bi, but now lesbian that is living with another woman who is two years older than me. I was attracted to men at the beginning of my dating age and that lasted for about 10 years, but I found that some men can be boring and others who only want one thing. During that same time I had a few female friends who I found more interesting in conversation, common interests, emotions, desires and just enjoyment. As I got older I even found myself more and more sexually attracted to my own sex which eventually led to me having a couple of relationships with other women until finally one who I am not living with. She is caring, warm, has the same interests and is now my dom as well as my lover. I work with a lot of men and some are very handsome and intelligent, but they just don't turn me on.

I have a boyfriend and we have a very active and very kinky sex life. I also have a best girlfriend with whom I have become sexually involved. We have always been totally open with each other. One day after we have come home from shopping I asked her to give me a shoulder massage because I could feel my muscles all tightened up. I took off my jeans, top and bra and was laying on the bed on my stomach with only bikini panties on. She started to massage me and pretty soon I started to feel all tingly and hot. I could feel my nipples getting hard and my panties getting very wet. I went to turn over to have her stop because I couldn't believe I was getting turned on by another woman. She saw my hard nipples, looked into my eyes and then bent down and kissed me. It went from a tender kiss to our tongues in each other's mouth. She continued to kiss me then moved down to my breasts and started kissing my nipples. I was getting more and more excited and horny. She stopped long enough to take off her skirt, pantyhose and top. We each had on our bikini panties and that was it. we kept going over each other's body and pretty soon helped each other out of our panties. I was even more stunned when I realized I was starting to have an orgasm. She sensed it and went down on me. I've had boys go down on my but that was totally different. She really knew what she was doing and brought me to a mind blowing orgasm. I then went down on her...had obviously never done it but it was perfectly natural. We spent the afternoon and early evening having sex and then fell asleep, exhausted. Several days later she was over at my place and we started kissing with our clothes on. I didn't know then but my boyfriend had come in and saw us. He confronted me about it and I admitted it. Rather than go nuts he told me what a turn on it was and suggested we all get together. Well, that started our little threesome which has turned out to be the source of some mind blowing sex. I never thought I could cum as many times in a night as I have, from him and her.

Yep, the female body, mannerisms, sexuality, the way we carry ourselves... All contribute to my bisexuality. I am not a label person. But simply put - I love women, I love men. For different reasons, for the same reasons. Whatever! Totally open to love, sex, and relationships with any/all sexes. It's about the person and connection and sexual chemistry for me. But I have to say, a woman's body can turn me on just passing on the street. Men don't do that for me. I'm not a muscle loving magazine handsome kind. Attraction to men is more psychological for me. But a woman can stop me dead on the street and distract me from any conversation. Many of my friends are lesbians, I worked for a company run by lesbians for several years. I am very close with an older, married, lesbian woman. We have become dear friends. From the moment I met her, her eyes locked onto me like I was the most beautiful, sexy, smart little thing in the whole world. I felt it from that first moment. Over the year we have talked about that moment. We both admitted to our mutual attraction. We're both in committed relationships. One night at the bar it got intense. She touched my leg, she was drunk, she was begging me to go up to her condo with her. I wanted to SO bad but I insisted to her it was not a good idea. Glad for that, but still having wet dreams about her.

My BF manipulates my body a little better than I can, after 6 years. I'm deeply attracted to women but also find them a little intimidating. I enjoy no strings sex more with women and less with men, but have only ever managed through chaotic and dangerous relationships with women. My experiential circumstance only.

I don't agree that only woman know how to truly make you feel good I've had guys who knew what they were doing/ knew their way around.

But yes the female body is beautiful to hold and play with.

I will say woman are great at rough play, they know what a pussy and nipples can take where as inexperienced guys can be a bit apprehensive with that sort of thing at first. Need some coaching at times.

My gf is physically attracted to women more than to men, however she tells me her experiences of being in a relationship with a female have always been a nightmare because of jealousy and possessiveness issues, just her experience I guess but I wonder if others have similar experiences?

She still loves non-committal sex with bi or bi curious women though, much to my good fortune.

DrPervie while my primary attraction is to men I am sexually attracted to women as well

. I TOTALLY understand what your GF means. I could never be in a LTR with another woman for just those reasons. I struggle with close female friendships for much the same.

I am way out of my league here but the statement, "women know what makes a woman feel good" rings true for me. I have only been here a few days and I tried to let every one know I was pretty inexperienced and unsure of myself. But, immediately I got overly assertive to down right crude, and by my standards cruel messages from guys who wanted to beat me, or take me to the woodshed or stuff something up my ass. It was the women who were helpful and kind and reassuring.

