Are older men more interested in being Bisexual

As men get older and have ED, their ability to have sex diminishes, and the options for any kind of sexual activity with a woman is almost nonexistent. So what they turn to is meeting up with men and giving oral or in some cases, receiving anal.

Watching a guy ejaculate is also rewarding due to it reminding them of when they used to be able to do that.

I agree with CJ1999

The Playboy channel, which shows plenty of intercourse, NEVER EVER shows a man ejaculating. In fact, they fade to black just before he ejaculates even if he is masturbating the last few seconds before he cums, while the women are always heard having screaming orgasms. Since The Playboy channel is primarily watched by men (we watch it sometimes because the women are just gorgeous specimens) if men wanted to see other men ejaculate, they would certainly not fade out in the last ten seconds of the video.

@CJ1999 Sorry I just don’t buy this at all. Having ED or never having an erection doesn’t make men desire cock. Heterosexual men don’t want dicks... ever!

And no, the only guy I want to watch ejaculate is myself. I could care less seeing it anywhere else.

Also, men can have an orgasm WITHOUT an erection. Sexual activity with a woman doesn’t end just because erections do.

Did you READ the title the post …….. and what the guys asked?

ARE OLDER MEN MORE INTERESTED IN BEING BISEXUAL !!!!!!!!

AND ……. its in Bisexual page. If you don't agree with what's said ……. why are you cruising a Bi page?

I am sick of someone lecturing others on here like they are the authority on human behavior.

There is a difference between straight men getting older and FANTASIZING about homosexual acts and straight men getting older and ACTING on and PERFORMING the same homosexual acts.

There is a difference between straight men getting older and FANTASIZING about homosexual acts and straight men getting older and ACTING on and PERFORMING the same homosexual acts.

no no no

He states "I have always been BI curious, but more and more I want to be a sissy cock sucker"

He says ……. I want to be, not just fantasize

The original poster stated

I have always been BI curious, but more and more I want to be a sissy cock sucker. Do other men have this fantasy much more often in older age?

There was more to it than what you quoted. He asks about other men.

I simply added that there is a difference between fantasizing about it and doing it and some men do it while other just fantasize about it.

Straight hetero people may fantasize about it.

Bisexual people will do it.

The Playboy channel, which shows plenty of intercourse, NEVER EVER shows a man ejaculating.

I'm guessing that the decision to exclude male ejaculation is based on the following.

The ratings system was developed informally by the adult entertainment industry and has become an integral part of how pornographic movies are edited for specific audiences.

Single-X-rated movies feature nudity, long-range or panoramic and medium-range camera shots, simulated sex and sex between women. Double-X-rated movies show intercourse, oral sex and close-up shots. Triple-X-rated movies feature anal sex and visible ejaculation.

Source: http://www.latimes.com/la-fi-adelphia2feb02-story.html

Playboy channel shows real and close up photos of intercourse. 15-20 years ago some was at a distance but not anymore.

I was reporting what I had been told chatting with several guys.

I don't need a fucking lecture from you CJ1999 on doing it right or not !!!!

@Real_American I wasn’t lecturing, I was simply disagreeing with your conclusion after you talked to several men.

The ‘you’ in my ‘doing it wrong’ statement wasn’t meaning YOU specifically, it was generic. I could/should have worded it like “If a man can only please a woman with an erect penis, he is doing it wrong.” And given that your statement was

As men get older and have ED, their ability to have sex diminishes, and the options for any kind of sexual activity with a woman is almost nonexistent.

I stand by mine. If a man has no erection, he can’t have ANY kind of sexual activity with women? Thats ridiculous. Now if you were TOLD this by these men, that they felt their lack of erection caused them to have NO options/ability to have sex with women, then my disagreement is with them and not you.

My point was, that a MF couple can have lots of fun, very satisfying sex, with orgasms for both parties, WITHOUT an erect penis.

Did you READ the title the post …….. and what the guys asked.

ARE OLDER MEN MORE INTERESTED IN BEING BISEXUAL !!!!!!!!

AND ……. its in Bisexual page. If you don't agree with what's said ……. why are you cruising a Bi page?

I am sick of someone lecturing others on here like they are the authority on human behavior

@Real_American I was not replying to the OP, I was replying to your post, something that is allowed on this board. You (generic you) don’t have to agree with what's said to post on anything; we are allowed to have differing opinions. You voiced yours based on some interactions with others, and I disagreed.

Granted, I did use a few extra exclamatory punctuation marks, due to what I felt was the incredulous nature of what you concluded. Maybe that went too far, but it was not meant to offend.

I think older men start looking at all of their options as they become less attractive to and there is less of a "pool" of available women. Whatever is out there will work! The guys still want to get off - fewer women looking, more men wanting the same....

Maybe it's easier to find a guy to have FWB sex than a woman. For me, it's just Lefty!

I think if sex needed to stop because a man could not get hard any more, it is forgetting that sexual activity is not just fucking. I do not think men are just living dildos on legs. I think that if men think they are, they have just not learned anything about using their fingers, tongue, lips and they are not good lovers.

Playboy channel shows real and close up photos of intercourse. 15-20 years ago some was at a distance but not anymore.

Double-X-rated movies show intercourse, oral sex and close-up shots.

Triple-X-rated movies feature anal sex and visible ejaculation.

I don't watch the Playboy channel, but it seems clear from your posts where they draw the line.

I have tried to give a friend a blow job when he was drunk, he stopped me, as he is straight, (when I was married about 35 years ago). And had received anal intercourse with my brother in me as teenagers. Happily married for 40+ years, Still think of BI sex, and IMO a hard penis is much more attractive than a vigina !

I can only speak for myself but I say in my personal experience my answer is no. I have never been bi curious before and so far have gotten no closer to being so as I get older. Guys have always been unattractive to me in a sexual way.

I can recognize when a guy has a good physique and all (usually in workout stuff online) but that is more of a "This guy is in better shape than me, how can he help me switch up my routine for better results.

I am in good shape now but wouldn't mind getting back into better shape. Sexual attraction is never a part of this.

In porn vids or pictures and stuff if something is a big turn on were the main focus is on a guy it is only a turn on because I would like to be in his situation. I don't want to touch or to be touched by another man at all.

I think these latest few posts have gotten away from the question that initiated the discussion and become somewhat irrelevant...off topic. Individual sexuality is a spectrum and is not fixed over time. I think age has an effect on most individuals and is different for everyone. As I have aged I have changed my views and feeling independent of the erectile function of my penis. Certainly as I reached my 70s my physical abilities have changed but have not gone away. I'm not really sure why I have started to change my thinking of my place on the male/female spectrum, but it has changed. I don't know how I would act on it if the situation arose, but I'm certain that I am less inhibited about it than I have been in the past. I'm also sure that its neither good nor bad, it just is. It has nothing to do with my capacity to get an erection, still happens, and I take advantage of a having hard penis when I can, what I think about or who I'm doing it with is for them and I and no one else. I'm not going to judge anyone on who or what they are attracted towards.

My answer to the asked question is, "yes some men are as they age, but not everyone."

I know this was a question for men but I have to completely agree with Amethyst here.

If I loved my partner and he was unable to no longer get an erection I would not think our sex life was over nor would I find him any less attractive.

Not only would he still be able to pleasure me in so many other ways, as Amethyst and CJ stated but I would still want to pleasure him too. So what if he no longer woke up saluting. There is much much more to a satisfying relationship.

I am an older man and find that I am enjoying more sexual options that include being with men. I have started to live more of a gay life than straight although I have always had an attraction to both. I think my most memorable bi experiences have come when I have been with another MF couple and the man is willing to enjoy another man as well.

No way.

I haven't seen any wood in 15 years or more but I dream about having a desiring and desirable female on the table in front of me while I'm sitting there facing her wonderfully spread pussy which I'm about to explore completely. Ending up with her shaking like a dying fly after an hour or so. That would be breakfast and lunch and supper and all the hours in between if she could stand it. I certainly do not dream about having any other men in that picture. Of course it would be nice if she wanted to make my penis the object of her affection too but in my nearly 80 years on this planet I have only met one of those. She was 15 and it was more for her pleasure than mine. She loved watching it shoot and looking at my face while she did it. I certainly wasn't going to stop her but she was not trying to find out how to make it feel good or better for me which IS what I was doing while having her pussy for lunch.

I don't know that I'm more interested in being bisexual at 74. I've always had same-sex urges, from a young age. I'm married and have children, and while my wife's sex drive went away a long time ago, I still feel my sexuality. The process takes longer but I can still have erections and orgasms. I'm always amazed how many men I meet have similar situations and feelings. Men are more accessible and a lot less complicated with less potential to make life difficult than woman. I have a friend my age who gives wonderful massages with very happy endings, and I reciprocate sometimes. In some ways, it's like finally being able to do the things I really wanted to do when I was a youth but was too afraid. Those sessions are times of great inner peace and connection. Accepting my bisexuality has made these remaining years of my life times of contentment.

I am 65 sexually active and have no interest in anything bisexual.

I don't know that otherwise straight older men are more INTERESTED in being bisexual as much as they are WILLING to be bisexual if they can't find a female sex partner.

Many men will fuck anything that has a hole.

@SwitchableSusie (small correction but highly significant) Many men with fuck anything that has a moist hole.

@SwitchableSusie (small correction but highly significant) Many men with fuck anything that has a moist hole.

No, they will squirt in some astroglide and fuck a hole otherwise filled with sand and sawdust.

No, they will squirt in some astroglide and fuck a hole otherwise filled with sand and sawdust.

And all these years I thought that was a patriotic slogan I learned in grade school.

Fight for the old cunt

Fight for the old cunt

Fight for the old cunt tree.

Many men will fuck anything that has a hole.

That's why my wife won't let me buy donuts!!

That was a joke - not trying to fool anyone here....

'umm' as Homer Simson once said-"jelly donuts ummmm"

don't forget Sandpaper Sally-prior to the invention of astroglide.

Some of us come to realize that if we can't find women willing to suck our cocks, men have the potential to do just as good of a job, or better (since they know how they like it). And you don't necessarily have to pre wine and dine them like you would a woman

Shallow, maybe. But once you're over 50, you face that time is running out

I know for myself, as I got older I was open to trying new things. And once I had my first experience with another man at age 37, I was like, I've been missing out! Maybe the potential to be bi was always there, I didn't think about men when I was younger, and I have always chased women, but I've come to realized that men and women, transgender folks are all attractive to me!

I know for myself, as I got older I was open to trying new things. And once I had my first experience with another man at age 37, I was like, I've been missing out!

For god's sake man - what do our define as OLDER??? More power to you for discovering your sexuality at a YOUNG age of 37!!!! But give us OLDER guys (greater than 65??) some credit. 😄 😄

I'm in my late 60s.

My wife (now my housemate) became celibate after menopause. I've been bisexual all my life but when she quit I really changed. I don't really want to hook up with another woman. They prefer monogamy. So I have slid into men only. The rooster says, "Cock-a-doodle-doo" and I say "Any-cock'll-do". There are one or two men I've become very close to. I mean love.