One woman helped me modify my profile to make my simple wants more obvious. Since then the messages I am receiving from males are much softer. So, it seems pretty obvious: women know what makes a woman feel good. Sorry if I am out of line but, I have meet some women here that could get my legs open a lot quicker the many of the men. OMG! that was kind of rude.

I am way out of my league here but the statement, "women know what makes a woman feel good" rings true for me. I have only been here a few days and I tried to let every one know I was pretty inexperienced and unsure of myself. But, immidiatly I got overyly assertive to down right crude, and by my standards crule messages from guys who wanted to beat me, or take me to the woodshed or stuff something up my ass. It was the women who were helpful and kind and reassuring. One woman helped me modify my profile to make my simple wants more obvious. Since then the messages I am receiving from males are much softer. So, it seems pretty obvious: women know what makes a woman feel good. Sorry if I am out of line but, I have meet some women here that could get my legs open a lot quicker the many of the men. OMG! that was kind of rude.

There are zillions of women who haven't the slightest idea about how to elicit a good sexual response in themselves or to make themselves feel good. Sexual feelings or the ability to create sexual feelings in another person is NOT innate. You have to learn it. Some women figure it out using their own bodies and learn as very young girls, some learn in adolescence and some never do.

A man can learn what makes women feel good and do just as good a job eliciting a terrific sexual response in a woman as another woman. Whether a woman or a man turns you on more is a different question.

I guess I don't think as deep as many on here. For me I think women find other women desirable is because we seem to be more accepting of each other even if we do have small flaws or don't have perfect body. The women that I have ever kept company with have been understanding and open minded. The women also realize I am not experienced in every single activity but that I am still young enough to learn those things. AND so far the women I have been with do not brag or tell everyone about me.

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I can enjoy being with a woman because I definitely get off from tribbing. In fact, I feel it takes me half the amount of time to have a clitoral orgasm than it does to have a vaginal one. And I enjoy the clitoral orgasm more. I have gotten off more with tribbing than if someone goes down on me, actually. Much more

Sexual attraction between females is completely normal to me and countless women....and completely normal for our primate cousins the gorillas, chimps and those embodiments of perpetual horniness, the bonobos.

If you could ask a female bonobo what she thinks of sex with males, she might say "Meh" and resume rubbing clits with her female partner. She probably has more sex with females than with males.

Male apes engage in much less same-sex activity than females, which parallels the primal instincts in human beings....women embrace bisexuality more easily than men. Think about same-sex sexual pleasure as a prerogative for most women.

Or think about women as being invited to the entire smorgasbord of sexual possibilities, with many more ways to satiate hunger open to us, some better than others depending on personal preference. Sorry men, mother nature gave you the restricted menu 😜

I am straight but there are a few lovely women I sometimes dream about having a wholesome lesbian fuck with. I get a tingle down south when I think about being in bed with any one of them, our bodies tangled in a tight 69 as we flick our tongues over each other's pussies and writhe like kitties on catnip, losing ourselves in the moment of gentle intimacy with just our feminine softness and musky tanginess filling our senses.

But I get wetter down south when I'm in bed in my man's embrace, his strong arms encircling me, then owning me as he guides my body to receive him and then delivers his cock into my pussy's embrace, filling me with a warm and supple hardness no dildo or tongue can ever match. As he thrusts deep into me hungrily and repeatedly, I lose myself to the forceful yet loving massage of my insides by his raw masculine power.

To sum up, his meat and potatoes are enough to sustain me although sometimes I get off thinking about slurping raw oysters or biting into a pink macaron….

Enough rambling from me....I'm off to satisfy my hunger and do bonobo-inspired activities.

Felt so natural with my bff when we first "went beyond cuddling" during sleepovers. But I was also always very intrigued by boys. So it's always been an attraction to both.

@Phoenix7, you have a Magic way with words. I was sorry to reach the end of that post.

I grew up and got married to a man, I have 2 daughters and everything was good but about 10 years ago I realized I like women more and more so about 3 years ago we separated and I have a girlfriend now, she is much younger then me. What I like about other women is the knowledge about how certain things, that only we women can feel will feel, like, when I insert a vibrator into my girlfriend I know exactly what she feels that moment and that turns me on

I also like cute tummies and butts so whenever I am in the swim hall and take showers after, of course I, sorry, we take good looks around😉

I grew up and got married to a man, I have 2 daughters and everything was good but about 10 years ago I realized I like women more and more so about 3 years ago we separated and I have a girlfriend now, she is much younger then me. What I like about other women is the knowledge about how certain things, that only we women can feel will feel, like, when I insert a vibrator into my girlfriend I know exactly what she feels that moment and that turns me on

I also like cute tummies and butts so whenever I am in the swim hall and take showers after, of course I, sorry, we take good looks around😉

Thanks for this readable and also nice comment !!

Sometimes it will happened, that the true " talent " was for long time be hidden !! - and the people want to be true about this !!

But when these barriers are broken, it will be a successful experience, to try sexual things with like minded people in the same gender !!

Be happy of this experience and enjoy your " new life " !! - every day and with all the consequences !!

@FrauDoktor70

I also like cute tummies and butts so whenever I am in the swim hall and take showers after, of course I, sorry, we take good looks around

Oh yes, I agree! Memories from high school swim team!

As someone who’s been with both, there’s just something different about a woman’s body. Almost like a it’s more delicate, and you caress her soft smooth skin that you may not necessarily would with a man. Also, with a penis, what you see is kinda what you get, but with a vagina, you have to spread it open to see the full picture.

Also a tummy person, seeing the curved waist and navel up close, and the little goosebumps on her stomach is very cute. Having played volleyball throughout high school and college, I’ve definitely seen my fair share as well 😉

I love our soft curves as well plus our scent. I find other women's scent very arousing, Soft skin touching mine, exciting sex sounds, the way our tougs entwine, How i am so skilfully touched. SO much better being with another woman.

For me its both body and mind

woman think and act differently then males

and feel differently

For me its both body and mind

woman think and act differently then males

and feel differently

How do you know this? If you haven't had the experience of being both, on what then do you base this?

And if true, how can anyone be sure this isn't based on the process of socialization, whereby expectations of behavior is imprinted on newly-borns by the various external means of social pressure?

In other words: would an incorrectly categorized male, growing up believing himself to be a female, really and inevitably display male characteristics? Or would that person be indistinguishable in thought and manner and actions from a female? And the other way around as well of course ...

In other words: would an incorrectly categorized male, growing up believing himself to be a female, really and inevitably display male characteristics? Or would that person be indistinguishable in thought and manner and actions from a female? And the other way around as well of course ...

Well from the perspective of a trans woman, who is in relationships with other trans women I've seen plenty of women raised as men who have very feminine behavior.

Granted how much of that is innate, societal, or even hormonal needs more research, but the idea that woman of all kinds behave differently then cis men on avrage is definitely a thing I have observed.

While I am also in a relationship with a lovely soft masculine trans man, I have a small refrance pool for that experience so I am uncomfortable speaking from that perspective.

How do you know this? If you haven't had the experience of being both, on what then do you base this?...

There are significant differences in brain structure between men and women. I think that’s sufficient to suggest a difference in they way they think.

https://stanmed.stanford.edu/how-mens-and-womens-brains-are-different/

There are significant differences in brain structure between men and women. I think that’s sufficient to suggest a difference in they way they think.

Yes @Nurse_Phillips that is right, my husband's brain is simple and has got just 3 wires, to his eyes, to his hands and to his penis. haha

There are significant differences in brain structure between men and women. I think that’s sufficient to suggest a difference in they way they think.

Just because scientists can now conduct very minute and careful measuring of things/the brain, it does not necessarily follow that they can deduce how things feel or how people think they should act and conduct themselves.

There is no proven and accurate method yet devised that can allow the measuring of emotions and feelings except through self-reporting.

Another point: surely there are enough cases of cats/dogs or other animal pairs being raised and socialized as the other one, to make measurements alone less than deterministic in how people behave and feel.

You can raise a cat and a dog together but you won’t turn the dog into a cat. They’re still going to react and process stimuli differently as their brains are different.

A chimpanzee may act like a human, but it isn’t one.

We are biological machines and we act as our hardware dictates. You can override that to a degree with programming but you can never entirely change it.

For example: you can tweak the hell out of a Subaru but it’s never going to be a Porsche.

Since this thread is already derailed. I raise chickens (all hens) and one of them decided to start crowing. She crows very good, you would never know she was a she. They do not seem to be attractive to other hens. In fact, they fight quite often. A rooster would solve that problem, however, the neighbors might not like to hear him at 5:00 in the morning.

I play with a woman, without my boyfriend about once a year.

With my boyfriend I’m completely subservient. With a woman I’m in control.

Ever once in awhile I have a desire to eat pussy and lick a nice asshole.

All the tricks and toys my D/daddy does to me, I use on a woman.

I then come home and tell my boyfriend blow by blow what I did. It usually ends up with humiliation, standing in the corner, and a painful spanking.

It so turns me on.

I am not a bi-woman so can not answer the topic, nor do I have any sexual interest in women.

I do agree with, and support the view of @Nurse_Phillips and @Amethyst men and women are wired differently. No scientific study or need to experience being male. In many instances it is just plain clear.